Many people who are already in a relationship have this common challenge of having feelings and attraction for someone else outside the relationship.
This issue have grown to be a major problem many people do face in their relationships.
Sometimes you are tempted to ask,
Sometimes you are tempted to ask,
Am i not matured enough to love one person?
Am i not so in love with him/her?
Am i not enjoying all the sex we do have?
Why do i keep feeling attraction for that other person?
But then, all those questions you might be tempted to ask will not really solve the problem here. You can be in a relationship that you enjoy all those things, and people can almost say you are in a healthy relationship but despite that, you find out that you were able to have feelings and attraction for someone else.
You can feel a natural attraction for someone and this kind of feeling is not very harmful or meaningful in any ones life, but the one that makes it more complicated confusing is when you are feeling something more than just the normal attraction and feelings for someone.
Reasons Why You Feel Attracted to Someone Else.
There are many reasons why you might be having feelings for someone else despite that you are in a relationship.
It can be that you just went into the relationship not because you really like your partner, but because you were eager to be in a relationship and that your partner showed interest in you, and so when you saw someone new out there, you were able to still grab attraction for them despite the fact that you are in a relationship.
There are many reasons why you might be having feelings for someone else despite that you are in a relationship.
It can be that you just went into the relationship not because you really like your partner, but because you were eager to be in a relationship and that your partner showed interest in you, and so when you saw someone new out there, you were able to still grab attraction for them despite the fact that you are in a relationship.
At times, it can also happen that you are even in a dedicated relationship that have been for long, but then you just found out that you were just getting attracted to someone new even right inside your relationship.
Your heart is just like an organisation, which operates on its own and in ways that suits its interest, so for the fact that your heart saw someone new and started to like that new person, then you cannot stop your dear heart from doing that.
Well, whatever step you take in this situation is surely going to make a change in your relationship life.
(Also Read: How To End a Relationship You Are No More Interested In Keeping )
(Also Read: How To End a Relationship You Are No More Interested In Keeping )
#What Do You Really Want?
Sometimes, the reason why these feelings grow and become harmful to you is when you are not able to know what you really want in the relationship you are said to involve in.
Sometimes, the reason why these feelings grow and become harmful to you is when you are not able to know what you really want in the relationship you are said to involve in.
So you should be able to learn about those things you want in your relationship and the things you want in a partner.
When you are able to know these things and mark them out, it will help and aid you towards taking your next step towards handling that new person that is trying to create a break in your current relationship.
When you are able to know these things and mark them out, it will help and aid you towards taking your next step towards handling that new person that is trying to create a break in your current relationship.
#Checkout On Your Relationship.
There was a time i was having troubles in my relationship and the reason was just because my girlfriend was looking outside the relationship. And initially, it was because i refused to have sex and i was reluctant to accepting her request for that, so this situation she found herself in can be equated to this subject matter.
There was a time i was having troubles in my relationship and the reason was just because my girlfriend was looking outside the relationship. And initially, it was because i refused to have sex and i was reluctant to accepting her request for that, so this situation she found herself in can be equated to this subject matter.
You need to checkout on your relationship and consider those things you really want in your relationship and from your partner. So if those things that you want are all there, and you feel like there is no wrong in your relationship, then the best thing that you can do to help your situation is to get over that feeling you are having for the other person and take it to be only natural.
After doing that, you will see that everything goes either the right way, or the wrong way. If you find out that your relationship is lacking many things that you know you actually want, and you are thinking or you have hope that you will get those things from your new crush, then its simply more than a natural attraction that you are feeling for him/her.
After identifying those things you want in your relationship, and then you compare them with what you are getting in your current relationship. If they work along, then you should forget about that new crush of yours and dedicate yourself with your current relationship. But if you are lacking and you feel like you need something better, then the best thing you can do to help your situation is to check out on your new crush, perhaps, maybe its time to try something new, no big deal buddy.
#Staying in Your Current Relationship Despite Your New Feelings For Someone Else.
