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There is a right way and a wrong way to get to know someone for marriage. The wrong way is to get caught up in the excitement and nuance of a budding relationship and in the process completely forget to ask the critical questions that help determine compatibility. One of the biggest mistakes that many young Muslims make is rushing into marriage without properly and thoroughly getting to know someone.</div>
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A common myth is that the duration of a courtship is an accurate enough measure of how compatible two people are. The logic follows that the longer you speak with someone, the better you will know them. The problem with that premise is that no consideration is given to how that time is spent.</div>
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Increasingly, young Muslim couples are engaging in “halal dating,” which is basically socializing with each other in the company of friends and/or family. This includes going out to dinner, watching a movie, playing some sport or other leisure activity, etc. Depending on the family or culture, conversations are either minimal & chaperoned or worse, unrestricted and unsupervised. When you consider these limitations it makes one wonder when exactly, if ever at all, would the critical conversations take place? Unfortunately, for many, the answer is never and they live to suffer the consequences. If you or someone you know is in the “getting to know someone” phase, the following guide offers advice on exactly what to look for and avoid:</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: red;">1) Do Not Marry Potential:</span></b></div>
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Often times men consider marrying a woman hoping she never changes while a woman considers marrying a man she hopes she can change. This is the wrong approach on both accounts. Don’t a$$ume that you can change a person after you’re married to them or that they will reach their potential. There is no guarantee, after all, that those changes will be for the better. In fact, it’s often for the worse. If you can’t accept someone or imagine living with them as they are then don’t marry them. These differences can include a number of things such as ideological or practical differences in religion, habits, hygiene, communication skills, etc.</div>
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While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love” should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love. The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness. Here’s a breakdown of each trait:</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">– Humility:</b></div>
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The humble person never makes demands of people but rather always does right by them. They put their values and principles above convenience and comfort. They are slow to anger, are modest, and avoid materialism.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">– Kindness:</b></div>
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The kind person is the quintessential giver. They seek to please and minimize the pain of others. To know if a person is a giver, observe how they treat their family, siblings, and parents. Do they have gratitude towards their parents for all that they’ve done for them? If not, then know that they will never appreciate what you do for them. How do they treat people they don’t have to be kind towards (i.e. waiters, sales a$$ociates, employees, etc)? How do they spend their money? How do they deal with anger; their own anger and their reaction to someone else’s anger?</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">– Responsibility:</b></div>
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A responsible person has stability in their finances, relationships, job, and character. You can you rely on this person and trust what they say.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">- Happiness:</b></div>
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A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about their life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they don’t have. They very rarely complain.</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: red;"><b style="box-sizing: border-box;">3) Do Not Neglect The Emotional Needs of Your Partner:</b></span></div>
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Both men and women have emotional needs and in order for a partnership to be successful those needs must be mutually met. The fundamental emotional need of a woman is to be loved. The fundamental emotional need of a man is to be respected and appreciated.</div>
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To make a woman feel loved give her the three AAAs: Attention, Affection, & Appreciation. To make a man feel loved give him the three RRRs: Respect, Rea$$urance, & Relief. It is the obligation of each partner to make sure the other is happy and this extends to intimacy as well. As long as each partner is fulfilled by the emotional needs of the other, the intimate relationship will thrive. When a man takes seriously the emotional needs of his wife she will feel more encouraged to fulfill his $exual desires. Likewise, when a woman takes seriously the emotional needs of her husband he will feel more encouraged to give her the affection, love and appreciation she wants from him. Working together in this way encourages both giving and receiving.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: red;">4) Avoid Opposing Life Plans:</span></b></div>
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In marriage you can either grow together or grow apart. Sharing a common purpose in life will increase the chance that you will grow together.</div>
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You must know what the person is into. In other words, what are they ultimately pa$$ionate about? Then ask yourself, “Do I respect this pa$$ion?” “Do I respect what they are into?”</div>
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The more specifically you define yourself, i.e., your values, your beliefs, your lifestyle, the better chance you have of finding your life partner, your soul mate, the one you are most compatible with.</div>
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Remember, before you decide who to take along on a trip, you should first figure out your destination.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: red;">5) Avoid Pre-Marital $exual/Physical Activity:</span></b></div>
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Recognize that there is incredible wisdom in why Allah has ordered us to refrain from intimacy before marriage; they are to prevent great harms as well as to keep sacred what is the most blessed part of a relationship between a man and a woman.</div>
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Aside from the obvious spiritual consequences, when a relationship gets physical before its time, important issues like character, life philosophy, and compatibility go to the wayside. Consequently, everything is romanticized and it becomes difficult to even remember the important issues let alone talk about them. Intellectual commitment must be established before emotional or $exual commitment.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: red;">6) Avoid Lack of Emotional Connection:</span></b></div>
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There are a number of questions that you must answer YES to:</div>
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1, Do I respect and admire this person?</div>
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2. What specifically do I respect and admire about this person?</div>
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3. Do I trust this person?</div>
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4. Can I rely on them? Do I trust their judgment? Do I trust their word? Can I believe what they say?</div>
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5. Do I feel Safe? Do I feel emotionally safe with this person? Can I be vulnerable? Can I be myself? Can I be open? Can I express myself?</div>
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6. Do I feel calm and at peace with this person?</div>
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If the answer is “I don’t know, I’m not sure, etc.” keep evaluating until you know for sure and truly understand how you feel. If you don’t feel safe now, you won’t feel safe when you are married. If you don’t trust now, this won’t change when you are married!</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: red;"><b style="box-sizing: border-box;">7) Pay Attention to Your Own Emotional Anxiety:</b></span></div>
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Choosing someone you don’t feel safe with emotionally is not a good recipe for a long-lasting and loving marriage. Feeling emotionally safe is the foundation of a strong and healthy marriage. When you don’t feel safe, you can’t express your feelings and opinions. Learn how to identify whether you are in an abusive relationship. If you feel you always have to monitor what you say, if you are with someone and you feel you can’t really express yourself and are always walking on eggshells, then it’s very likely you are in an abusive relationship. Look for the following things:</div>
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This includes controlling the way you act, the way you think, the way you dress, the way you wear your hair/hijab and the way you spend your time. Know the difference between suggestions and demands. Demands are an expression of control and if the demands are implied, than you must do it or there will be consequences. All of these are clear indications of abusive personalities.</div>
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This is someone who raises their voice on a regular basis, who is angry, gets angry at you, uses anger against you, uses put downs, and curses at you, etc. You don’t have to put up with this type of treatment. Many people who tolerate this behavior usually come from abusive backgrounds. If this is the case with you or someone you know, get help right away. Deal with those issues before getting married or before even thinking about getting married.</div>
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Many couples make the mistake of not putting everything on the table for discussion from the onset. Ask yourself, “What do I need to know to be absolutely certain I want to marry this person?” “What bothers me about this person or the relationship?” It’s very important to identify what’s bothering you, things that concern you, and things you are afraid to bring up for discussion. Then you must have an honest discussion about them.</div>
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This is a great way to test the strength of your relationship. Bringing up issues when there’s conflict is a great opportunity to really evaluate how well you communicate, negotiate, and work together as a team. When people get into power struggles and blame each other, it’s an indication they don’t work well as a team. Also important is being vulnerable around each other. Ask deep questions of each other and see how your partner responds. How do they handle it? Are they defensive? Do they attack? Do they withdraw? Do they get annoyed? Do they blame you? Do they ignore it? Do they hide or rationalize it? Don’t just listen to what they say but watch for how they say it!</div>
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It’s very important to remember no one else is responsible for your happiness. Many people make the mistake of thinking someone else will fulfill them and make their life better and that’s their reason for getting married. People fail to realize that if they are unhappy as a single person, they will continue to be miserable when they are married.</div>
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If you are currently not happy with yourself, don’t like yourself, don’t like the direction your life is going now, it’s important to take responsibility for that now and work on improving those areas of your life before considering marriage. Don’t bring these issues into your marriage and hope your partner will fix them.</div>
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Many people choose partners that are not emotionally healthy or available. One huge problem is when a partner is unable to balance the emotional ties to family members, the marriage ends up having 3 (or more) people in it rather than two. An example of this would be if a man is overly dependent on his mother and brings that relationship into the marriage; this is no doubt a recipe for disaster.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">1. Respect him: </b>A man is more likely to be satisfied in his relationship if he feels like he is respected by his woman. He wants to believe she considers him someone of honour and someone she is proud to call hers. Remind him that you respect him and show him that, through your attitude towards him.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">2. Admire him: </b>While women want to be reminded that they are beautiful, a man wants to feel admired by his partner. This is one of the reasons why a man would find himself being attracted to his subordinate as opposed to his superior. He wants someone who sees him as a man to be admired and be in awe of.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">3. Give him space: </b>Men and women process situations differently. While a woman is more likely to share her feelings to feel relief, most men would usually need some space to sort through their issues. When this happens, a man would need his partner to understand and give him his needed space without her making him feel bad about it.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">4. Care for him: </b>Men love to be cared for. They like to be nurtured through different ways. What this entails depends on the kind of relationship you share; it could be through cooking for him, massaging him, or doing all the other things he likes.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">6. Support his decisions:</b> Not only should a woman be on her man’s side, she should also be able to support the decisions he makes regarding the relationship and other aspect of his and his partner’s lives. She should be able understand the reasons behind decisions he makes and find ways to assist him in making his plans come to fruition.</div>
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Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-3004207442722091602015-11-17T00:33:00.002-08:002015-11-17T00:33:39.916-08:00Hot! Top 10 Female Erogenous Zones She Wished You Know<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Dr. Emily Morse provides insightful details on the most important places that get women in the mood anytime. You can't go wrong when you take care to tenderly play around these zones.</div>
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From her head all the way to her toes, here are 10 of the top erogenous zones to turn her on:</div>
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<strong>1. Her Head</strong></div>
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Have you ever been on the receiving end of a scalp massage and felt those warm fuzzy tingles from head to toe? That’s because the skin on the top of your head is loaded with nerves that are extremely sensitive to the touch. Stimulating the scalp in the right way releases a flood of feel-good hormones like serotonin and oxytocin. It also increases blood flow, not just to her brain (the largest sex organ, remember?) but all over her body.</div>
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Next time you and your partner are kissing or cuddling, open your fingers wide and run them slowly through her hair, lightly stroking her scalp with your fingertips. Start behind her ears, at the base of the head, and circulate to the front, kind of like you’re lathering shampoo into your hair. Scalp massages are both soothing and sensual: They help release tension, and get her in the mood for other stimulating activities.</div>
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Although ears contain a ton of tiny nerve endings that send pleasurable responses to the brain, they receive very little attention in their day to day; this makes them an even hotter spot to stimulate during sexy time. Still, not everyone is comfortable with full tongue-to-ear penetration so the trick is to start off start off slowly and work your way up to more full ear contact.</div>
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Start by lightly tracing the C-shaped outline of your partner’s ear with your fingertips or with your tongue. Gently kiss her earlobe or hold it lightly in your mouth and massage it with your lips. If she seems okay with this, you can take it as a green light to start to nibble or suck on the lobe. Once you become more comfortable with the landscape, try combining all of these moves together and every once and while, work your tongue into the center of her ear for a surprising but pleasurable sensation.</div>
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Another great way to stimulate this spot is with sound! Never underestimate the power of a low moan or a sultry whisper sent directly (but softly) into her ear canal to drive her mad with desire.</div>
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Lips are the most exposed of all erogenous zones, and are packed with a ton of nerve endings (100 times more than our fingertips) that are sensitive to even the slightest touch. Stimulating them releases floods of feel-good hormones to our brains that affect our emotions, as well as our lady parts. That’s why kissing is such an essential act for couples. It enhances intimacy and helps partners connect, plus it just feels good.</div>
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Lips can be best stimulated through kissing, obviously, but don’t be afraid to add a little variety to the way you’re pleasuring them! Your mouth should not be pressed up against hers like a dead fish. Use your lips, tongue and teeth to lick, nibble and caress her top and bottom lips. Every once in awhile, take a break from kissing to gently trace the outline of her lips with your thumb as you gaze into her eyes and catch your breath, before leaning in for more.</div>
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The neck is an area that is most sensitive to LIGHT sensations, and it’s also one of the sexiest places to touch, lick and kiss. Because the skin in this area is thin, it does not take a lot to make it feel good. Even the feeling of gentle breath on the nape of the neck can send shivers down a woman’s spine.</div>
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This is a great erogenous zone to start stimulating, even before your partner is fully aroused. Try sweeping her hair up and planting gentle, warm kisses along the side of her neck, close to the place you would touch to check a pulse. The skin here is especially thin, meaning every sensation will be magnified. Then you can kiss your way up to her earlobe for a gentle nibble or two before going in for the full lip lock.</div>
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Although men have been paying very special attention to nipple for years, it’s remarkable how few men know how to pleasure them to their full potential. Research shows that nipple stimulation is processed in the same region of the brain as touch to the clitoris and vagina, making it a key part of the holy trinity of female pleasure.</div>
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While gently massaging your partner’s breast with one hand, use your fingers or tongue to lightly trace the area around the areola, before placing your open mouth on her nipple. Try using your lips to softly hold the nipple in your mouth and run your tongue back and forth over it; use your lips and tongue to massage the area, paying attention to her bodily cues to determine what she likes best.</div>
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Besides licking and sucking, you can also use a clitoral vibrator (Like the We-Vibe Touch) on a low setting to lightly massage her nipples, as they are very sensitive to vibrations.</div>
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Whether it’s at the end of a long day, or just another Tuesday, no woman can resist the power of a sensual back massage. The back is riddled with muscles and nerves that respond positively to touch, and the small of the back is especially sensitive.</div>
