Things a woman say that means something different

Women have probably been known for not going straight  to the point while having a discussion with anyone who they come across and today, we are going to talk about some of those things a woman say but actually takes a different meaning.

You can never understand the mind of a woman and the way she thinks and that is why you sometimes misunderstand and translate what she says wrongly. That is why most relationships gets boring now and then because when you expect your woman to clearly state her state of mind to a current situation, she does not say it straight but says it in such a way that it makes you get the wrong understanding to what she said.

Well without wasting much time doing introductions, i believe you know why you are here and so, if you fall among the category of those guys who can not understand and read a woman's thought as she beats around the bush, let me now show you some of those things your woman will tell you which you don't clearly understand and interpret.

#1. When your woman tells you "You don't need to buy me anything okay!"

When your woman tells you something like that, what comes to your mind first?
You are naturally going to think that she has everything she needs and you don't need to disturb yourself buying her anything.

But actually that's not what she means. When a woman says that to you, she just meant that you already know what she likes, and she don't have to tell you what she needs, she also expects you to ask her friends or sisters if you don't know what she needs, she just mean that if you really care, then you will figure out the right thing she wants.

#2. When your woman exclaims "What?''.

When you hear your woman say that to you, i know what comes to your mind, yes, i said something that seems unclear to hear and so, she wants me to repeat it so she can hear again.

Though sometimes, it is so and that interpretation works in situations like that, but in the other words and vocabulary of the woman's heart, she heard what i said but she is literally giving me a second option to reverse what i said previously and change it. That's how things work with women.

#3. When she tells you to "Go ahead and do whatever you want"

Yes as a man who does not understand the language of a woman, you just think that she is now giving you the power and might to do make decisions by yourself or do that thing that is right to you.

But in the language of a woman, that is not what she is telling you. She is only telling you that you should not do whatever you want without asking her, asking her will make her feel that you really care for her, but if you go ahead and do what you want, she will repay you or revenge it another time.

#4. When a woman asks you "Are you going to wear that?"

Don't think that she is asking you to confirm that you want to wear that cloth or shoes so she can complement on them, that's not the signal here.

What she is trying to tell you is that you should not even dare to wear that shoe or cloth because it does not fit, and if you are already putting them on, you better go and take them off and change. You just don't look sharp on that attire, period!!

#5. When she asks "Am i fat?" or "Am i slim?".

Don't think she is trying to know from you if she is fat or slim because that is the first thing that comes to your mind as a man when a woman tells you that.

But that is not what she means, she is only trying to hear from you if you find her attractive, sexy or not. And when she asks you that, she want to hear you say that you find her very hot and attractive and that you don't even know you are going to find someone so hot like her.

#6. When she says "You don't care for me".

Some men will even get angry when they hear their woman say something like this to them which gets the woman off her thoughts and tells them sorry, and that's another thing, she is not really sorry, you just turned her off.

When a woman says that to you, she does not really mean that you don't care or love her, she just think that you have not been showing much care and love, so what do you do about that? She wants you to improve on that and show more care.

#7. When she says "Its nothing, just forget it, am fine and okay".

This is another point you should never mess with. You will just think that she just told you that she have forgotten about what happened or what you did to her.

But in her mind, thought and meanings, she is only asking you to fix what happened and resolve the situation if not, she is going to take things her own way.

Also she might say any of those things if she want to make you forget any situation or anything that you insist on talking about.

#8. When she says "I am sorry".

You will think it as a normal word which she said straight from her heart and so, you take it like that.

But it is not so, she is just saying that so that she can get herself out of a hot awkward situation and get over it with you. Though sometimes, it is genuine and some women mean it when they say such things.

#9. When she says "I will be back in 4 minutes" or "I will be done in 2 minutes time" or "wait, i will call you back in 3 minutes".

As a man, you will normally think that she will be ready to get back to you after the time she gave as a waiting time and you expect it to be so. It have happened to me a lot until i learned not to believe that.

When a woman says any of that to you man, you just have to just relax your mind, get one or two things doing and get busy before she gets back, comes to meet you or call you back, because anytime she say that, she is just trying to make you feel comfortable with her leaving.

#10. When she says "I love you".

Hmm, and finally, when she say this to you, what do you expect? That she is also not straight?

Well don't misinterpret this language when it comes from a woman because it comes from her heart because she loves you, that is why she is bold to say that to you. Relax your mind and sit back, then think of all the above listing and know how to handle them all when it comes from a woman you consider so potential to you.

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5 Unhealthy conversation mistakes you always make with women

For you to be able to record success with any woman you come across in your life, you must be able to make that woman feel attracted to you and also, doing it with the right skill and the right way.

As a man, you actually don't have all the time to just spend talking with a woman, and that is why you should never keep expecting that you can grow on a woman for whatever reason.
If you don't know how to make that woman feel attracted to you very quickly, then you are open to risks of other guys who knows how to win her attraction within couple hours of meeting with her.

Now with these following unhealthy conversation mistakes i am going to tell, i hope that you will use them to improve in your over all quest for her ultimate natural attraction to you. Lets go there..

#1.Flowing in an Interview mode.

While talking to a woman, your interaction should never take the form of a job interview and if that happens, that girl can never get interested in you.

Maybe you have experienced it before. Most times, this happens when you have no topic to talk about and have no point in your mind to come up with, then at this stage, it seems both of you are into a shooting game because you just keep on bombarding her with interview-like questions and when she answers, its like backfiring her with questions after the other.

