Saturday 17 October 2015

Ladies, If Your Guy Has These 22 Habits, Marry Him Right Now


Ladies,lemme just tell you the truth...A good man is not easy to find this days but if you are lucky to have a man that has these 22 characters you are about to read below,pleasehold tight and never let him go!


1. He knows your breakfast order by heart.
Whether it's a toasted whole wheat sesame bagel with scrambled eggs and cheese and freshly squeezed orange juice or just black coffee. He'll run out to pick it up or take you with him and recite your order by heart. He pays attention to the details of what you like.


2. He checks in on his way home.
With a quick text, "Leaving the bar in 10 minutes. See you soon…" he lets you know that he hasn't forgotten you, and that he's ready to be with his favorite person again. He's not sending this text because he thinks you're paranoid, needy or insecure. He sends it out of mutual respect. He knows that giving you a head's up prevents you from worrying about his safety or his level of sobriety. And it reminds you that he realizes the best part of his night has yet to begin.
It's also keeping you in the loop so you can cue up the movie you've been waiting to watch together.


3. He takes care of you.
He'll grab you an Advil and a glass of water if you have a headache. He'll hit the pharmacy for some tissues and cough meds and pick up chicken noodle soup when you have a bad head cold. He'll force you to take zinc lozenges and nudge you to see a doctor when you claim to be too busy to make an appointment.

4. He calls during the day just to check in.
He may have a funny story to share or he might simply want to see how work is going. He'll often try to convince you to shut down early so you can spend time together.


5. He's great with kids.
In fact, you're pretty sure he could run a sports camp of some type. Kids flock to him and are eager to spend time with him. He's a great role model. His upbeat personality and enthusiasm are infectious. There are huge grins on children's little faces when he's around.


6. He makes time for you.
No matter how busy things get for him, he'll never forget to set aside consistent alone time with you. You're a priority to him, so he's not afraid to turn down plans with "the guys" in favor of some QT with his lady.

7. He's responsive to each and every one of your calls and texts.
He'll never go missing for multiple days in a row. He's
reliable. He won't stand you up when you have plans. He doesn't ask for rain checks because excuses are not part of his DNA. He's not one to be consistently late because he cares enough to be on time.


8. He doesn't keep in touch with ex-girlfriends.
He knows that once a relationship is over, there is no good that can come from staying in close contact, particularly once he's in a new relationship. There are no strange phone numbers popping up on his cell phone. Not that you know this because you don't even feel the need to cybersnoop.


9. He randomly buys you scratch lotto cards.
He loves handing you a coin and watching you uncover the numbers on the card. You'll plan together what you'd do with the money if you should win. He's a dreamer. And you love dreaming with him.


10. On certain occasions, you receive heartfelt gifts
accompanied by thoughtful greeting cards.
You're into birthdays and anniversaries, so he is happy to celebrate them with you. If he knows you're into writing, he'll get you a beautiful journal.
He inserts his humor into presents, too. For instance, if he sings you your favorite song, he'll change the words to lyrics so they're about that annoying co-worker you've been telling him about.


11. He'll be a homebody when you'd rather be at home with his hot body.
Instead of getting dressed up and spending a lot of money on a big night out, he's ecstatic to stay in and curl up on the couch with you to watch a movie and order takeout. His back-to-back partying nights are behind him and he's perfectly okay with it.

12. He still screams like a 7-year-old boy when his favorite football team scores a touchdown.
He will be loyal to his team no matter how many times they lose, how many quarterbacks they go through in one season, or how far down the rankings they fall. This loyalty will be passed down to his relationships with family, friends, and even his future spouse. Once devoted, he's in it for life.


13. He's still regularly in touch with several of his childhood friends.
Each considers your guy his best friend. He makes the time to call them back to find out what's going on with them and will find a way to connect with them despite living in different cities and time zones.


14. He over-tips the wait staff at restaurants on a regular basis and is exceptionally polite to service industry workers in general.
You know that if he cares enough to treat total strangers with respect that he'd do that times ten for you, and everyone else he loves.


15. He's mature.
He is not one to get swept up in the crowd's momentum without making his own decisions. If several of his friends are doing whiskey shots until 4 AM, he's the one making sure the tab is paid and that everyone gets home safely.