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Start off by gently rubbing and caressing her back, focusing most of your attention to the sacrum, which is the area of her lower back just above the tailbone that is rich with nerve endings. Then you can start massaging the area right above her buttocks, using your thumbs to knead either side of (but not directly over) her spine. This maneuver becomes especially hot with the addition of some luxurious massage oil, like the moisturizing oil from Emily & Tony aromatherapy massage candles.</div>
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This move will not only help to relax your partner, but also increase blood flow to her pelvic region and increase its sensitivity. Perfect for what comes next!</div>
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Many women hold a lot of insecurities about their midsection, but the fact is that the abdomen is an extremely erotic area that should not be ignored. A woman’s abdominal muscles are connected to her vagina, which is why some women can even orgasm simply from doing core exercises. When these muscles are lightly stimulated during foreplay, it causes them to contract in anticipation, which actually boosts arousal. Plus, that stretch of skin between the breasts and pubic mound is loaded with nerve endings, and it’s proximity to the genitals makes it that more more sensitive to the touch.</div>
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With your partner straddling you, start slowly stroking your fingers up and down her stomach or across her lower abdomen (between her bellybutton and pubic mound) which will stimulate blood flow to her nether regions. Allow your strokes to get lower and lower, closer to her nether regions, then bring them back up. The anticipation will build arousal until she is begging you for more direct stimulation.</div>
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The clitoris is the only part of the human body that’s sole purpose is to provide pleasure. With 8,000 nerve endings packed in such a small little space, you’ve gotta respect that ratio!</div>
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Every clitoris is a little different in terms of sensitivity; even light pressure from fingertips may be too much for some ladies, while others can take a lot more stimulation. Start off light: Use two fingertips to gently massage the clitoris. Try using a circular motion, or switch it up with some up and down movements as well. Experiment with different speeds and pressure to see what works best for the recipient. Remember, this is not a rub n’ tug kind of experience, so be gentle. And a little lubrication certainly doesn’t hurt.</div>
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As anyone on the receiving end of a tickle fight will tell you, the inner thighs are ridiculously sensitive to all forms of touch. Along with the backs of her knees, the inner thighs are loaded with nerve endings and are often considered to be among the most sensitive parts of the body, so gentle touches and licks are most preferred.</div>
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Next time you’re planning on going down on your partner, take a detour and show a little love to her inner thighs. Use gentle finger strokes and light licks to stimulate the skin there, as well as soft breaths against the slightly moist spots where your tongue has just been. You can even massage her thighs while your perform oral on her, which will stimulate the blood-flow to her genitals, making everything your mouth is doing feel that much better.</div>
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You don’t have to have a fetish to be able to show your partner’s feet a little love. Many are surprised to find that a foot stimulation can actually be a real turn on! This is because there are pressure points in your feet that are believed to trigger sexual arousal, or at the very least, help her de-stress after a hard day.</div>
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Plop your partner’s feet into your lap and treat her (hopefully clean) tootsies to a sensual rub down. Start by massaging the pads of her feet, using your thumbs to rub upward in a circular motion. Repeat this kneading motion as you move slowly down the length of her foot, then move back up again all the way to the toes. Remember, this is not a strength competition, so ask her what type of pressure she prefers.</div>
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These six ideas are rarely done by men, which is sad because women love these moves so much. Remember: Whatever you choose to do, if you do it like you mean it, your honey will be giggling about you to her friends in no time. </div>
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<strong>1. Making out on the Couch, High School-style</strong></div>
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Dry humping and “kissathons” are fun because they take you right back to when you were a teenager and making out was exciting and adventurous. Couch make-out sessions take the pressure off a girl from having to take her clothes off and be ready for sex, allowing her to relax and enjoy the moment. Women like to be teased. Making out with her for hours and never moving into the bedroom will get her so turned on she’ll be wanting you more than ever before.</div>
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The rules: Use the skills you gained in high school. Dry humping is one of the greatest turn-ons known to mankind, because it is so suggestive without the actual skin-on-skin touching. It has an element of driving hard for what is inaccessible. The many layers of clothing provide the padding for the crazed writhing that ensues a good D.H. session. Playing with your clothes on could ordinarily be construed as lazy or immature, but not when you are doing it deliberately. Keeping clothes on can be very sexy. </div>
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Risky, light touching in inappropriate places when sex cannot happen right then and there is very hot to women and it warms you both up nicely for later. For example, a warm hand up her top during a movie, or a hand down the side of her pants while you choose a song from the jukebox at a bar gets her feeling tingly in all the right places. </div>
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The rules: Stop! Keep her wanting: Give her a taste of it then pull back and watch her rub up against you and begin to purr. The trick with this little baby is she knows you can’t have sex. Reverse psychology is your friend; she wants what she can’t have. By the time you get somewhere you can have sex, she will be tearing at your clothes like a wild woman. </div>
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<strong>3. Deep tongue kissing</strong></div>
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The long, lingering kiss that doesn’t progress anywhere (just yet) is the sort of kiss that will moisten up her underwear in no time flat, but is deep and long and slow. She likes it when you savor her, and doing this gets her hot under the collar.</div>
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Deep tongue kissing is one of many formulas to turning you both on. Apparently, we like deep tongue kissing because it mimics sex — the wet, writhing, sucking, licking motions get our juices flowing and almost always kick-start our sexual desire. Increased saliva flow is associated with higher arousal, which makes sense — the wetter the better. Save the slobbering though. </div>
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The rules: The trick with this one is to choose the proper time and place for this long kiss, and not to overpower her with too much tongue or speed. It is quite hard to know when a big French kiss is going to go down well. Everyone loves a decent “snog,” but all people are slightly different, so choose your moment and make it good.</div>
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Instead of using the kiss as a two second start to sex, use it as a moment to share your passion. Kissing is an intimate sport, creating more intimacy and closeness between two people, whether it be an emotional closeness, a sexual one or both. </div>
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When you flip her onto her stomach, and turn her "main zones" away from you, you are saying to her, “I am not just after the ‘prize,’ I want to make you feel good.” This will allow her to relax and get her juices flowing more than ever. A good erotic massage will sexualize and wake up new parts of her body, increasing the scope of her pleasure. </div>
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The rules: Don’t put her to sleep. Massages, especially after a hard week’s work or a heavy night of drinking, can easily slip a woman into sleep mode. The trick to giving a good erotic massage is to keep it sensuous, which means taking breaks between touches to lick and kiss her, and involving her whole body. Stroke her with your whole hand and enjoy her curves while you do this.</div>
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The effect of the erotic massage is that it creates occasional deep and delicious feelings while generating light and tickly feelings as you glide and graze your hands and fingers over her. These tickly feelings keep the brain and skin active and awake, while relaxing and arousing her at the same time. </div>
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Use a small amount of oil, because using too much oil with cover the gentle friction of your hands on her skin, and can end up giving an itchy feeling which isn’t sexy. Be careful where you put oil if you are using condoms, as it breaks down latex quickly. Use long strokes going down her body, all the way to her feet.</div>
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A good place to end is on her butt. Let her tell you with her writhing when she is ready for you to go further. Butt massages are the absolute best, and once you start there, she won’t want you to stop. The easiest way to encourage her arousal from a bum massage is to include her inner thighs occasionally, and skate near her anus and vaginal lips, without actually touching them but just very slightly brushing past them with your fingers. The tease will drive her wild, and before you know it, she'll be begging for more of you. </div>
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<strong>5. Kissing her on the neck</strong></div>
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Chicks dig this. Their necks are far more sensitive than yours. This is good news for guys who aren’t sure what to do to get their girls hot. It is really easy to turn her on if you kiss her neck. It works like magic.</div>
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The rules: Be sensuous and take your time. Use a sexy combination of soft and firm kisses, and keep the pace on the slower side. Kissing her neck from behind is almost guaranteed to turn her on, and you know when she turns around to face you she is ready for more. The back of her neck and shoulders are great places to start. Progress onto the sides of her neck, and up by her ears, maybe working your way around to the front, near her jugular.</div>
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Small, soft, closed-mouth kisses work well for starters, but should be worked up to open-mouthed kisses. A warm, moist tongue on her throat (without slobbering all over her, of course) is the wet feeling that may just lurch her into outer space. She will probably moan a lot when you do this. Women also love being held by strong man hands, so use them while you do your thing. </div>
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The brain is the largest sexual organ in our bodies. If you really understand this concept, you can use this to your advantage anytime you like. Include nonphysical moves such as reading her an erotic story, or telling her what you want to do to her either on the phone, by writing her a note and tucking it into her pocket, sending a text message, or emailing her. If you can get her wet before you even touch her, you are doing very, very well.</div>
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The rules: Don’t go overboard. Use words and actions that will force her to use her imagination instead of giving her every detail. Touchless foreplay is a less obvious arouser because she isn’t going to be moaning into your neck, but it is just as effective as touching her. Her imagination will run rampant when a sexy suggestion is put in place, so get her worked up with evocative words.</div>
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Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-55580284140205845282015-11-14T02:26:00.004-08:002015-11-14T02:26:45.991-08:00Ladies, See How To Know When A Guy Is Still A Virgin<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;"><b>1. He is Very Shy About Touching You</b></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;">He asks for permission before touching your body... A guy who has had s£x at least once will not be so shy of touching a girl. In fact shyness towards the opposite se x reduces in men who have been intimate before. You cannot completely say a guy is a virgin just because he is shy about being intimate, but it’s a strong sign. So if a guy is shy about touching you, especially at the private and intimate body parts, it shows that he is still a virgin.</span><br />
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<br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;"><b>2. He Dresses Awkwardly</b></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;">Most virgin males tend to have an embarrassing dress sense. This is usually so, because they believe they don't have much reasons to pay attention to their dressing because they’ve not experienced what s£x is like. This usually begins to improve the moment they meet the girl they like but even at that, it is still noticeable to the smart ladies.</span><br />
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<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;">3. </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;">He Kisses Awkwardly</span></b><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;">That a guy is a bad ki sser does not mean he is a virgin oh. But if a guy kisses awkwardly, in a very shy manner, it’s almost a sure sign that he is a virgin. If a guy is pretty good at kissing you can be sure that he is not a vir gin no matter what he says. Kissing takes practice and people get good at it with experience. Another sign to look out for is whether he closes his eyes while kissing, most virgins tend to do that a lot. * lol..</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;"><b>4. Usually Quiet, Shy, and has poor social skills</b></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;">Male virgins are usually quiet, reserved and act in a feminine manner. they have a cowardly behavior, appear passive in interactions and have poor social skills. Male vir gins are also timid and shy and usually do not know how to ask a lady out and make out with her. A lot o f them would rather ask out a lady on the phone or through social media than face to face.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;"><b>5. He Has a Very Quick Org asm</b></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, San-Serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 25px;">If it’s his first intim ate experience in lo ve making, he is going to orga sm quickly. Some vir gin guys tend to Erupt even before entering or as soon as they enter. The first experience is always a nervous one for a guy because he will be constantly thinking about how he is performing, and he will get aroused at the slightest act of in timacy on your part causing him to Eru pt quickly. Guys with experience can control themselves a lot better.</span></div>
Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-89801188168169503452015-11-10T23:11:00.000-08:002015-11-10T23:11:30.638-08:00Hot! See the 9 Places to Touch a Woman's body and Make Her Go Crazy for You<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Many men have problems as to getting a woman to go wild and crazy, craving for a hot night of sexual escalade with them, well if you are in this category of people, we have brought you these hot spots that you can easily identify on a womans body and once you make good moves on those places, a sure result will be granted you.<br /></div>
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<strong>1. Nape Of Her Neck:</strong> Once you get to the nape of her neck, place a few light kisses there. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders.</div>
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<strong>2. Collarbone: </strong>A well-defined clavicle, or collarbone, can be very sexy on a woman. Why not show your appreciation for its beauty with your touch and kiss? Pay attention to this body part while she’s still fully clothed, unbuttoning her shirt just enough to reveal the clavicle and no further. You can always come back to it once the clothes have disappeared as well to remind her of the anticipation it created when you started there.</div>
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<strong>3. Small Of Her Back: </strong>The best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back. This small gesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing.</div>
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<strong>4. Behind Her Knees: </strong>This area is one that most men don’t think of when trying to stimulate a woman, but it is, in fact, quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirt while the two of you are in a public place will make her ready to get busy once you get home. Don’t forget to pay some more attention to this special spot once you’re alone too.</div>
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<strong>5. Palms Of Her Hands: </strong>People often use their hands as tools to please their partners, but rarely do they consider the pleasure potential of stimulating the hands themselves. The palm of a woman’s hand is an innocuous spot to focus a little attention on without making people around you uncomfortable. Tracing your finger along her palm will give her delightful shivers and make you appear sensitive and attentive.</div>
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<strong>6. Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the earlobes </strong>of your woman will up the bliss factor for her. These delicate, soft lobes are very sensitive and most women thoroughly enjoy the sensation of having a man’s lips on them. You can nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but for courtesy’s sake avoid jamming your tongue inside her ear.</div>
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<strong>7. Feet: </strong>Pulp Fiction taught us that rubbing the feet of another man’s wife may be an offense punishable by being thrown out a window, so the sensual appeal of a foot massage is obvious. There are few better ways to help her relax than to give her feet a good rub, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day. Do it right and grab some massage oil or lotion. Don’t forget to pay some attention to her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women really enjoy having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so asking first is a good idea before putting them in your mouth.</div>
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<strong>8. Inner Thighs: </strong>Touching her inner thighs without venturing into the vaginal area will make for an excellent tease that is sure to get her revved up. Use your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs, getting excruciatingly close to her ultimate pleasure spot, but pulling back before going all the way.</div>
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<strong>9. Pelvis: </strong>Concentrating some affection on her pelvis is a great idea; however, you’ll have to resist the urge to slip down to her vagina while you’re so close. Like teasing her inner thighs, kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she’s begging for more. Prolong the sensation by leaving the region to focus on another body part for a while.</div>