Sometimes, its hard to admit that you are having a new feeling of attraction for someone else despite that you are in a relationship.
But then, when you started your current relationship, you experienced happy and joyful moments of love sharing and you can even testify that the first stage of your relationship was more fun and exiting than any other thing you are feeling now.
Sometimes, its hard to admit that you are having a new feeling of attraction for someone else despite that you are in a relationship.
But then, when you started your current relationship, you experienced happy and joyful moments of love sharing and you can even testify that the first stage of your relationship was more fun and exiting than any other thing you are feeling now.
You might be tempted to think that your new crush is the one giving you all the joy and happiness your heart needs, while your relationship is growing old and just getting boring, but its not so true.
When your relationship is still standing firm and rigid, and you have no single reason to break up, then why are you still thinking of your new crush? The best thing you can do to help your relationship to continue is to talk to crush and though you know what you are feeling and they might be feeling so too, so what you have to do is to tell them that you just want to be friends and that is all, once you are able to do that, then everything will move along well.
But if you are sincerely not happy in your relationship anymore and you have a reason or more reasons to breakup, then you should go ahead and find yourself new happiness with your new crush. But then, you should think of this, Are you going to be changing partners every time?
If you are always changing partners and you keep jumping from one relationship to another, then you cant be able to learn anything about how to grow and nurture your relationship, so you can never grow in your relationship life.
#Honesty With Your Current Partner.
If your relationship is facing such problems that might make you want to switch partner, then its time to talk to your significant other about what is happening to you and the relationship.
If your relationship is facing such problems that might make you want to switch partner, then its time to talk to your significant other about what is happening to you and the relationship.
Honesty with your partner is a key that can unlock all those doors of opportunity for a better future. If you are taking your relationship serious and will want to embark on a long lasting relationship, then the needy part of the whole situation is to talk to your partner and make them amend those causes of failures in the relationship.
Also, you have to tell your partner about your new crush and the feelings developing for them in your heart, then explain to your partner the reasons why you don't need a new partner, and make them know that you really love to continue your relationship with them.
After doing all those things, and you have tried everything possible to make sure that you start getting new results in your current relationship, then you have done good. Giving your relationship a second chance is always a good idea to make everything in the relationship change.
So after all that shots and tries, nothing changed and maybe, things even keep getting worst, then you must have to consider trying out your new crush and get some new fun and excitements.
(Also Read: How to Deal With a Breakup And Avoid Making Things Worst )
(Also Read: How to Deal With a Breakup And Avoid Making Things Worst )
You Should Respect Your Personality As a Good Person.
When things like this are happening and it happens that you are in a relationship, your personality and respect will work a great deal in keeping you on the right side of action.
When things like this are happening and it happens that you are in a relationship, your personality and respect will work a great deal in keeping you on the right side of action.
First of all, when people know you as a good person who actually have a repetition to keep and maintain, they would not like to make you get involved in anything that will make you to harm others.
One of the easiest thing to do while in a relationship is cheating, and the reason why its easy is because it does not require any special action or communication strategy, it is effortless and can take any form.
When that your new crush is able to know that you are in a relationship and you are dedicated to keeping it without breaking anything from it, then they will walk away, and for them to know that you are in a relationship, it depends on how you relate with them and act whenever you are close to them.
A person that is in a relationship have a personality different from that of the person who is not yet in a relationship.
There are many people who have turned and walked away from you because they know you are already in a relationship, so why do you want to allow this new person without getting to know what is happening and why its happening.
There are many people who have turned and walked away from you because they know you are already in a relationship, so why do you want to allow this new person without getting to know what is happening and why its happening.
To wrap it up and end this article, you should be able to learn that being genuine and honest in your relationship is very challenging and many people in relationships today are lacking those two components necessary for the well being of a relationship.
But to be the best among the rest of the other people in a relationship, you must be able to pass through that challenge and become outstanding in handling situations as regarding to feeling attraction for someone and having the love for the other.
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