16. He's incredibly handsome without trying.
He's low maintenance and dresses for comfort. The more you've gotten to know him, the better looking he's become. He couldn't care less what brand your jeans are or how high your heels are. He finds you beautiful in everything.


17. He says at least one thing every day that makes you crack up.
It's not always intentional—sometimes, it's just his outlook on things. Though he definitely gets your sense of humor and loves to make you laugh.


18. He knows how to handle you when you're in a bad mood.
Whether it's letting you rant for ten minutes straight while you go on about the incredibly selfish friend you have or to force you to go for a walk. He knows better than to start pressing b*ttons when you're in this state and he'll always take your side, even if you're wrong.


19. He's secure enough to love your strengths.
He supports and encourages your independence, which is what he loves about you. He respects your need to keep up your own friendships but is happy to join you when invited.


20. He smells really good.
When you hug him, you just want to keep on hugging him, just to breathe in his amazing scent that encapsulates the unique impression he makes. You hope that whatever you're wearing will absorb just a little bit of his magic and hold on tight to it, releasing traces of it sporadically throughout your day.


21. He's your biggest fan.
When someone asks him about you, he lights up and
proudly describes someone that you're excited to be. He celebrates your successes because he's someone who knows you inside and out and can appreciate both your struggles and achievements.

My Sweet And Lovely House Boy (Part 2)

This is the continuation of My Sweet And Lovely Houseboy Part 1, If you missed Part One, CLICK HERE TO READ IT.
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I woke up yawning and stretching, my body, I opened my eyes, I did my prayers, took unto my slippers and went to the bathroom, took my toothbrush and Tunde had already made breakfast I went to the dinning and eat in the same table with Tunde, he was sitting directly opposite me , I was still strained by the heart break my boyfriend had caused the previous day I didn't even answer him when he said good morning, I felt fatigue and a huge loss of appetite that made me eat little. But Tunde was eating like a hungry lion..
Tunde: you enjoy the food right?
Me: No!
Tunde: its really nice, I think you're not feeling too well, the chicken is really great.
Me: Na you sabi ***remembering the incident last night that someone had covered me with a blanket***
Me: Who covered me a blanket last night?
Tunde: I did. I saw you felt cold and folded your body so tight, so I thought I might help by covering you the blanket.
Me: hmmm..
***I felt cared for, when he said that, but isn't he crossing his boundary?***
Me: don't try that next time, okay? You know my father will not take it lightly if he were to find out you really did that. Let it not repeat itself, is that clear?
Tunde: Crystal clear sir, I mean madam
Me: ahaha, you're a real funny boy, but you need to understand that I don't like being played with okay?
Tunde: Okay.
***i stood up and took the toothpicks, as I got chicken meat hooked all over my teeth***.
I was a bit bored that day, my father had called earlier and asked how I was faring, after so much phone conversation he decided to hang up. I was bored and went to Tunde's room to call him and ask if he could play chess which I'm sure he can, I walked down the stairs after failed attempts of him being available, I walked through and I entered his room without knocking, surprisingly i saw him Naked!!! I quickly shut the door... And stood outside his door
Me: oh, I'm sorry, I'm really sorry about this okay
Tunde: there's nothing to worry about, its my fault really, I left the door opened
***He quickly wore his boxer and opened the door***
Me: okay, i just came to find out if you can play chess with me?
Tunde: why not... ***he dressed up quickly***
We went to the parlour, played chess and laughed with, I thought to myself, "I think I'm falling in love with this guy", he played better than me, as he played he kept on staring at me till I don't know how I kissed him....
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Wednesday 14 October 2015

My Sweet And Lovely House Boy (Part 1)

It was a pleasant morning, and its just been a week since my twentieth birthday, I heard a voice from upstairs, Shade! Shade!, ah, it was my dad, (he is going to London for a business trip, and I'm on holidays, my mom travelled to Dubai last week and won't be coming home for a long time, and now my dad is also leaving... ) Yes daddy, I answered.

Dad: Shade, as I told you earlier, I'll be travelling to London to spend some days there, I know you'll be left alone and you'll miss me and your mom, its for the best, we need to upgrade our company and increase the demanding rate by our customers.