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Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-11387815635163394472015-11-09T07:29:00.001-08:002015-11-09T07:29:23.132-08:00New Research Reveals That Women Are Either Bisexual Or Lesbian But Never Straight!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: medium;">According to new research, women who say they are straight are in fact aroused by videos of both n*ked men and n*ked women, whereas lesbians are much more attracted to the female form.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The study, led by Dr Gerulf Rieger from the Department of Psychology at the University of Essex, involved 345 women. They were shown videos and had their responses recorded, including whether their pupils dilated in response to sexual stimuli.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The results found that straight women were strongly sexually aroused by videos of both attractive men and attractive women, even though they said they were only interested in men.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">This was in contrast to lesbians, who showed much stronger sexual responses to women than to men.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The researchers said lesbians were the most like men in their responses because it is usually men who show distinct sexual responses to their favourite sex.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Dr Rieger said: “Even though the majority of women identify as straight, our research clearly demonstrates that when it comes to what turns them on, they are either bisexual or gay, but never straight.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Dr Rieger also said his study showed that lesbians who may dress in a more masculine way may not have more masculine behaviors.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Thousands of women are diagnosed with breast cancer each year. For women, only lung cancer has a higher death rate than breast cancer. While this type of cancer can be deadly, there are warning signs that can help you catch it early.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">It isn’t exactly known why breast cancer develops, but there are some factors that seem to increase your chances of developing breast cancer. Your age (and gender) increase your risk; While men can be diagnosed with chest cancer, it is one hundred times mores common in women. The highest rate of invasive breast cancer are found in women 55 and older.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">There also seems to be a higher risk if your close blood relatives had or have breast cancer. Also, the risk of breast cancer increases with higher amounts of alcohol use and obesity after menopause.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Knowing the risks and the symptoms of breast cancer can significantly increase your chances of catching the illness early. Luckily, there are some things you can look for. While finding a lump in your breast is a common symptom, there are others signs to look for.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">If you notice any of these symptoms, contact your doctor immediately:</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">If the size of one chest enlarges significantly in a short amount of time, this could be a warning sign of breast cancer. Breasts are normally different sizes, but noticing a drastic increase in size or an abnormal change in shape could be something to be concerned about.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Even if there is no lump present, swelling on your breast (even in a small area) is not a good sign. Swelling can also accompany fever-like symptoms; if this is the case, your breasts will feel warm, may become inflamed, become red or purple and will swell. Immediately inform your doctor if you experience these symptoms.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Other than breast milk, any other discharge is not normal. Decreased nipple sensitivity is also something to be aware of. Additionally, if your ni.pple retracts (pulls inward,) or is discolored, be sure to call your doctor.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Having a bumpy “orange peel” texture on your breast or nipple area could very well be a symptom of breast cancer. If you experience severe itching on your breast and dermatologist visits (and creams) don’t soothe your symptoms, call your doctor.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">There are benign lumps that form in the breast that may not be cancerous. However, if you notice a mass (that you haven’t noticed before, or that feels harder than the surrounding lumps) schedule a chest examination. Be sure to notice any sort of abnormal mass near your armpit; though it is not in your breast, it could still be breast cancer.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">This can be caused by a variety of other things that aren’t cancer. Fluctuating hormones, some fertility treatments, stress and wearing a bra that doesn’t fit right can all cause breast pain. If your pain isn’t caused by this list or accompanies other symptoms, contact your doctor.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Some women feel pain in their back or chest instead of their breast. If this pain does not go away with physical therapy or stretching, inform your doctor.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Not all of these symptoms are symptoms of breast cancer. If you get other treatments (like a cream or antibiotic) for these symptoms, but you do not notice a difference within a few days, be sure to call your doctor and be assertive about tests for breast cancer.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Mammograms have significantly increased the detection rate for breast cancer. Regularly schedule these appointments if you are above the age of 40, or if you have a family history of breast cancer. However, there are things a mammogram cannot detect. Having dense breasts make cancer harder to detect even with a mammogram and helps the cancer cells spread more rapidly. Talk to your doctor for additional tests if you fit this description.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Be diligent with your own breast examinations and be aware of what chest cancer symptoms look and feel like. If you are at all concerned, make an appointment with your doctor.</span></div>
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Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-54740653026484331172015-11-05T02:44:00.001-08:002015-11-05T02:44:04.219-08:00See the reasons Why Women's Breasts are Getting Bigger these days<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Many people think that women develope bigger breaast size when they engage in sexual activities, but from recent studies, women are now freed from speculations and thoughts of such act.</div>
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Below are the said reasons from recent studies on why women develope bigger breaast size even before the age of puberty and after childbirth.<br /></div>
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Breast, a soft (rounded) protruding organ on the upper front of a woman’s body, is no doubt an important part of the female anatomy, not only for producing milk needed to feed a new born baby, although that can be enormous, its high-end advantage during sexual activities and the role it plays in the attractiveness of a woman cannot be overemphasised.<br /><br />Notably, men have theirs, but it is not (always) as sizeable as those of women, and many men lust after these organs, often making some to skip their breaths, lose concentration or even change focus on sighting them, and for most of them, the bigger, the better.<br /><br />Call it an instant attention grabber for men and you may not be far from the truth. It excites them and remains a huge delight for them but it also delights its owners; women, making them feel good and sometimes enhancing their comparative advantage. And suffice it to say that it aptly qualifies as one of the most cherished (by women) and most loved (by men) parts of the female body. Such is its importance to both sexes.<br /><br />Even though big breasts could be a blessing or burden for women, as big breasts have been found to have the likelihood of affecting posture and causing chronic back pain, regardless, more women seem to crave for it now than ever before.<br /><br />However, it is not uncommon these days to see that women, including young girls, are becoming increasingly endowed in that region. In fact, in those days, girls used to wear vest until they approached 18 but now, bras have taken the centre stage, not just for decoration but because there is indeed something to cover, which underscores the fact that girls and women are getting bigger in that region.<br /><br />Many have attributed women’s bust increase to the fact that many more women are going under the knife for breast enlargement, which has made it difficult to know which one is natural or artificial, but far from that, lifestyle and diet have been found to play a major role in bust size.<br /><br />This is independent of heredity and the fact that women experience some natural variation in their breast size usually during their period (menstruation) and pregnancy period (pre and post).<br /><br />An emeritus surgeon, Prof. Michael Baum, who is also an expert in breast cancer, explained that one good reason why more women are getting increased bust size is increased fat consumption, but a nutritionist, Jane Clarke told Daily Mail that people are eating more of wrong food and that all the calories people consume end up on the hips and breasts coupled with the fact that more women are now taking too much of alcohol which is highly calorific.<br /><br />Another nutritionist, Dr. Marilyn Glenville, also opined that beyond fat, increase in the breast tissue levels has also been responsible for the increase in breast size. “So, we have to look at what stimulates breast tissue growth, and that is oestrogen, the female sex hormone. Oestrogen is what changes our body shape during puberty,” she added.<br /><br />Glenville explained that there is a strong link between increased oestrogen levels and bigger breasts, adding that there are some breast-enhancing supplements that have made their way into some of the food people consume, making such food items have oestrogenic properties, which have impacted on their breast size. She argued further that a large chunk of the milk consumed by humans come from pregnant cows, thus the milk would be flooded with oestrogen.<br /><br />She said, <em>“It makes sense to look at the ways in which our exposure to all types of oestrogen, the hormone our own bodies produce and oestrogenic chemicals we come into contact with, has changed over the years.<br /><br />“Girls today reach puberty earlier than ever before, and are going on to have fewer ¬children and breastfeeding for less time. As a result, we have far more periods than our ancestors would have had and we are exposed to more monthly surges of oestrogen, which stimulates ovulation and is also responsible for the increasing breast sizes.”</em><br /><br />Meanwhile, a previous study, led by Dr. Karin Michels, from Harvard Medical School, had explained that young girls of nowadays are reaching puberty at an earlier age because of consumption of sugary drinks. Thus, when these girls reach puberty, they begin to show the signs, evident in their breasts and butts.<br /><br />Michels said, <em>“Our study adds to increasing concern about the widespread consumption of sugar-sweetened drinks among children and adolescents. Our study suggests that age of first menstruation (menarche) occurred earlier among girls with the highest consumption of drinks sweetened with added sugar. These findings are important in the context of earlier puberty onset among girls.”</em><br /><br />Going by Glenville’s explanation, the fact that more girls reach puberty exposes them to more oestrogen from their young age, which tends to have its own effect on their anatomy, especially their breasts.<br /><br />One other explanation for the rising size of boobs, according to experts, is the use of contraceptive pills. In a report on softpedia.com, a consultant endocrinologist, Prof. Pierre-Marc Bouloux, was quoted as saying<em>, “There is a tendency for the pill to stimulate breast growth. However, modern versions of the pill contain far less estrogen than their older counterparts.”</em><br />Bouloux explained that there are some other products that come as consumable items, like some chewing gum, which have some oestrogenic properties that could enhance breast size, adding that certain chemicals in polluted water and industrial wastes could mimic oestrogen and produce the same boob-boosting factor in the women.<br /><br />But, in the words of Dr. Joanna Scurr, a breast biomechanics expert and principal lecturer in biomechanics at the University of Portsmouth, breast sizes are increasing because of the higher proportion of fats in them, adding that junk food, tinned food, canned drinks, and plastic bottles could also be responsible, due to the xenoestrogen.<br /><br />Therefore, the increase in breast sizes in recent times could be placed down to increased fat consumption by women, rising levels of breast tissue, eating junks and fatty meals, drinking sugary drinks and use of contraceptive pills, more so because breast tissue has been found to be extremely sensitive to hormones. These are independent of hereditary, menstruation and pregnancy/breastfeeding.<br /><br />Commenting on the study, a medical practitioner, Dr. Rotimi Adesanya, explained that apart from increase in fat diets, use of family planning drugs are some of the things responsible for the increasing breast sizes.<br /><br />He said,<em> “The increase is due to increase in fats because breast is made of fatty tissues. So, if the fat is much in the body, definitely, the one in the breast will be much as well. So, the level of fat a person eats is an indirect proportion of the person’s breasts size. For some, it runs in the family, and for people that tend to be obese or big in size, they also tend to have a large breast.<br /><br />“Also, use of hormonal drugs, such as contraceptive pills, could increase breast size. Diet is also a very important factor. The fatty diets include sugary drinks, margarines, etc., and too much of oil is not very good, and that is why we advise people to take more of fruits and vegetables.”</em></div>
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Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-33347953701330126012015-11-02T08:44:00.001-08:002015-11-02T08:44:03.807-08:003 quick ways to stop obsessing over your ex<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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How do you get over someone you once loved and shared everything with. Obsessing over your ex is very unhealthy because there's absolutely no future for you with them.</div>
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Obsessing over them means not coming to terms that they've really said goodbye and have moved on. You have to find the courage to move on with your life.</div>
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Relationship expert <strong>Dr. Jeff Gardere</strong> in a chat with Marlo Thomas of Huffington Post, lists thee simple ways people can get over their exes after a breakup.</div>
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<strong>1. Find something healthy to get obsessed with:</strong> Dr Gardere says find a hobby. Turn your heart and mind towards something more entertaining.</div>
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<strong>2. Don't stop making yourself happy:</strong> Always believe in your ability. One failed relationship doesn't define who you are. You can't say you are nothing without them, you were something before they came along.</div>
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Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-42923258388231565412015-11-02T08:41:00.000-08:002015-11-02T08:41:09.524-08:008 Surprising THINGS That Makes WOMEN Want To Be LAID So Bad!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><br />While guys are generally up for se x whenever, wherever (regardless of the situation), women tend to need a bit more inspiration, according to Cindy M. Meston, Ph.D. and David M. Buss, Ph.D., psychology professors at theUniversity of Texas at Austin and coauthors of Why Women Have Se x: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between). For a better understanding of how to get her in the mood, consider the following eight factors that Meston and Buss say affects a woman’s li bido:<br /><br /><a class="mce-item-anchor" href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="more" style="color: #888888; text-decoration: none;"></a><br /><br /><b>1. HER MAN’S APPEARANCE</b><br />Men are usually considered to be the most turned on by visual stimuli (think about it: how many strip clubs and adult magazines are actually targeted toward females?), but women are actually quite turned on by a man’s face, body and movement as well, say Meston and Buss. “Sexually, women are attracted to men with masculine features, although not too masculine,” Meston explains. “A little light stubble is usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean and well-kept. Body-wise, women generally find men with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-hip ratio sexually attractive. Motion is important, too, as women find athletic prowess and agility to be sexual turn-ons.” The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the sack, a good first step to take might be getting yourself into the gym.</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; line-height: 20.592px;"> </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><b>2. THE TIME OF DAY</b><br />Meston says that women are very individualized in terms of when they most prefer to get it on: “In general, women want to have se x when they feel their best — when they have energy, feel connected to their partners, aren’t distracted by work or stressful daily events, and when they feel sexy — and that may or may not be at night.” In order to figure out when a woman’s most likely to be in the mood, pay attention to the times she seems the most energized and/or chilled out. Try thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d love a post-jog quickie right before her shower!<br /><br /><b>3. CERTAIN SMELLS</b><br />Meston and Buss explain that, for women, sense of smell is far more important than it is to men when it comes to sexual attraction. Simply put: if a woman doesn’t like the way a man smells, it’s often a deal-breaker — whether she consciously realizes it or not. The number one turn-off reported by most women is — not surprisingly — bad breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also plays an interesting biological role in what attracts her to a man, according to Meston: “Olfactory signals provide a woman with a wealth of information about a man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic makeup,” she notes. Pheromones — tiny airborne molecules that humans emit from various glands in their body — can influence a woman’s desire to be sexually intimate with a man. Male pheromones have been shown to provide information on a man’s symmetry, which is an indicator of genetic fitness and ultimately can determine whether a man is genetically compatible with a woman. “For many women — whether they realize it or not — scent can play an important role in determining her willingness to have se x with a man, given her ‘sense’ of whether they can produce genetically healthy, strong children together,” says Buss.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><b>4. HER GUY’S CHOICE OF WORDS</b><br />Often, what a man says is more important than what he does when he’s trying to get a woman in the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-fire way of making someone want to get closer… although, if the compliments come across as insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says Meston.<br /><br />To score extra sincerity points, make references to future activities you’d like to do together, explains Meston, noting that showing signs of commitment can often be sexually alluring to women. Buss also notes that a man with a sense of humor is also a sexual turn-on for the ladies: “If a man can make a woman laugh, it relaxes her and makes her feel that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that a good sense of humor also conveys some key qualities women want in a mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be witty if you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having the mind-reading skills to know what she will find amusing), and social verve or confidence.