Have your boyfriend ever showed displeasure and turned away in reaction to some things you do? If yes, then you are probably among the list of annoying girlfriends with habits that men always hate.
Its not like as if your man does not love you when he acts or does something strange some moments in your relationship, but the reason is that there are some girlfriend habits in you that your man probably don't like, and it annoys him when he sees you acting in such annoying forms.
A friend of mine in college once told me that he had a girlfriend, and he loves her so much, and she loves him too but then, there are many things she does that he is not comfortable with and whenever she does them, it annoys him.
More so, i have learnt about many other girlfriend habits that men do hate in their girlfriends and am going to show you some of the common and recent ones hitting most relationships today.
So as a woman, if you find out that some of your habits made a list among those common habits, then just know that your man has not always been happy with that.
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(1) The first among the list is Wearing too much makeup on your body parts.
This habit is one of those that annoys me the most.
Its crystal clear that we always like to see our woman attractive and we want everyone to find her attractive but then, who is she attracting by the way?
Your natural beauty and looks are far more better for us than those makeups you are putting on, painting your finger nails with different colors like rainbow, do you expect us to like that? And then, you paint your lips with colors that turns them blue, red or pinky, how on earth do you want us to kiss your natural adorable lips?
I mean just think of it, its not worth it at all, and it makes us more angry when you do all those makeups and everything only to find out that you are going out in that form to a party, or to hang out with your friends, or to a special occasion.
Look, the truth be told, we adore and respect your real and natural beauty more than those makeup looks that turns you almost like a cartoon and besides, no man wants to hear another man tell him that his girlfriend wears too much makeup and doesn't look original and natural.
(2) A bad breathing habit.
I will be the angriest man ever if my girlfriend cant brush up her teeth and take good foods.
I mean is that fair enough for your man to be sitting beside you and while in a conversation, he can only notice you breathing badly with some unpleasant smell savouring from your mouth and then, he can even notice that your teeth are yellowish?
For goodness sake, it pisses us off and we don't just like it, we will be afraid to take you out because people will notice and we will be the ones to bear the shame.
We don't like it when our girlfriends have poor hygiene especially on the oral aspect, it irritates us that we even hate to kiss when you are having that habit in you.
(3) Lack of any sense of humour.
I also hate this aspect about any girlfriend and i have meet some with this habit and seriously, it gets me off the edge.
Though you can be intelligent and knowledgeable but then, humour and the sense of humour is another thing that if you don't have, it turns everything about you boring.
There was a girlfriend i once had and it happened that i was telling her a very funny joke but to my surprise, she responded in a negative way that signifies she did not understand anything about the joke.
I was very displeased and not happy at all that my girlfriend could not understand jokes, even the most straight forward jokes.
I have seen girlfriends who do not laugh or joke to their boyfriends, that is to say, they are straight forward and it irritates and bore us away.
Try to be lively, joke and laugh, just loosen your mind a bit and try to put on some humorous habits, that's when we start knowing what we are doing.
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(4) Being comfortable with other men than with him.
Hey we actually get angry and do question this action most times.
You know that you are my girlfriend, and that you totally own everything about me and you are free and allowed to express your mind and feelings to me than any one, then why on earth will you be hanging out with other men, flirting with them in a happy way and even allowing them to feel feely touchy with you to the extent that they might think you are single?
We sometimes fail to understand why and despite the fact we are secured about your feelings for us, you still don't feel always comfortable with us just like the way you do with those other men. We don't just enjoy and like that feeling we get when we see that happening.
(5) Taking too long before you turn up.
Every girlfriend is a victim to this act, even my girlfriend and i hate it so much.
Why will you tell me that you will be done within just 10 minutes but you end up returning to meet me or call my mobile after almost 1 hour? Is that fair enough?
When your man have a tight schedule and you both have to be on together, and you keep delaying the timing and keep him waiting, he will no tolerate that and some day, he will start nagging about that.
(6) Lies and gossip about others and everything.
I hate it when my girlfriend lie to me about something i know is true.
Why will you not just stop lying and start becoming honest in your relationship? It will only help to build up the trust that rests on the relationship.
When you lie about those calls you are receiving 24/7, and you lie about some facts in your past relationship life, lie about the number of men you have dated, lie about the places you went to, etc.
Another aspect women enjoy and does most is this gossip part. Gossiping about people and their life, and talking about all sort of things at their back, it is a very bad habit and i will leave if i found out that my girlfriend is someone not different.
We don't really care about all those information, but we will appreciate your truth and honesty in the relationship, that is the only way we can say if the relationship is going to last or not.
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So those are just some of those habits in you that we hate, if you can hastily walk away from them, then your man will be proud of you, but if you cant just stop and you continue in them, then make sure you start to number your days as your relationship might be cut short.
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