Me: (I don't even understand what he's saying) okay dad ***with a smile on my face***

Dad: okay, before I forget, Tunde our new house boy will be looking after the house, Tunde! Tunde! He shouted.

------Tunde walked in--------

Tunde: Yes sir, I'm here sir **looking excited**

Dad: You will follow all what she will tell you, you'll also not fail or disobey her orders unless you want to sleep in sale

Tunde: ah yes sir, I'll not fail you sir

Dad: okay Shade, I'll be on my way

Me: okay bye dad.. I love you dad, safe journey **i said smiling as his driver came and drove himoff***

My father had reached the airport when he called me saying he is about to leave, I then prayed on the phone for him and he hanged up telling me to take good care of my Self.

Immediately I called my boyfriend, I asked him to come over to my place that my father had now travelled, I waited for hours and was just staring at my wrist watch when tunde showed up putting on a short boxer and a singlet.

*****Tunde was a student at the university of Lagos, doing computer science, he's fairly tall, slim and muscular with a dark complexion, he speaks good English and from my dad's theory, he needed to raise enough money to pay his school fees and buy a new laptop of about 200,000naira for his project in school. Being a house boy or girl for our family can fetch a huge fortune, and tunde was lucky because my dad knew his parents so well*****

Tunde: Shade, what will you like to eat for the afternoon?

Me: ***Staring at his muscular and s*xy body*** Nothing! Don't disturb me okay?

Tunde: I'm sorry, I can see you're sad by the departure of dad, accept my apology miss shade

Me: Apology accepted, leave now jare....
****even if i schooled abroad, I still knew a little yoruba, and i noticed he smiled when i included “Jare” to my sentence***

I was still very worried as its almost getting late and i haven't seen any sign of my boyfriend, as he told me he'll come visiting and come spend some intimate time with me ***sounds funny but I'm still a virgin at 20*** I waited a couple of hours and bang! My phone ranged...

Boyfriend: hello sweetheart

Me: why honey, I've waited decades for you to come over, what's keeping you boo?

Boyfriend: honey, I got caught up with some important stuffs, and you know my dad came and he needs me to help him arrange some important documents.

Me: aww why now! Your dad is really getting between us.

Boyfriend: Honey g2g now my dad is here already
***Cuts the call***

Ah, I felt really bad and worried, its been a long time since I really talked with him, he was literally mad at me after I refused to have s*x with him, but it seemed he has gotten past all that. I decided to go see him myself, I carried the car key, entered the car and Drove off to his house, I horned, and the gateman yelled, "oga no wan see anybody today o..." I guessed he did not see my car, he just shouted out of ignorant... I yelled back "Musa! Musa! Open the gate"

Musa: oh, madam shade, I no know sey na you

Me: you'd better not known, as I drove and parked my motor vehicle I spotted his car, I asked the gate man;

Me: musa, is my boyfriend around?

Musa: miss shade, me I see am for oga e waka with one fine girl enter inside room. Pha, since morning.

Me: have you seen his dad?

Musa: oga father nodae in town o... Me I no see am for oga father

Me: okay musa thank you very much. ***i removed 1,000Naira note from my purse and handed it to him. ***He smiled and said "Nagode"(Nagode is a hausa word for Thank you"*****

I walked into the house with full confidence knowing my boyfriend can never cheat on me, he always says he loved me and will never cheat on me. ***I opened the door***

Me: Jesus! Wha What Are you do dooing? I....i...TrUsted you...***burst into tears***

Boyfriend: its not what you think, please wait ***he held my hand***

Me: don't touch me! Don't even dare! I hate you disgusting bastard!

Random girl: leave her, let's enjoy what we were doing...

Boyfriend: shut up you harlot!

Me: sobs, **cleaned my tears and carried my bag and drove off**
I reached home, feeling heart broken and depressed... Then Tunde walks in...

Tunde: hey shade, where have you been, you just drove off and seemed you'll never return

Me: I'm not in the mood to make jokes okay? Just get lost

Tunde: okay, I'm sorry if I'm bugging you

Me: mtcheew...

I was really tired, to add again the heartbreak, I couldn't even eat anything the whole day till it was late and i didn't even know when I fell asleep but I was a bit conscious and I remember quite vividly that i didn't sleep with a blanket on, but someone covered me my blanket who could it be if not Tunde?

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