<br /><br /><b> 5. THE NEED FOR REVENGE</b><br />In their research, Meston and Buss found that many women had “revenge se x” with someone other than their most recent dating partner to get back at a cheating partner or to “even the score,” as some women put it. “Some women hoped their ex would find out about it and feel angry or hurt, and other women said they didn’t care if they found out or not — they felt better just knowing they had gotten revenge,” Meston explains. Why is the need for revenge such a turn-on for women? “Revenge can serve two basic functions,” Buss explains. The first function is one of deterrence: just as bullies stop picking on victims who retaliate, cheating partners sometimes stop their illicit activities when the other person retaliates in kind. The second function of revenge is “reputation management,” says Buss. “Women who are scorned sometimes suffer damage to their social reputation, whether they are cheated on or dumped. Having se x — especially if it is with someone who is relatively high in ‘mate value’ — can sometimes help to restore a woman’s reputation,” he explains.<br /><br /><b>6. GENETICS</b><br />Women prefer men whose MHC genes (or Major HistoCompatibility genes) are dissimilar to their own, because this is the set of genes involved in determining an individual’s immune function. “Having children with men who are dissimilar produces children with healthier immune systems,” Buss explains. “Astonishingly, women seem to be able to pick this up through sense of smell, especially at ovulation, if they are not on hormonal contraceptives.”<br /><br /><b>7. HER PHYSICAL HEALTH OR WELL-BEING</b><br />If you’re looking for a few good reasons why she should have se x with you, there are countless ways in which you can emphasize that “getting busy” would be a wise move for her health. “During orga sm, opiates — the body’s natural painkillers — are released, which can help decrease all sorts of aches and pains for women,” Meston explains. Se x can also help maintain the body’s flexibility and cardiovascular health, decrease anxiety, and enhance overall mood. Additionally, Meston notes, having se x during menstruation decreases a woman’s risk of experiencing endometriosis symptoms. Of course, se x (if it lasts long enough!) can also be a good calorie burner, so you can always suggest it as a fantastic way to burn off the chocolate cheesecake you shared for dessert.</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; line-height: 20.592px;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">If you thought that se-x during menstruation is off-limits, think again. Many of us are hesitant to try it, because we’re culturally conditioned </span><span style="font-size: small; line-height: 1.5;">to think it’s unclean.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">From a purely medical standpoint, however, se-x during menstruation is completely normal. It even has a lot of benefits for both partners.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">There’s a pervasive myth out there that menstrual blood is dirty and full of impurities that might harm the penis. This is nonsense!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Menstrual blood is a mixture of healthy blood and the discarded tissues that line the uterus each month in preparation for pregnancy. Coming in contact with this blood will not harm the penis in any way. In fact, menstruation blood serves as a great (and harmless) lubricant.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">There is also a common misconception that the penis can hurt the uterus during s-ex while she’s having her period.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Although it’s true that a tiny opening corps up in the uterus to pass menstrual blood during her period, this hole is impossibly small for the penis to enter. S-ex during menstruation causes absolutely no harm to a woman’s uterus.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Many women feel a higher s-ex drive during their menstrual cycle. There is a lot of conflicting and confusing information about why this happens. But one reason, according to Sara Gottfried, M.D., author of The Hormone Cure, is that a woman’s estrogen is at an all-time low at the beginning of her period. As her estrogen levels rise over the following week, her testosterone levels rise as well, helping her be turned on more easily.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Another factor may be the increased blood flow and lubrication in the genital region, a heaviness that could translate into arousal. The possibility of getting pregnant is also lower during this time, which might make women feel more sexually liberal. Also, some women may become aroused by the thought of doing something sexually forbidden or unconventional.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><br style="border: 0px none; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;" />The chances of becoming pregnant during menstruation are extremely small, but it can still happen. Though generally it is a very safe time to have unprotected s-ex if you’re trying to avoid pregnancy, a man’s sperm has the ability to survive inside the woman’s body for a few days and there is a small chance that an early ovulation could cause pregnancy. If you want to avoid getting pregnant, it is best to use contraceptives.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">S-ex during menstruation can relieve cramps. Having an orgasm during the period may give you pain relief from cramps by releasing pain-reducing endorphins into the bloodstream. Also, according to some scientists, s-ex during this time provides further relief by using up chemicals, which are responsible for menstrual cramps.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">S-ex during menstruation could also knock a few days off your period. This is because the extra contractions your uterus experiences during orgasm help get rid of menstrual blood faster, ending your cycle sooner than usual. But, you can expect a heavy flow during the initial days.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">According to a recent survey conducted on MensHealth.com, it’s women, rather than men, who choose to shut down sexual activities during menstruation. More than 75 percent of the men who were surveyed said they had no issues about having s-ex during their partner’s period, though 54 percent said they would only do it with a wife or serious girlfriend.</span></div>
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<br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">Ladies,lemme just tell you the truth...A </span><b style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">good man</b><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;"> is not easy to find this days but if you are lucky to have a man that has these 22 characters you are about to read below,please</span><b style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">hold tight and never let him go</b><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">!</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="more" style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;"></a><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">1. He knows your breakfast order by heart.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">Whether it's a toasted whole wheat sesame bagel with scrambled eggs and cheese and freshly squeezed orange juice or just black coffee. He'll run out to pick it up or take you with him and recite your order by heart. He pays attention to the details of what you like.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">2. He checks in on his way home.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">With a quick text, "Leaving the bar in 10 minutes. See you soon…" he lets you know that he hasn't forgotten you, and that he's ready to be with his favorite person again. He's not sending this text because he thinks you're paranoid, needy or insecure. He sends it out of mutual respect. He knows that giving you a head's up prevents you from worrying about his safety or his level of sobriety. And it reminds you that he realizes the best part of his night has yet to begin.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">It's also keeping you in the loop so you can cue up the movie you've been waiting to watch together.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">3. He takes care of you.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He'll grab you an Advil and a glass of water if you have a headache. He'll hit the pharmacy for some tissues and cough meds and pick up chicken noodle soup when you have a bad head cold. He'll force you to take zinc lozenges and nudge you to see a doctor when you claim to be too busy to make an appointment.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">4. He calls during the day just to check in.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He may have a funny story to share or he might simply want to see how work is going. He'll often try to convince you to shut down early so you can spend time together.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">5. He's great with kids.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">In fact, you're pretty sure he could run a sports camp of some type. Kids flock to him and are eager to spend time with him. He's a great role model. His upbeat personality and enthusiasm are infectious. There are huge grins on children's little faces when he's around.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">6. He makes time for you.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">No matter how busy things get for him, he'll never forget to set aside consistent alone time with you. You're a priority to him, so he's not afraid to turn down plans with "the guys" in favor of some QT with his lady.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">7. He's responsive to each and every one of your calls and texts.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He'll never go missing for multiple days in a row. He's</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">reliable. He won't stand you up when you have plans. He doesn't ask for rain checks because excuses are not part of his DNA. He's not one to be consistently late because he cares enough to be on time.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">8. He doesn't keep in touch with ex-girlfriends.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He knows that once a relationship is over, there is no good that can come from staying in close contact, particularly once he's in a new relationship. There are no strange phone numbers popping up on his cell phone. Not that you know this because you don't even feel the need to cybersnoop.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">9. He randomly buys you scratch lotto cards.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He loves handing you a coin and watching you uncover the numbers on the card. You'll plan together what you'd do with the money if you should win. He's a dreamer. And you love dreaming with him.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">10. On certain occasions, you receive heartfelt gifts</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">accompanied by thoughtful greeting cards.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">You're into birthdays and anniversaries, so he is happy to celebrate them with you. If he knows you're into writing, he'll get you a beautiful journal.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He inserts his humor into presents, too. For instance, if he sings you your favorite song, he'll change the words to lyrics so they're about that annoying co-worker you've been telling him about.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">11. He'll be a homebody when you'd rather be at home with his hot body.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">Instead of getting dressed up and spending a lot of money on a big night out, he's ecstatic to stay in and curl up on the couch with you to watch a movie and order takeout. His back-to-back partying nights are behind him and he's perfectly okay with it.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">12. He still screams like a 7-year-old boy when his favorite football team scores a touchdown.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He will be loyal to his team no matter how many times they lose, how many quarterbacks they go through in one season, or how far down the rankings they fall. This loyalty will be passed down to his relationships with family, friends, and even his future spouse. Once devoted, he's in it for life.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">13. He's still regularly in touch with several of his childhood friends.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">Each considers your guy his best friend. He makes the time to call them back to find out what's going on with them and will find a way to connect with them despite living in different cities and time zones.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">14. He over-tips the wait staff at restaurants on a regular basis and is exceptionally polite to service industry workers in general.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">You know that if he cares enough to treat total strangers with respect that he'd do that times ten for you, and everyone else he loves.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">15. He's mature.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He is not one to get swept up in the crowd's momentum without making his own decisions. If several of his friends are doing whiskey shots until 4 AM, he's the one making sure the tab is paid and that everyone gets home safely.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">16. He's incredibly handsome without trying.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He's low maintenance and dresses for comfort. The more you've gotten to know him, the better looking he's become. He couldn't care less what brand your jeans are or how high your heels are. He finds you beautiful in everything.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">17. He says at least one thing every day that makes you crack up.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">It's not always intentional—sometimes, it's just his outlook on things. Though he definitely gets your sense of humor and loves to make you laugh.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">18. He knows how to handle you when you're in a bad mood.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">Whether it's letting you rant for ten minutes straight while you go on about the incredibly selfish friend you have or to force you to go for a walk. He knows better than to start pressing b*ttons when you're in this state and he'll always take your side, even if you're wrong.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">19. He's secure enough to love your strengths.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">He supports and encourages your independence, which is what he loves about you. He respects your need to keep up your own friendships but is happy to join you when invited.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">20. He smells really good.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">When you hug him, you just want to keep on hugging him, just to breathe in his amazing scent that encapsulates the unique impression he makes. You hope that whatever you're wearing will absorb just a little bit of his magic and hold on tight to it, releasing traces of it sporadically throughout your day.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">21. He's your biggest fan.</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">When someone asks him about you, he lights up and</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15.8400001525879px; line-height: 20.5919990539551px;">proudly describes someone that you're excited to be. He celebrates your successes because he's someone who knows you inside and out and can appreciate both your struggles and achievements.</span></div>
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I woke up yawning and stretching, my body, I opened my eyes, I did my prayers, took unto my slippers and went to the bathroom, took my toothbrush and Tunde had already made breakfast I went to the dinning and eat in the same table with Tunde, he was sitting directly opposite me , I was still strained by the heart break my boyfriend had caused the previous day I didn't even answer him when he said good morning, I felt fatigue and a huge loss of appetite that made me eat little. But Tunde was eating like a hungry lion..</div>
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Me: No!</div>
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Tunde: its really nice, I think you're not feeling too well, the chicken is really great.</div>
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Me: Na you sabi ***remembering the incident last night that someone had covered me with a blanket***</div>
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Me: Who covered me a blanket last night?</div>
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Me: hmmm..</div>
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***I felt cared for, when he said that, but isn't he crossing his boundary?***</div>
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Me: don't try that next time, okay? You know my father will not take it lightly if he were to find out you really did that. Let it not repeat itself, is that clear?</div>
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Me: ahaha, you're a real funny boy, but you need to understand that I don't like being played with okay?</div>
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Tunde: Okay.</div>
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***i stood up and took the toothpicks, as I got chicken meat hooked all over my teeth***.</div>
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I was a bit bored that day, my father had called earlier and asked how I was faring, after so much phone conversation he decided to hang up. I was bored and went to Tunde's room to call him and ask if he could play chess which I'm sure he can, I walked down the stairs after failed attempts of him being available, I walked through and I entered his room without knocking, surprisingly i saw him Naked!!! I quickly shut the door... And stood outside his door</div>
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Also Read: <a href="http://www.starcity2.com/2015/10/naija-girls-sends-her-neaekead-photos.html">LE@KED VIDEO: YOUNG GUY UPLOADS VIDEO OF HIMSELF DOING IT WITH ASHEWO</a></div>
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Me: oh, I'm sorry, I'm really sorry about this okay</div>
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Tunde: there's nothing to worry about, its my fault really, I left the door opened<br />
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Me: okay, i just came to find out if you can play chess with me?</div>
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Tunde: why not... ***he dressed up quickly***</div>
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We went to the parlour, played chess and laughed with, I thought to myself, "I think I'm falling in love with this guy", he played better than me, as he played he kept on staring at me till I don't know how I kissed him....</div>
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</div>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-55602512544521243482015-10-14T23:49:00.001-07:002015-10-15T09:02:13.208-07:00My Sweet And Lovely House Boy (Part 1)<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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It was a pleasant morning, and its just been a week since my twentieth birthday, I heard a voice from upstairs, Shade! Shade!, ah, it was my dad, (he is going to London for a business trip, and I'm on holidays, my mom travelled to Dubai last week and won't be coming home for a long time, and now my dad is also leaving... ) Yes daddy, I answered.<br />
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Dad: Shade, as I told you earlier, I'll be travelling to London to spend some days there, I know you'll be left alone and you'll miss me and your mom, its for the best, we need to upgrade our company and increase the demanding rate by our customers.<br />
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Me: (I don't even understand what he's saying) okay dad ***with a smile on my face***<br />
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Dad: okay, before I forget, Tunde our new house boy will be looking after the house, Tunde! Tunde! He shouted.<br />
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Tunde: Yes sir, I'm here sir **looking excited**<br />
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Dad: You will follow all what she will tell you, you'll also not fail or disobey her orders unless you want to sleep in sale<br />
