Have you ever regretted leaving and breaking up with a girlfriend of yours and now, you are wanting to get her back for either one or two reasons?
Well this is just a simple thing to do if you plan it well and execute the tricks the right way. But then, there are many reasons why you would want to get her back and those reasons have different manners of approach so that you can successfully get down to those goals of yours.
#Reason 1: For one more round of hot s€x.
Wow! I think i got it right, or maybe wrong, but i have observed that many guys who kept wishing they could get their ex girlfriends back have this one goal of getting one more night of hot sexual intercourse with them.
Maybe you could not get that before you broke up, and now you have realized that you really need to get into her skirts and get something done. Or you want to have it once more with her.
Well that's an easy one, and am going to show you how.
#Reason 2: keeping her safe again in your arms.
Oh! You really enjoyed the times both of you spent together and those moments of happiness you shared. But for one reason or the other, the both of you decided to go for a breakup and now, you are no more together.
But then, you discovered that you cant just stop thinking of her and every moment of happiness you shared together kept rushing up your mind like crazy, and you kept regretting why you went for a break up. So you cant help it anymore and now, its time to get her back under your comfort and keep her more safe with you.
Well those are the two main reasons why men seek to get their ex back after a break up, but how do you go about doing it now and getting it right? Read on.
Getting your ex girlfriend back is one thing that can be done easily by using the right composition at the time set. Tapping just a few buttons on your cell phone can do this simple trick for you, a trick i call the "TEXTING SENSATION.".
But then, there are some mistakes men do when they text their ex girlfriend after a breakup and those kinds of text messages will damage their chances of winning her back.
Normally, these kinds of text messages are as a result of hash or non-inspiring breakups where the man runs out of logic and is emotionally heightened.
Sending the following kinds of text messages to your ex after a breakup will utterly destroy your chances of getting her back.
(Also Read: Finding a true lover who can be a potential partner to you )
#1. Disturbing her with too much texts in her inbox.
When you text your ex girlfriend too many messages after a breakup, it will be so annoying and stupid of you to her as she does not want to see you text or even call her again.
When you do this, it almost tells her the fact that you are still suffering from the trauma of the breakup and you are almost turning into a psycho.
Hell don't do that because if you do, she will start to loose any further attraction she has for you.
#2. Sending her hateful text messages.
This is just one mistake that will make her hate you more and even forget about you.
After a breakup, don't go around her inbox sending her messages that will get across a signal indicating your loss of attraction and affection towards her.
#3. Sending her overemotional texts that indicates begging.
When you do this, just be sure that you have totally lost your chances of getting her back.
When you cant control your emotions after a breakup and maybe, you settled for regrets other than moving on, then that is when emotional text messages come into your mind which if you send them to her, will tell her that you are begging to come back and that is just it, you blew your chances away.
Women want to be with a real man who are just themselves and who are probably been chased by other women. Making her know that you have not found any other woman or enjoying the company of other women will set her dating market value high and bring yours down and when that is done, you have lost it already.
So now you know the first thing, normally you have to text her if you want to win her back, but what will you text her? And at what time should you get the message across to her? Lets see into that now.
#Don't contact her for a period of time.
Yea, a lot of guys says it works while some says you need to put more effort before it could work.
Well what matters after a break up is giving each other personal space and time to recover from the pains and sadness that accompanied the break up.
So if you want to get her back, you don't have to start the test immediately after the breakup, you should go on a no contact situation for sometimes, and the time you are to be away and out of sight depends on when she finally decides to settle and get over things.
At this period, make sure that you don't have any real situation that will make you get back to her, just be out of sight, view and reach. You can do that for up to a month and when that is done you can proceed to the next step.
#Getting Her jealous using fake texts and fake calls.
Okay this sounds am advising you to make her think that you have moved on with a new girl, but that's not the point here.
When you send her a fake text that makes her to understand that it is meant for another woman, it makes her feel jealous about the false news that you are dating a new girl.
Types of fake text.
It depends on the level of jealousness you want to make her feel, for example you can just fake a text reading "Hey! Am coming over to your place tonight, make sure you don't forget to keep my promise ready. bye"
Example 2: "Hey what should i buy for you while coming? Don't tell me ice cream this time around, waiting ASAP."
Well it all depends on you, create a fake text that will create an emotional feeling within her and then, just text it to her. She will feel that its real but then, she knows and gets the signal that the message was not meant for her, so she will call you back to confirm and clarify if it was meant for her or another person. You should make sure you do this occasionally.
Now you have got a chance to talk a little, just throw in one or two emotional lines to her and then leave her that way, you can now tell her that it was meant for someone else but not a girlfriend, yes, make sure she does not feel like you have got a new girl else, your plans will naturally fail.
Fake calls from another girl.
If you really want to get her back, then doing this should never be a problem to you.
To do this, you need to find another woman, either your sister or any female friend you can convince to do such a thing.
Then here is what to do.
Tell them to call your ex's number, then let her ask about you and get her feel that something is happening upstairs.
This act will make her feel jealous and also, make her to know that you are wanted by other girls.
(Also Read: How to end a relationship when you are not sure about the future of your relationship )
#Additional Steps.
Hey man, there are no special tricks on how to win her back, it all depends on how you go about it.
The time you take before trying to get into her affairs is one important factor that determines the state of you getting her back.
Okay now here is another tip, how about if you just get an ally to help you talk back to her face to face? Maybe you have a male friend who also happened to be close to that your ex girlfriend, now get him play the game along with you, give him some catchy lines to use and get that message across to her.
For example, you can ask him to tell her something like "Hey, you just need to watch your boyfriend and keep a close eye on him, many girls have been chasing him and trying to talk to him these days, and he have been talking about you since the past week, i guess he don't wanna break your heart, so watch him dear.".
After getting your friend to say something like that to her, she might show to him that you both are no more together, but that doesn't matter, what matters is that you want to get signal across to her which you have done, that is enough to get her think about you for the whole day.
#The "I just want us to be friends again" text.
After you have done all those things above, am sure that the ground is now leveled and you can walk up to her without getting hurt.
So why not just pick up your cell phone, get on your messages box and type in a text that tells her you just want to be friends again?
That's so simple, easy and very emotional but friendly, isn't it? So after texting her that way, she will never resist becoming friends with you again, and from there, the old times will naturally come back and things will get on.
Here is an example of what to text her: "Hi _____(her name), am just happy with myself that i have moved on and even though we broke up, i never thought we will end that way, but i really want us to be friends, just that am okay, let me know what you think okay?".
When you have sent her that kind of a text, her emotions will flow and she will almost get that feeling of love for you, and if she does not, she will still get back to your text.
Every breakup is unique in its own way, and every breakup does not go the same way, some breakups goes after much exchange of hateful words, fighting and throwing of properties, while some just ends in the coolest way you can ever think of.
Also, every woman is unique and totally different in her reaction to a breakup, and what worked for that other woman might not work for the other. And also depending on the way the breakup happened, chances are that you will have to exercise much patience and widen your tactics towards winning her back, we will talk about that in our upcoming articles, just stay with us.
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