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Tunde: ah yes sir, I'll not fail you sir<br />
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Dad: okay Shade, I'll be on my way<br />
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Me: okay bye dad.. I love you dad, safe journey **i said smiling as his driver came and drove himoff***<br />
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My father had reached the airport when he called me saying he is about to leave, I then prayed on the phone for him and he hanged up telling me to take good care of my Self.<br />
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*****Tunde was a student at the university of Lagos, doing computer science, he's fairly tall, slim and muscular with a dark complexion, he speaks good English and from my dad's theory, he needed to raise enough money to pay his school fees and buy a new laptop of about 200,000naira for his project in school. Being a house boy or girl for our family can fetch a huge fortune, and tunde was lucky because my dad knew his parents so well*****<br />
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Tunde: Shade, what will you like to eat for the afternoon?<br />
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Me: ***Staring at his muscular and s*xy body*** Nothing! Don't disturb me okay?<br />
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Tunde: I'm sorry, I can see you're sad by the departure of dad, accept my apology miss shade<br />
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Me: Apology accepted, leave now jare....<br />
****even if i schooled abroad, I still knew a little yoruba, and i noticed he smiled when i included “Jare” to my sentence***<br />
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I was still very worried as its almost getting late and i haven't seen any sign of my boyfriend, as he told me he'll come visiting and come spend some intimate time with me ***sounds funny but I'm still a virgin at 20*** I waited a couple of hours and bang! My phone ranged...<br />
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Boyfriend: hello sweetheart<br />
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Me: why honey, I've waited decades for you to come over, what's keeping you boo?<br />
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Boyfriend: honey, I got caught up with some important stuffs, and you know my dad came and he needs me to help him arrange some important documents.<br />
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Me: aww why now! Your dad is really getting between us.<br />
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Boyfriend: Honey g2g now my dad is here already<br />
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Ah, I felt really bad and worried, its been a long time since I really talked with him, he was literally mad at me after I refused to have s*x with him, but it seemed he has gotten past all that. I decided to go see him myself, I carried the car key, entered the car and Drove off to his house, I horned, and the gateman yelled, "oga no wan see anybody today o..." I guessed he did not see my car, he just shouted out of ignorant... I yelled back "Musa! Musa! Open the gate" <br />
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Musa: oh, madam shade, I no know sey na you<br />
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Me: you'd better not known, as I drove and parked my motor vehicle I spotted his car, I asked the gate man;<br />
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Me: musa, is my boyfriend around?<br />
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Musa: miss shade, me I see am for oga e waka with one fine girl enter inside room. Pha, since morning.<br />
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Me: have you seen his dad?<br />
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Musa: oga father nodae in town o... Me I no see am for oga father<br />
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Me: okay musa thank you very much. ***i removed 1,000Naira note from my purse and handed it to him. ***He smiled and said "Nagode"(Nagode is a hausa word for Thank you"*****<br />
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I walked into the house with full confidence knowing my boyfriend can never cheat on me, he always says he loved me and will never cheat on me. ***I opened the door***<br />
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Me: Jesus! Wha What Are you do dooing? I....i...TrUsted you...***burst into tears***<br />
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Boyfriend: its not what you think, please wait ***he held my hand***<br />
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Me: don't touch me! Don't even dare! I hate you disgusting bastard!<br />
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Random girl: leave her, let's enjoy what we were doing...<br />
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<b><a href="http://www.bestlovegoodies.com/2015/08/reasons-why-you-should-take-break-if.html">WATCH VIDEO – Young Secondary School Students In South Africa Caught On Tape Doing Very Bad Things</a></b><br />
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Boyfriend: shut up you harlot!<br />
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Me: sobs, **cleaned my tears and carried my bag and drove off**</div>
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I reached home, feeling heart broken and depressed... Then Tunde walks in...<br />
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Tunde: hey shade, where have you been, you just drove off and seemed you'll never return<br />
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Me: I'm not in the mood to make jokes okay? Just get lost<br />
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Tunde: okay, I'm sorry if I'm bugging you<br />
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Me: mtcheew...<br />
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I was really tired, to add again the heartbreak, I couldn't even eat anything the whole day till it was late and i didn't even know when I fell asleep but I was a bit con<b>s</b>cious and I remember quite vividly that i didn't sleep with a blanket on, but someone covered me my blanket who could it be if not Tunde?<br />
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Many people who are already in a relationship have this common challenge of having feelings and attraction for someone else outside the relationship.</div>
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This issue have grown to be a major problem many people do face in their relationships.<br />Sometimes you are tempted to ask, </div>
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<i>Why do i keep feeling attraction for that other person?</i></div>
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But then, all those questions you might be tempted to ask will not really solve the problem here. You can be in a relationship that you enjoy all those things, and people can almost say you are in a healthy relationship but despite that, you find out that you were able to have feelings and attraction for someone else.</div>
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You can feel a natural attraction for someone and this kind of feeling is not very harmful or meaningful in any ones life, but the one that makes it more complicated confusing is when you are feeling something more than just the normal attraction and feelings for someone.</div>
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<b>Reasons Why You Feel Attracted to Someone Else.</b><br />There are many reasons why you might be having feelings for someone else despite that you are in a relationship.<br />It can be that you just went into the relationship not because you really like your partner, but because you were eager to be in a relationship and that your partner showed interest in you, and so when you saw someone new out there, you were able to still grab attraction for them despite the fact that you are in a relationship.</div>
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At times, it can also happen that you are even in a dedicated relationship that have been for long, but then you just found out that you were just getting attracted to someone new even right inside your relationship.</div>
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Your heart is just like an organisation, which operates on its own and in ways that suits its interest, so for the fact that your heart saw someone new and started to like that new person, then you cannot stop your dear heart from doing that.</div>
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Well, whatever step you take in this situation is surely going to make a change in your relationship life.<br />(Also Read: <a href="https://www.blogger.com/2015/08/how-to-end-relationship-you-are-no-more.html?">How To End a Relationship You Are No More Interested In Keeping</a> )</div>
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<b>#What Do You Really Want?</b><br />Sometimes, the reason why these feelings grow and become harmful to you is when you are not able to know what you really want in the relationship you are said to involve in.</div>
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So you should be able to learn about those things you want in your relationship and the things you want in a partner.<br />When you are able to know these things and mark them out, it will help and aid you towards taking your next step towards handling that new person that is trying to create a break in your current relationship.</div>
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<b>#Checkout On Your Relationship.</b><br />There was a time i was having troubles in my relationship and the reason was just because my girlfriend was looking outside the relationship. And initially, it was because i refused to have sex and i was reluctant to accepting her request for that, so this situation she found herself in can be equated to this subject matter.</div>
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You need to checkout on your relationship and consider those things you really want in your relationship and from your partner. So if those things that you want are all there, and you feel like there is no wrong in your relationship, then the best thing that you can do to help your situation is to get over that feeling you are having for the other person and take it to be only natural.</div>
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After doing that, you will see that everything goes either the right way, or the wrong way. If you find out that your relationship is lacking many things that you know you actually want, and you are thinking or you have hope that you will get those things from your new crush, then its simply more than a natural attraction that you are feeling for him/her.</div>
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After identifying those things you want in your relationship, and then you compare them with what you are getting in your current relationship. If they work along, then you should forget about that new crush of yours and dedicate yourself with your current relationship. But if you are lacking and you feel like you need something better, then the best thing you can do to help your situation is to check out on your new crush, perhaps, maybe its time to try something new, no big deal buddy. </div>
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<b>#Staying in Your Current Relationship Despite Your New Feelings For Someone Else.</b><br />Sometimes, its hard to admit that you are having a new feeling of attraction for someone else despite that you are in a relationship.<br />But then, when you started your current relationship, you experienced happy and joyful moments of love sharing and you can even testify that the first stage of your relationship was more fun and exiting than any other thing you are feeling now.</div>
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You might be tempted to think that your new crush is the one giving you all the joy and happiness your heart needs, while your relationship is growing old and just getting boring, but its not so true.</div>
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When your relationship is still standing firm and rigid, and you have no single reason to break up, then why are you still thinking of your new crush? The best thing you can do to help your relationship to continue is to talk to crush and though you know what you are feeling and they might be feeling so too, so what you have to do is to tell them that you just want to be friends and that is all, once you are able to do that, then everything will move along well.</div>
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But if you are sincerely not happy in your relationship anymore and you have a reason or more reasons to breakup, then you should go ahead and find yourself new happiness with your new crush. But then, you should think of this, Are you going to be changing partners every time?</div>
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<b>#Honesty With Your Current Partner.</b><br />If your relationship is facing such problems that might make you want to switch partner, then its time to talk to your significant other about what is happening to you and the relationship.</div>
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Honesty with your partner is a key that can unlock all those doors of opportunity for a better future. If you are taking your relationship serious and will want to embark on a long lasting relationship, then the needy part of the whole situation is to talk to your partner and make them amend those causes of failures in the relationship.</div>
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Also, you have to tell your partner about your new crush and the feelings developing for them in your heart, then explain to your partner the reasons why you don't need a new partner, and make them know that you really love to continue your relationship with them.</div>
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After doing all those things, and you have tried everything possible to make sure that you start getting new results in your current relationship, then you have done good. Giving your relationship a second chance is always a good idea to make everything in the relationship change.</div>
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So after all that shots and tries, nothing changed and maybe, things even keep getting worst, then you must have to consider trying out your new crush and get some new fun and excitements.<br />(Also Read: <a href="https://www.blogger.com/2015/08/how-to-deal-with-breakup-and-avoid.html?">How to Deal With a Breakup And Avoid Making Things Worst</a> )</div>
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<b>You Should Respect Your Personality As a Good Person.</b><br />When things like this are happening and it happens that you are in a relationship, your personality and respect will work a great deal in keeping you on the right side of action.</div>
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First of all, when people know you as a good person who actually have a repetition to keep and maintain, they would not like to make you get involved in anything that will make you to harm others.</div>
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One of the easiest thing to do while in a relationship is cheating, and the reason why its easy is because it does not require any special action or communication strategy, it is effortless and can take any form.</div>
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When that your new crush is able to know that you are in a relationship and you are dedicated to keeping it without breaking anything from it, then they will walk away, and for them to know that you are in a relationship, it depends on how you relate with them and act whenever you are close to them.</div>
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A person that is in a relationship have a personality different from that of the person who is not yet in a relationship.<br />There are many people who have turned and walked away from you because they know you are already in a relationship, so why do you want to allow this new person without getting to know what is happening and why its happening.</div>
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To wrap it up and end this article, you should be able to learn that being genuine and honest in your relationship is very challenging and many people in relationships today are lacking those two components necessary for the well being of a relationship. </div>
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<b>But to be the best among the rest of the other people in a relationship, you must be able to pass through that challenge and become outstanding in handling situations as regarding to feeling attraction for someone and having the love for the other.</b></div>
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So What Next?<p dir="ltr"><b>Have you ever been in a situation where you discover that your partner have been using you to cheat on their relationships?</b></p><p dir="ltr">I have been in that situation before, and it happened a girl meet me, and was always wanting me to come over her house, or just make phone calls with her, somehow and finally, we started a relationship with her.<br>After been in the relationship for almost a month, that was when the truth came out from some close friends to her and they told she that she have a boyfriend they are together with, and she was just using me to cheat.</p><p dir="ltr">I became angry, sad and just pissed up about the whole stuff, i called her to confirm it and i was rigid on my points before she agreed to open up and beg me to forgive her.<br>I refused to continue the relationship because it was a kind of funny talking about the way she was using me to cheat.</p><p dir="ltr">Because am financially stable and i like giving out, she was like always making demands from me, and seeing her as a girlfriend i love so much, i couldn't resist giving her whatever she desires as far as she tells me something reasonable she is going to use them for. i was like her financial account and that month, almost half of my monthly budget was spent on her only.</p><p dir="ltr">I was doing all those things for her because she was able to blindfold me with much love and though it seemed to me like the love was real and straight from the heart, i never knew that she was just using me as her bank account and she kept showing me love like it was real (we never had sex! Bad for me.).<br>After i was able to find out what was really going, i have to start thinking about what i have to do.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>Should i end the relationship? Or should i just continue? </b></p><p dir="ltr">Now that is the main point where this topic is heading to. The reason why you were used to cheat is not a problem, the problem is that you have been cheated on and you have been used to cheat on someone.</p><p dir="ltr">You are just like a third party in this situation because you have been used to serve a purpose.<br>What hurts you more is that you have been used to hurt the feelings of another person and come in between their relationship, but then what hurts most is the fact that you allowed yourself to grow in love with someone who lied to you and who is using you to cheat.</p><p dir="ltr">But then, you should not even think of staying in the relationship. You are not the only one involved with that person, who knows if you are 4 or 5 involved? So you see that you cant help such a situation thinking that it will get better and shift in your favour.<br>If you continue in the relationship, things might start getting worst because a lot criticism, break in trust and other things will start cueing up among you and the other person might get to know about what is happening, now you see that its going to be a lot of big problems to face.</p><p dir="ltr">There is no need being in a relationship with a liar and a cheater especially when your own characters and personality is of great value.<br>So the best to start with is to plan on ways you can bring the relationship to an end.</p><p dir="ltr">So here are a list of some guidelines to help you with ending such kinds of relationship affair and get a better life for yourself.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>1. Accept the fact that you have been cheated on.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Sometimes when we find out that everything we were building have finally collapsed and when that happens, we refuse to believe and accept the reality of what is happening to us and make new decisions. When you now discover that you were cheated with and you were used for another purpose while to you, it seemed that you were the original</p><p dir="ltr">So when you find out that this is really happening to you, the first thing you can do to help yourself is to affect the fact that you have been cheated on, and that you have participated in a cheating act that will affect another individual. </p><p dir="ltr">So when you have accepted this fact without refusing to give in to the situation and change plans, them you will find out that taking the next step is nothing really hard to do.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>2. Face Your Cheating Partner And Ask For Reasons.</b></p><p dir="ltr">They always say that the best way to tackle a problem is to face that problem and trace the root of that problem.<br>So meeting your affair partner and discussing your pain about happened is a good way to get yourself right and conscience clear about the dilemma you are going through. </p><p dir="ltr">Since you are now feeling the pain, guilt, anger and other things because of the occurrence, meeting the cheater and telling them how you felt and how things are now going with you is another way you can use in consoling yourself and pave a way out of the affair.</p><p dir="ltr">After that, you should be able to ask your affair partner the possible reasons why they decided to cheat with you and after that, you will find justification for whatever you participated in doing with him or her.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>3. Distance Yourself Away and Avoid Your Partner.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Since you know that cheating is a very serious offence that always come with lots of consequence, the other next step you must take to help yourself is to distance yourself away from your cheating partner and break it off with him or her.</p><p dir="ltr">When you do that, you will find out that you finally have personal space and time to think about what is happening and to figure out your next plans for a better life.</p><p dir="ltr">When you are able to stay away from your partner who is cheating with you, it will also offer them more time to think about what they made you to indulge in and now, realising that they will be facing the consequence of what they have committed.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>4. Start Erasing Their Thoughts And Memories in Your Life.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This is the most difficult aspect of the matter because at this point, you will find it hard to cope with the situation and move on with your life.</p><p dir="ltr">Anything that you know will remind you of the person should be totally deleted and done away with. Things like their social profiles, emails, messages, phone numbers, their gifts to you, clothes, gadgets, etc.<br>All these things which you know belongs to them must be done away with if you want to move on with your life.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>5. Do Not Confront or Try Meeting Their Original Partners.</b></p><p dir="ltr">You already know that the girl or that man have been cheating with you and it happens that you know the original person they started with before you were involved.</p><p dir="ltr">So to manage and maintain your anger, dignity and respect, you should not go anywhere near that person whom you know that you were involved in cheating on him/her.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>6. Determination on Your Decision.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Don't just say you are going to do all these things and take action as you are currently thinking in your mind. So you must first of all be determined in your heart and mind that you are surely going to leave their life because that is the only way you can help yourself become a better person.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>Since indulging in the cheating act was not your original intention, having the determination to set yourself free and move on with your life is nothing hard to do, except if you want to continue in the act because you </b><b>don't</b><b> feel like going the right way, but altogether, these tips will work for your own good if you follow them practically and in the right manner.</b></p>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-63979450011754614032015-08-26T17:08:00.000-07:002016-03-17T14:54:50.558-07:00Things you should do to maintain your relationship and make it last for a long time<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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If you want to keep a relationship that will last for long, then there are some practical steps you must take to ensure that everything is kept moving in the right direction it should go. <br />First, there are some things that will hinder you from being able to keep a long term relationship that is going to last for a long time.</div>
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<b>#Lack of Trust.</b></div>
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So once that trust is not there between the both of you, when you cant trust each others actions and when your words cant tell if there is truth in whatever you do, then i don't think you are ready to start a relationship that will last for a long period of time.</div>
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This one can totally hinder you from even wanting to embark on a relationship that will last for a long period of time.<br />When people keep feeding you with facts and lies about your partner, it will make you to position yourself at one corner and then, allow those people to be the mediators between you and your lover.</div>
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Gossips will only make you to see so many faults in your partner that will make you to keep thinking the opposite direction about them, in truth, you are going to think that they are helping you to get the relationship better, but inside of the circle, you are going to find out that those gossips and bad mouthing from third parties is actually causing you to loose focus in the relationship.</div>
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So now that you have known that these two things are vital for making you to slow down your progress in your relationship life.<br />So i know that you want to maintain your relationship so that it will last for a long period of time.</div>
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To achieve that aim, i have been able to put down these tips that can help you to build the kind of long term relationship you want. So here are the things that you should do to maintain your relationship to last for a long period of time.</div>
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<b>1. Show your partner that you like something about them.</b></div>
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There are a lot of women who normally loves it when their man always compliment them on the things they find attractive to them.<br />So if your woman falls under this category, then telling her about those things you like when you see her do them, wear them or act in such ways can trigger the love and care between the both of you.</div>
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So when you become good and better in voicing out the things you like about your partner, he or she will start to do the same and from that point, you will discover you get along with each other and enjoy that aspect when the compliments and appreciation keeps flowing between the both of you.</div>
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<b>2. Interact With Your Partner About Your Dreams And Goals in Your Life.</b></div>
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Have you ever thought of the reason why you are in a relationship with that person? Maybe you don't know why.<br />When you are in a relationship, you should know that you are not just into it because you want someone to make you happy or you want to enjoy some benefits that are attached to relationships. If that's your view about the relationship, then you can never settle for a long term relationship that will last.</div>
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The reason for starting any relationship should be solely for the purpose of sharing your life with your partner. And your life means your happiness and your achievements, or your dreams and your challenges you face in your life.<br />Sharing your dreams and goals in life will bring about motivation from your partner and he/she will always want to be in support of your dreams in your life.</div>
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So you must never underestimate the importance of sharing your goals in life with your partner because it brings about motivation and desire from both ends to see that those dreams are achieved.</div>
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<b>3. Build up your compatibility and have common interest between the both of you.</b></div>
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One reason why many relationships today are thrown into the dust is because the partners have no compatibility between them, that is to say, they have nothing in common that brings their heads together.</div>
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For example, if you always like watching adventure, while she likes to watch romantic movies, or she likes taking strawberry and you don't like taking it but prefer mangoes, or she likes going to parties and hanging out while you hate hanging out nor partying. </div>
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When you discover that most of your interests, likes and dislikes are always different and are not common between you, then you can hardly get along as you get divided in many occasions and it will not be too good.</div>
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So if you know you really love your partner and you want something long lasting between the both of you, then the best idea to use is to start building your compatibility because everything have shown that you are not compatible with each other.</div>
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How do you start this process? It is easy, you must learn to start liking what your partner likes, no matter how hard you find it, but finally having something in common that both of you can discuss about can work a great deal in bring your heads together and also get your brains to function and work in the same direction.</div>
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<b>4. Frequent </b><b>Communication and Body Languages Usage.</b></div>
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Without communication, no relationship can last for long, so you must never play with this idea of keeping in touch with each other.</div>
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When you go out to work and have no hope of seeing your partner until when its evening, calling them to know how they are doing is a great way to show care and concern for them.<br />Communicate and talk to each other about anything that involves the both of you.</div>
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If you are having any challenge in your life, then tell your partner about it, if there is something you don't like about your partner, make them know about it and if you have any insecurity about your partner, then you must communicate all these things to them so that both of you can learn about each others problems more better and handle them in the best way you can.</div>
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Don't underestimate the importance of touching your partner always, this can be in form of hugging, hands holding, shoulder leaning and kissing, other advanced touch situations are massaging of your partner's body. All these activities will make you not to have any boring experience about what you see other people doing in their relationships.</div>
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<b>Before you can be able to hold a long term relationship, there must be that dedication and interest in achieving such height of relationships, and once you are able to practice all those tips given above, then you can be able to maintain your relationship and make it last for a long period of time.</b></div>
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I tried the whole lot of lies i could think of but the breakup never happened, i looked for any exit door open but i could not get any and because of that, i have to consult my friend who was an expert whenever it comes to relationship matters.</p><p dir="ltr">That friend of mine was now able to give me new guidelines that i practiced and followed, and when i used them, i was now able to get out of the relationship with ease and i forgot about it completely.</p><p dir="ltr">From my experience, trying to end a relationship you have gone into is a very hard situation which can make you think that your life is going to end with that partner you are currently dating, and when you think of breaking up, there are two situations in which you can embark on a breakup plan.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>Ending Your Relationship for No Reason.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Have you ever thought of this situation, it is the hardest form a breakup can take as there is no reason why you want to end the relationship.<br>You will be tempted to think and say to yourself that your partner loves you so much and will be hurt to see you go.</p><p dir="ltr">But right inside your heart, you know that you just want to breakup for a reason outside the relationship and not because of any other thing.<br>For example, you might want to breakup and end your relationship if you are relocating to another destination, or you are going away to school and you cant just continue the relationship because you cant meet again and have things as it uses to be.</p><p dir="ltr">Well this situation can come in different forms and depending on your own reason why you want to end the relationship, it might be harder for you to do so.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>Ending Your Relationship For a Reason.</b></p><p dir="ltr">When you are ending the relationship for a reason, it is safer and more easier than when you are ending it for no reason.<br>There can be many reasons why you will want to end the relationship and those reasons are mostly accompanied with difficulties that arises inside the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">Maybe you just found a new love and the kind of attention and attraction you get from them is greater than the kind you get from your present lover, and because of that, you just want to end the current relationship and start something new with another partner.</p><p dir="ltr">Or it happened that your significant other is not making you happy anymore in the relationship, and you get lots of misunderstanding with each other and as a result, you think that ending the relationship is the best option you are left with.</p><p dir="ltr">But whether you are wanting to end the relationship for a reason or for no reason, its no news that we normally suffer a great deal when wanting to initiate a breakup. <br>There must be that feeling of guilt, that rushing of memories, that remembrance of promises kept for each other, those happy romantic moments and those awesome sex nights you do enjoy in the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">What makes a breakup more of a hard task is that your other partner will be your area of concentration and when that happens, you discover that you keep remembering everything that makes you happy with your partner and you mostly skip the bad memories about them.</p><p dir="ltr">So now, you want to just end the relationship right? And you have tried but you couldn't, or you just want to end it in a way that will not sound dramatic? Well are a list of those methods you can implement in other to end a relationship in no time.<br>(Also Read: <a href="/2015/08/how-to-deal-with-breakup-and-avoid.html?">How to Deal With a Breakup and Avoid Making Things Worst</a> )</p><p dir="ltr"><b>1. Stop Thinking About Your Partner.</b></p><p dir="ltr">The bes way you can start the process of ending a relationship you are no more interested in is to first stop thinking about your partner whom you now want to breakup with.<br>Any little thought about them can trigger your affection for that person and when you cant get them off your head, then you can hardly start the process of ending the relationship. Whenever you discover that you want to think about them, just distract yourself from thinking about them and think of something that will be of more importance to you than keep thinking about them.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>2. Do</b><b>n't Call or Text Them, and Don't Reply Them either.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This one will also help you in initiating the breakup in a more easy and relaxed way while you just hold on to that reason why you want to end it.<br>When your partner calls or texts you, delete them and don't reply to any of them.<br>When you do that, you will be able to see that you are going easy and the end of the relationship will just be hanging around the corner, waiting for its due time.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>3. Avoid any Thing that Belongs to Them Including Social Profiles.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Keeping any of the persons gifts that was given to you, or any thing you just know it belongs to the person can stop you and slow you down from fastening the whole process.</p><p dir="ltr">Their social profiles and accounts will also slow you down if you don't delete them from your profiles. Anything that will make you feel like you can still get in touch with each other can trigger affection in you and when that happens, it will just occur to you that you cant just end the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">Also, you should just avoid anything that would remind you of them, places that reminds you of your partner should be forgotten and also, you should just avoid things that normally makes you to idealize them.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>4. Call Them to Say </b><b>"Its Over</b><b>".</b></p><p dir="ltr">Sometimes, the reason why its always hard to end the relationship is because you cant communicate to your partner about it.<br>So when your partner starts seeing you change in your actions and they find you unaccessible from every angle, maybe it will send them a signal that something is happening to you. So when you observe it, you can now walk up to your partner and just tell them the word "I think its over between us, and the relationship have to end".</p><p dir="ltr">Now you should not just leave after saying that because it sounds rude and embarrassing, so you don't want to sound rude nor embarrassing, so what you do next after saying that is to tell them why you are leaving and ending the relationship. </p><p dir="ltr">You should try to be polite and convincing at this moment and make sure that you convince them that you can still be friends after the relationship is ended, i think that should be fair enough.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>5. Finally, Don't Shake.</b></p><p dir="ltr">What i mean by this is that you should hold on to that reason why you want to end the relationship. You already know what you want to do and you are to take responsibility for whatever you decide that its best for you. </p><p dir="ltr"><b>So as you embark on breaking up and ending your current relationship, you must ensure that the actions you choose do not come with regrets in the afterwards of the relationship breakup.</b></p>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-27813428728690806802015-08-26T07:57:00.000-07:002015-10-11T15:18:14.087-07:00Reasons Why You Should Take a Break if Problems Persist in Your Relationship<p dir="ltr"><b>Have you ever thought of taking a break in your relationship because of one reason or the other?</b><br><b>If yes, then this article is for you, am going to give you insights about this topic and how it will work a big deal in bringing you and your lover together.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Sometimes when talking about relationships and taking a break from it, it does not go the direction of thinking that you are no more in love with your partner or that you are tired with the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">I have faced so many problems in my relationship and as someone who knows much about relationships, i thought about taking a break in my relationship which i did, and after doing that, i got an impressive result and when we came back together, our love life was able to get better and we were once again happy with each other with the past confusions dealt with.</p><p dir="ltr">The main importance and the most significant part is what you do and what you engage in after taking a break from your relationship.<br>There are many problems that will arise in your relationship which will make you opt for taking a break from the relationship. But depending on the reason, the break can either lead to a breakup or it will strengthen the love between you and your partner.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>The Need for Agreement Before Going Into a Relationship break.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Sometimes, before we go into a relationship break, we make mistakes of not having the agreement and go ahead from our partner before embarking on the break.</p><p dir="ltr">When you don't tell your partner about your intentions to go for a relationship break and also get them to agree that it will work for both of you together, your partner might misunderstand the reason why you are going for a break and when they don't get your concept for taking that break, it can lead to a breakup at the end.</p><p dir="ltr">So at first, you need to sit with your partner, and identify those difficulties that your relationship is facing, then tell your partner about the option you have opted to consider which in turn is going to make everything better. </p><p dir="ltr">After you have talked to your partner about this and have it that your partner have agreed that both of you should take a break from the relationship, then you must make sure that both of you hold on to the love you have for each other and not allowing it to slip away.</p><p dir="ltr">But when after talking to your partner about it, your partner was not able to show full support, then its best if you drop this option and consider taking up a new and better option because this point at a time is crucial and can either grow your relationship, or end it.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>How Taking a Break Helps in Powering Up The Relationship.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Now after you have agreed to take a break in your relationship, you need to learn certain things you must do at that moment when you are now alone by yourself and then, waiting until when the tension, confusions and problems of the relationship are finally dealt with.</p><p dir="ltr">But before we tell you those things to do, here are the list of the ways taking a break will help you to improve your relationship and get it straight up on the tract of successful relationships.</p><p dir="ltr">One of the most heard reason why some people take breaks in relationship is because they need some <b>Time to be Alone</b> and think about things that makes the relationship so difficult to move on smoothly.</p><p dir="ltr">This is just one of thing you must first consider after you take a break from the relationship, you must know that you don't need to keep jumping up and down engaging in those things you were doing before you took the break in the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">When you have the whole time alone, you feel more better and more happy because you finally have time to be yourself and think more about how to make things right in the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>1. Motivation from both ends.</b></p><p dir="ltr">When you truly love your partner, then going on a relationship break can drive you nuts because it will be hard for you to bear those moments when you don't hear from your partner and get any tip as to what is happening to them.</p><p dir="ltr">Can you just imagine how you will feel when you know that both of you are still in love but cant hear from each other?<br>When you have this feeling in you, then you will be motivated towards making things right and replacing the unhappy events in your relationship and clear the ground for a better and happy reunion.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>2. That Awkward Moment When You Are Missing Each Other.</b></p><p dir="ltr">When you take a relationship break, you must truly miss each other when the love is true between the both of you.<br>Before you took a break from the relationship, it may happen that you were always together and because of that, you may even think that you are not having personal space to be happy with yourself alone.</p><p dir="ltr">But after you take a break from the relationship, that is when you will find out and discover how you can not live without each other in your lives. So as a result of that you will be eager to get back with your partner and will be motivated to make them happy once again.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>Why Honesty And Proper Communication Works Best.</b></p><p dir="ltr">When your love life gets though and hard to handle, and you just have taking a break as your own option to make things better, then its good and you can go ahead to do that and be rest assured that it is going to work.</p><p dir="ltr">But then, while taking a break works most of the times, it will be better if you consider sitting your partner down and having a conversation about the problems your relationship is facing and then, discussing about the possible ways you can use in making things better in your relationship.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>So as you take this step of taking a break, </b><b>don't</b><b> play with the time </b><b>in between</b><b> the break and the reunion, and be careful because a break can lead to a break up if you </b><b>don't</b><b> handle it the right way. </b></p>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-55977704727008868192015-08-25T15:21:00.000-07:002015-10-11T15:18:14.105-07:005 Signs That Tells Your Partner is Cheating on You<p dir="ltr"><b>Many relationships that are in existence today are suffering from this single act of cheating, and cheating has been one of the most prominent situation many people face in their relationships.</b></p><p dir="ltr">But why do people cheat in relationships? I keep asking myself this question and i found no definite answer to this cause, maybe they feel like cheating and they see it as a normal thing in any relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">Not everyone is perfect in dating, and sometimes cheating comes as a mistake and not intentional, also when your relationship starts getting boring or melting in sweetness, then your partner might want to get another someone to give them the hotness they need, even when they know they are still in love with you.</p><p dir="ltr">When you love someone and you find out that he or she is cheating on you, it always hurt and if you are just suspecting that your partner is cheating on you, then here are some clues to know that your partner is cheating on you in the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>1. Hiding her calls and texts from you.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This is one sure sign that your partner is cheating behind your back.<br>When you started the relationship, your partner seemed confident enough to pick calls in your presence and even allow you access to her text messages.</p><p dir="ltr">But now you observe that your partner always get nervous when someone calls or texts their phone in your presence.<br>When they get a call when you are around and instead of answering the call in your presence, they go out to answer the call, then you should just take it that your partner is cheating in the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">This is just a good sign that you must watch out for because if the caller was their mom, dad, friend, co-worker or any family member, they will not be afraid of answering those calls in your presence.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>2. Your partner starts giving excuses for not hanging out with you.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This is another crucial point that will tell you your partner is cheating.<br>When the relationship was new and still alive, your significant other is always ready to hang out with you, they are always ready spear their free time for you and you always stay overnight together with each other.</p><p dir="ltr">But now, what are you getting? Is your significant other always giving you excuses for not hanging out with you? Do they always tell you they are having work overtime and so can not hangout? Or do your partner find excuses not to spend much time together with you anymore, or just keep making excuses everyday and always?</p><p dir="ltr">When these excuses come up almost every day or every time, then chances are that your partner is spending all those moments with the person they are cheating with.</p><p dir="ltr">If your partner is not cheating, the relationship will always be growing and things will keep getting fun. But if the other is cheating, you find out that the relationship is dying down and things keep getting worst.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>3. Your partner is now more secretive and don't talk about personal matters with you.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Normally when a relationship is still in good shape and condition, there are no secrets and even the past secrets are told in the course of the relationship, and your partner will always tell you about their personal matters that they cant make known to others.</p><p dir="ltr">But what now happens and what will tell you that your other is cheating?<br>They stop telling you anything personal and they refuse to tell you any new secret about them and about the things happening behind the door.</p><p dir="ltr">That's just a good sign to tell you that your partner is cheating on you because if they still love you and are not stabbing you from the back, they will have no reason to hold secrets  and keep things from you.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>4. False accusation and complaints.</b></p><p dir="ltr">When your partner is cheating on you, that is when you find them accusing you of what you know you are not doing, and you keep hearing them complaining about every little mistake you do.</p><p dir="ltr">The most common of this false accusation is when your partner keep saying you are cheating and suspecting that you are doing something at their back.</p><p dir="ltr">All these accuses are done in a bid to make you leave or make you end the relationship so they can continue enjoying their new life with a new partner.<br>When you see this sign occurring and reoccurring, then just know that your significant other has something cooking at the back door.  </p><p dir="ltr"><b>5. Your partner takes new interest in appearance.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Maybe you use to know your partner as someone who does not do too much of shaving and dressing up always as a man, or as a woman, you know that your girlfriend previously do not always do lots of make ups or go dress shopping always.</p><p dir="ltr">But when all these habits change and you recently found out that your partner just took new interest in their looks and they like dressing up, then its possible that your partner just saw someone new and then, they are trying to keep up on their looks so that the other new person will find them attractive and nice.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>6. Change in sexual interest and body languages.</b></p><p dir="ltr">There are two forms this changes can take, it can be that your partner is no more interested in having sexual activities with you, or you find out that your partner does not want you to be touching them again.</p><p dir="ltr">This will tell you that they are no more interested in you, and then all those other signs are already there and when you add them up together, you will find out that loss of attraction have taken over and your partner hardly allows you to even kiss, not to talk of taken of their shirts for you.</p><p dir="ltr">The problem here is that no relationship can be fun without the normal touches and body language actions, and when those things start to be absent in the relationship, then you must check out for the possible reasons why it is happening.</p><p dir="ltr">Also, sex is another thing altogether, and when you have been indulging in sexual activities and just of recent, your partner no more have interest in getting intimate with you, then they have lost the pleasure they have in you and maybe they have gotten someone new they invest their whole sexual energy on. </p><p dir="ltr">These are just some of those signs that if you start noticing them in your relationship, then you should just know that your partner is cheating in the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>And sometimes, it does not really imply that your partner is cheating in the relationship when those things happen, but when they do happen always and they keep occurring repeatedly, then its easy to say that your partner is cheating on you.</b></p>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-78634069751261624982015-08-25T15:20:00.000-07:002015-10-11T15:18:14.130-07:00How to Deal with a Breakup and Avoid Making Things Worse<p dir="ltr"><b>Breakups are nothing new in the relationship world, and i believe you know how a breakup can turn someone into a state that explains that a lot of things are happening in the persons mind.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Emotional lost and confusing moments always characterise most of the breakups today, and you find out that the person is so hurt, lost of feelings is on the high and people do questionable things when ever they are experiencing a breakup.</p><p dir="ltr">Depending on how the breakup happened, it can cause you to be either emotionally weak and miserable, or it gets you angry and makes you act in stupid ways that will make you feel more hatred for the other.</p><p dir="ltr">There are many things that if you allow them to get over you and carry out those things, that they will keep backfiring at you and you will live with regrets in your life for even a more prolonged time that you never thought of.</p><p dir="ltr">The reason why a breakup can harm you more than doing good to you is because of the fact  that it takes a long period of time before it heals. It can even last for a long period of time more than some physical injuries people do sustain. But sometimes, we are the main reason why we take too long before healing from a heart break.</p><p dir="ltr">When you allow yourself to keep thinking and behaving in a manner that will make you think that you are helping yourself to forget about your ex, then you are not doing yourself any good but you are making your situation get from bad to worst.</p><p dir="ltr">When you use a natural means to approach a breakup and get it over you, then you might not be doing yourself any good as you lack in a proper and a better emotional cleanness.</p><p dir="ltr">Here are a list of what you should avoid and things you should do after a breakup so that you can give yourself time to heal and recover quickly.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>#1. Forget your mistakes.</b></p><p dir="ltr">When you keep thinking about your mistakes from your just ended relationship and you keep disturbing yourself and rethinking about those mistakes, it makes you to keep regretting your mistakes.</p><p dir="ltr">And when this happens, then nothing is going to heal, and you will only keep regretting and brooding over all those things that caused your breakup.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>2. Don't condemn yourself.</b></p><p dir="ltr">You already know that you have been hurt and your heart is suffering from the fact that it was hurt by another person. When you keep blaming yourself for your mistakes and the things that brought about the breakup, then you will only be adding more sorrows to the one you are having now.</p><p dir="ltr">The best treatment you can give to your wounded self is to be compassionate about yourself and just consolidate yourself and allow everything to pass away.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>3. Don't try to </b><b>text or call your ex after the breaking.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Stalking is very bad and it will cause you to keep remembering everything, i mean everything about you and your ex.<br>When you keep bordering your ex with phone calls and texts, it means that you are not over the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">And when you do that, its possible that your ex don't just want you back anymore in their life, and when you cant stop reaching out to your ex when they are no more into you, that will just hurt you the more and keep causing you to regret your actions since before you broke up. </p><p dir="ltr"><b>4. D</b><b>on't over do anything after the breakup.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This can be in form of drinking too much, partying, hooking up or eating your self out.<br>You might think that doing all these things will make you feel better and forget about what is happening to you.</p><p dir="ltr">It will surely work, but will not last for up to 5 hours, and once you are back to your senses, you discover everything turns worst than it was before and you will keep being in bondage of your ex relationship thoughts.</p><p dir="ltr">So you must avoid this habit when you are heart broken after a breakup, you should just calm yourself down and give yourself the best consolation you can.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>5. Never jump into a new relationship immediately after a breakup.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Sometimes, in a desperate bid to find solutions to our wounded soul and sorrowful heart, we go into a new relationship immediately after a breakup with our ex.</p><p dir="ltr">It will not work out the way you think because it happened that you just went on a rebound because you want to get over the just ended relationship and you were still feeling hurt. </p><p dir="ltr">So you will want your new partner to meet up to your immediate needs and you will find out that whenever your new partner makes a mistake, you immediately compare them to your ex and then, everything just seem not to be at its best as you expected.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>6. Going on a break for sometime.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This is just a nice and good idea that can help you to recover from a breakup within a short time and move on with your life.</p><p dir="ltr">There are things that you enjoy doing when you were still with your ex, and there were places you normally like going to, so the best way to get healed from your past relationship wounds is to take a break from doing those things and going to those places.</p><p dir="ltr">Also, you must not rush into any new relationship after a breakup, but the best thing to do is to start enjoying your single life and freedom by meeting with new friends and new people, and talk to every woman or man that comes your way and do it with a clean and happy mood.</p><p dir="ltr">By so doing, you can be able to start regaining all your lost emotions and feelings that makes you the confident and happy man you used to be before.</p><p dir="ltr">A breakup will be hard on you only if you have never experienced it before or that you were deeply committed to your partner before things went sore.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>To bring it all to close, being happy with who you are is the best idea to carry yourself on and after that, you should allow people in and out of your life because not all relationships are meant to last for a long period of time.</b></p><p dir="ltr"><b>So once you start dating a multiple times, you can be able to learn that not everyone that comes into your life is meant to stay in it.</b></p>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-13439912853083361912015-08-25T00:36:00.000-07:002015-10-11T15:18:14.167-07:00How to Engage in First Dates that Won't Cost You Lot of Money<p dir="ltr"><b>When it comes to dating and the course of wowing a girl just to make here like you and find you interesting, there has been a lot to this process and nothing is easy at this point in a man's life.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This topic is meant to draw your attention to the fact that pressure on you in order to wow a girl on the first date will make you think that you have to spend a lot and spill out your money on the first date before you can get everything to be fun and interesting.</p><p dir="ltr">The way you think on first dates is what will determine if the date will be great and fun, but it does not just go the spending way. You might spend on the date the entire day and end up getting nothing really interesting out of it and then, that becomes a total waste.</p><p dir="ltr">And also, most people who do dating have forgotten the whole concept about dating and they seem not to understand dating.<br>A friend of mine once told me that he will make sure that he spends much for a girl on a date and then, he expects her to repay him handsomely at the bedroom.</p><p dir="ltr">You should not take a date to be a moment of extra spending that ends with a call for the bedroom. There is difference between sex and dates and these two should not just be mixed up and taken as one.</p><p dir="ltr">So to avoid all these craps that do happen when a call for a date is made, you must know that you don't have to spend your money too much before you can achieve the best results after the date.</p><p dir="ltr">So in other to engage in a first date without spending much money, here are a list of what you should do to get the best result which you have always expected.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(1</b><b>) Visit the food markets close to your community.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This is just a great second option for you to try and see how effective it works. You don't have to spend much there and you can even pick up one or two things from the market and make sure you let her to pick what is of interest to her from the farmers market.</p><p dir="ltr">When you take the girl out with you to the nearest farmers market in your community, its a great way to know more about your likes and dislikes when it comes to what to eat. And you will have more idea as to what food she enjoys the most and you can also tell her the ones you enjoy the most.</p><p dir="ltr">When you are doing this, both of you can talk about relevant issues about the market and the nature of the farmers and how they go about carrying out their farming activities.</p><p dir="ltr">This will show to the girl that you have many more things that are priority in your life and you don't only want to get her attraction, but also create attraction between the both of you and what you enjoy talking about.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(2</b><b>) Have Dinners at home or somewhere comfortable.</b></p><p dir="ltr">The reason you should choose to have a dinner is because it is less expensive, less noisy and then, it gives you more and much time to talk to each other and get to know each other while having the dinner.</p><p dir="ltr">Another reason why having dinners is because it don't always turn out to be awkward and boring. Since its a dinner and you are at the comfort of your home or the house you went to, you have many things to switch and hold on to and as a result, you will not get any awkward and boring situation in the course of the date.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(3</b><b>) Go for a run or do a sport activity together.</b></p><p dir="ltr">I choose arcades as the best and favourite activity that can be fun between the both of you and is nothing expensive.</p><p dir="ltr">By going for arcades, you are able to explore and see each others playful side and also enjoy the both of you competing with each other.</p><p dir="ltr">But you can only enjoy this if the girl is a humorous girl and enjoys to play and have fun, but if she is not, you should not start it because at will turn awkward and boring at the end.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(4</b><b>) Opt to go for a walk and also for people watch.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This can be a best idea that makes a date fun and less expensive, you don't even need to spend anything at all.<br>You can ask her if she would like to take a walk with you and if she agrees, then you can choose to walk to anywhere you want.</p><p dir="ltr">And while doing that, you talk about everything you can think of and just enjoy the moment you spend and the time you send together with her. You should just get to know each other and that is jus what first dates are all about.</p><p dir="ltr">Also ask her if she would enjoy watching people out together with you. So both of you can find somewhere comfortable where you can sit down and view people as they go about their life and also, you can sit just to observe and see how the world moves around and how time passes. These are fun and less expensive budgets to carry out.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(5</b><b>) Go to watch romantic movies together.</b></p><p dir="ltr">You are looking up to create something more attractive and fun between the both of you, so going to watch a romantic movie can be very fun and can cause a feeling of emotion to occur between the both of you at the end.</p><p dir="ltr">It is less expensive and once you are able to do that, you might be surprised to see her use more body languages that explains attraction when ever she is with you.</p><p dir="ltr"><i>ADDITIONAL TIPS:</i></p><p dir="ltr"><b>Avoid coffee's and drinks on first dates.</b></p><p dir="ltr">These two things does not end well with if you want to start a relationship with the girl you are dating, so its either that you want to take her to the bed and have a one night of hot sexual escapade, then it might be that you just want to be friends and that's all.</p><p dir="ltr">When you opt for a coffee, it does not signify or point out anything special between the both of you and perhaps, friendship is what a coffee always signify. And opting for drinks will not yield any better result save the other part of it, sex. <br>So to end it all, you must remember that the woman you picked does not really matter, and your spending does not matter to her too.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>The ultimate purpose and reason for the date is just to get around each other and know each other well. So spending high means nothing and you might end up impressing the wrong people, so the best advice you can take with you is to go low and spend less on your first dates.</b></p>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-87452073359054346852015-08-25T00:35:00.001-07:002015-10-11T15:18:14.200-07:00What to Do When You Find an Attractive Girl at a Bar<p dir="ltr"><b>The bar is a great place to meet with different kinds of women in your life and when you see an attractive lady who you start liking right inside the bar, you should not be afraid of making a move to get her.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Maybe you just went to the bar to grab a glass and meet with new people, then while in your cool at the bar, you just saw a very sweet and attractive girl and you started melting for her. Okay the point here is that you now want to talk to her, and make her notice you.</p><p dir="ltr">But you don't just know how to start initiating the whole process and you are stuck in one position, thinking of what to do to get the girl and start something that is likely going to end well.</p><p dir="ltr">You might be afraid and think that you cant have a great relationship with a girl you took up from a bar, and that is what most people say, but its not always true because i have seen many great relationships that started just from the bar or any other place similar.</p><p dir="ltr">That is not the problem here, what becomes a problem is you not being able to take the right approach at the right time in the bar, and once you are not able to do that, you find out that you will not record any success in your pursuit.</p><p dir="ltr">There are things you should do in other not to be like those other guys out there and also there are techniques you must use in other not to be that boring to her. Lets see some of those tips on what next to do after you see an attractive girl at the bar.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>1. Use the old friend approach style.</b></p><p dir="ltr">When you want to approach her at the bar, doing it just the way other guys always do will not just work as you expected, and you can only get that "what is the matter" look from her and you will end up confused and short of things to say.</p><p dir="ltr">But why not try it a new way and get a different style for yourself?<br>This kind of approach goes along with boldness in you and then, go and meet her just like as if you have been friends for a long time, you can pretend to her like you have been friends since childhood and once she shows surprise and a little or much interest in you, just bring up a conversation that is going to last for a long time that you can ask her to follow you out of the bar.</p><p dir="ltr">This is not stressful at all, it only requires that positive energy in you and also the boldness as you initiate the process else, she might find your approach unimpressive and deceitful.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>2. Look nice and clever.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Whenever you want to go to a party or a bar, there is need for you to always dress in good form and have yourself organised in case of moments like this when you find a girl attractive and so you want to approach her.</p><p dir="ltr">No woman will want to flirt and come around you if you appear in rags or appear like you are just taking a cool breeze from the tree under your roof. So appearing nice and looking good offers you more chances to get more women to hear you out and follow you around the bar.</p><p dir="ltr">You don't have to go an extra mile in dressing before you can appear and look good at the bar, but by just having a different clean and fresh styles on you and making sure every part of your body is well taken care of, you are already fit for any woman's admiration.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>3. Avoid Pick Up Lines and be original.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Did you notice something about women and the way they react to pick up lines these days?<br>It seems to be likely said that they are already familiar with all of them and so, they don't get interested whenever men use it on them and instead of tipping you about it, they just mark you as one of those guys and you totally loose out.</p><p dir="ltr">Some of those pick up lines are just bad as crap and do not work at all because most of them do not work with every kind of woman and the initiators just use them without thinking about what a woman's reaction will be.</p><p dir="ltr">Instead of using pick up lines, the best natural way to do it at the bar is just to be yourself and not faking anything. There are many things you can ask a woman that makes her think twice and then come up with something to tell you and from there, you can start up a conversation.</p><p dir="ltr">What really matters when trying to get a girl is how real and original you are, so if you use those pick up lines, she will notice that you are only desperate and just a needy guy who wants to get her attention, and so she will cross her mind originally from the scratch.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>4. Showing a lot of confidence in yourself.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Confidence has always been the thing, and when you are able to push yourself up and know that you are certainly going to face a lot of challenges when doing all these things, then be sure that you can do it.</p><p dir="ltr">You might be thinking that the girl will turn you down and you will feel rejected, but the cases have not always been like that. Once you are able to set your targets and goals, then use the tools you have to aim at them and get it right, then you are done, every other story can well end up in the bed room or a happy new relationship.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>5. Pay for her drinks without asking.</b></p><p dir="ltr">This is also a nice way and one of the best ways you can use, not to get her attraction, but her attention to start up a new conversation without putting on much stress.</p><p dir="ltr">When you notice her ordering for drinks at the bar, you don't wait for her to ask the waiter how much it costs or wait for her to pay, you can just walk over to the attendant and ask him for her bill, then get it done for her and don't wait for her to come to you for appreciation, just take your leave immediately and go away from her presence.</p><p dir="ltr">When you do so, you will find out that she will be ready and even want to have a word of appreciation with you at that moment. The reason why you should leave is because everything might end at just the appreciation and nothing special happens again and as a result, she might take you as a nice guy.</p><p dir="ltr">So to avoid that, you have to leave her presence for the rest of the moment at the bar before she can see you again and when you both meet, the chemistry and physics will be high, so its left for you to utilize it to the best of your advantage.</p><p dir="ltr">There are many other tips on this subject and with time, we will update you with more of them but for the mean time, you must remember that not every girl at the bar is interested in making new boyfriends or getting to bed for a one night stand.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>So you should create time to learn and know what that girl need and what she is looking for so that you can do the right thing and choose what will work for you out there.</b></p>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8973195477164698779.post-2299957585689005492015-08-25T00:35:00.000-07:002015-10-11T15:18:14.185-07:00How to Prevent Your Relationship Life from Getting Boring<p dir="ltr"><b>You know how it use to be when you start a relationship newly, and the way everything is so lively between you and your partner as the relationship kicks off, then as everything starts getting old and everything becomes familiar and frequent, the passion starts dying off and everything starts to slow down with time.</b></p><p dir="ltr">When a relationship starts getting bored, you normally knows it and it always occur that its not because the relationship encountered any problem. You and your partner are still happy to have each other and you always move together, but then it seems like the power and attraction in the relationship is gone, and you keep doing the same thing you used to do before, and the you keep going to places you use to go before, but nothing seem to get lively anymore,  and the boredom keeps advancing from bad to worst.</p><p dir="ltr">You should not have any feeling of guilt in you when your relationship starts getting boring, and just the way you are viewing the relationship, its also the same way your partner is viewing it, so you should be more concerned about finding out the reason behind the boredom in your relationship and how to do away with it.</p><p dir="ltr">The reason why boredom sets into most relationships is because nothing was done to prevent it from breaking into the relationship. And you might take it as a surprise as to why you are experiencing boredom in the relationship. But as you continue to wonder why, you should be able to come into a concluding knowledge that relationships are just tricky.</p><p dir="ltr">And even when you play them well, you still run into moments you get screwed up and keep thinking why you even started it in the first place, but also, relationships can make you feel like the happiest person ever in this life.</p><p dir="ltr">So these following tips will help you learn some measures you can take on how to prevent your relationship life from getting boring.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(1</b><b>) Master the act of touching.</b></p><p dir="ltr">You must learn to understand and know those sensitive areas on the body of your partner that triggers the attraction in them, and once you are able to learn about the erotic parts that turn you and your partner on, you can talk more about it when together and doing that will encourage you and your partner never to stop doing what triggers the attraction between the both of you when you are together.</p><p dir="ltr">The most concrete kinds of touches that have existed for a long period of time are hugging, kissing, holding of hands and touching of the face or neck areas, so take your time to ensure you do those things at the right time and with the right expression so that you don't appear needy or something like that.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(2</b><b>) </b><b>Don't</b><b> always have sex.</b></p><p dir="ltr">If you really enjoy having sex and it happens that you always have it with your partner, then its time to cut off that too much of sex and replace it with something more romantic that she will always love you do and appreciate you for doing them.</p><p dir="ltr">Instead of always having sex every night, why not option to give him/her a deep massage that he or she will always remember and want you to do more. Spend time using your hands to give your partner unending pleasure on their body parts as you continue to refuse sex and bear it within you even when you know its so hard for you to bear.</p><p dir="ltr">When you allow sex to take over your relationship, it will be the worst when your relationship starts getting boring because when the pleasure for that sex is not there, then every other thing is absolutely down to zero and nothing will seem to be of interest to both of you anymore.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(3</b><b>) Get out of home and get busy.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Sometimes, too much care and attention backfires in a relationship and when you allow it to get much, everything about the relationship will not last for a long period of time.</p><p dir="ltr">When you always find yourselves together, you always talk and talk until you run out of new ideas and topics to talk about and as a result, silence can even set in and boredom can set in at those moments, though it will not last for long before both of you start talking again. But the more you spend time together and always talk and talk out of ideas, then the more you create space for boredom to set into the relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">So one among the best way to avoid this is to get out of the house and get more busy with other things outside your own world than the inside. By so doing, you will create more memories and new topics to talk about with your partner.</p><p dir="ltr">If the both of you can get out together, it will also be a good idea to keep everything fun and easy going without worrying about getting bored in the relationship. Seeing new things and going out to new places together can create more memories and multiply your topics for conversation.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>(4</b><b>) Do things that will add more passion and its memories.</b></p><p dir="ltr">Sometimes the way you refuse to show passion and create it with your partner can lead to boredom in your relationship.</p><p dir="ltr">Talking about touching your partner and that special way you do it that makes your partner to always think of it how they love it when you do it in whatsoever way you like to do it best.<br>Think about kissing your partner every now and then and how you do it to your partner, the way you kiss that will make your partner want to jump on to the bed with you.</p><p dir="ltr">What about looking into your partners eyes? That special way you do it that makes him to keep thinking of you always and  admire it. There are many things you can do to your partner that will cause a flow of passion and keep its memories in your brain.<br>The feeling of passion is a great way to keep the fire of the relationship burning because it makes you remember every small thing that occurred between you and your partner and the way you enjoyed them all.</p><p dir="ltr">To wrap everything up, you must always remember that the moment you are now reading this post is a moment to be happy and celebrate with your lover. Here is why.</p><p dir="ltr">You were able to live up to this moment while people die everyday, that's true gift of life for you and your creator and then, the love and happiness you are sharing is something to always be happy about.</p><p dir="ltr"><b>So always show passion and love everyday of your life with your partner and by so doing, you can be able to drive away any sign of boredom trying to set into your relationship.</b></p>Paul Samuel Uchechukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07006128210721271868noreply@blogger.com0