What do you do to sustain your life?
Where do your mum and dad stay?
Are you still schooling?
What level are you now?
Do you like having fun?
How many boyfriends have you dated in time past?

All these questions will make her feel interviewed and that's not what she want, that's not the kind of feeling she want to get from a man like you.
A woman wants to be with a man who would make her feel the vibe between them, have a lot of fun, make her feel sexy and sexually attracted to him and create a more romantic chemistry amidst their conversation.

#2. Trying to do the right thing to impress her.

One among the unhealthy conversation mistakes you might be making is your inability to be your real self when ever you are with a woman you feel something for.

In normal circumstances, when you are around a woman who don't actually feel attracted to, you observe that you are more confident and flowing in your real nature and with your original verbal reasoning ability. But when you are with a woman whom you feel so attracted to, then that is when you start thinking of the right and impressive things you would say to her to make her get attracted to you.

Now doing that can cause a tense inside you and you will become nervous and act wired, of which she will notice and also become uncomfortable for the fact that she is causing you great discomfort, she might even want to leave at once.

Women are naturally attracted to guys who are confident in themselves and who do not hide their original nature and act while trying to get them attracted. So the most important thing you should do when together with a woman you want to attract is to be original, the real version of who you really are.

#3. Trying to be romantic and making her like you when she is not yet interested.

I have seen a lot of guys doing this for some times now. And do you know why it happens with many guys including you? It is because men are always attracted to women physically and judging women by their appearance and looks, a man can want to immediately take a woman to the bed and get intimate with her.

This happens because a lot of women appear to be physically seductive with their body shapes and the characters on their body which stimulates the mans attraction traits.

Now because of all these, we now go on to meet that attractive woman who we now really like but then, she is not interested in us. Okay now back to you.
You now start a conversation with her all your chat up lines shows that you are now in the act of trying to convince her to like you and feel very different about you.

When it comes to a woman being interested in a guy, the fact is that you can never change the mind of a woman and the way she feels. Even with the whole reasoning and logistics, you can only record a 40% attraction which tends to be temporary.

So you just beg her, plead, ask, keep chasing and doing everything at your best just to get her change her mind, well it can never be done. So stop that man.

#4. Thinking that you can use money and swags, and looks to get a woman like you.

This is one of the oldest trend of all time, guys who think they have it all and so, they can use their money, handsomeness and swags to get a woman like them.

This is one of the most frequent error that men always make when trying to get a girl attracted.
For many of the average guys, they think they cant have a girl because they don't have money and attractive looks, they are below the age, or their height ain't enough and as a result, they give up and settle for less. Truly, there are women who look after those qualities in a man.

When you consider today's trend in the dating world, you will discover that a lot of women, the most of them are after a mans personality and not his financial strength or attractiveness. And if you look out and see through the dating style many women adapts to, you will learn that there are many traits that are attached to personality which gets women interested in any guy with such traits.

Now you must learn about those traits if you want to get women to like you, you should also learn how to use those traits to your advantage.
(Also Read: Tips on how to be that special man every woman want )

#5. Not learning about a woman's body language and when she is not just interested.

For you to be able to have the right motive whenever you are with a woman, learning about her body languages is just a short code to let you access the ideologies as to when she is not comfortable with what you are saying, or when she is not interested.

You should learn to use your senses, open your eyes and look well, then get your ears wide open so that you can understand every situation she is in and every move she makes.

When you are able to do that, you can learn when she is happy, excited, feeling bored or enjoying your vibe.

These are just a few from the list we have on those unhealthy conversation mistakes you do make as a man, so you must learn to use them and avoid any further mistake with that next woman you are going to meet.

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Knowing the right time to ask for a girl's phone number

Many guys have this problem of moving too fast with a women when it comes to the issue of the girl letting the guy to have her phone number. When to ask for her number and how to get it quickly have been the focus of many guys when ever they meet a new girl.

The problem with moving too fast is associated with the thoughts of many guys as to limited chances of meeting with that certain girl again and so, missing your chances of getting her phone number. Getting her to drop her phone number to your phone book is not a success or achievement as you may think. So because you got her number by all means should not make you think that you can start a relationship with her.

Whenever you are interacting with a woman, you should first of all check on the urgency of the current situation and therefore, you learn the risks you must take while trying to get her phone number, email address or even ask her out for a date.

When ever it comes to women, everything becomes risky and that is why you need to learn about different time frame conditions while talking with a woman which in turn, helps you know the right time to make any move you wish, this will also make you not to miss important opportunities.

You might have had a very wonderful moment with a woman in your life but because of this single mistake of moving too fast to get her number, you were able to scare her away and make her loose attraction.

#Why you fail in getting a girls phone number.
As you have known, it starts just the normal way, you ran into a girl, you start a conversation, everything starts very sound and smooth but then, it happened that either you or the girl have a schedule ahead which have to be attended to and now, the conversation have arrived at a break point.

The conversation now starts to wind up and you immediately get nervous about the aspect of getting her phone number as you think about it inside you. Now you know you have a chance to ask for her phone number but then, you just have few minutes to do that and you don't want to risk your chance away to getting rejected, turned down and embarrassed.

When you don't know how to get a girl's phone number, the first step you take after getting over your fear of rejection is "Can i have your phone number?"

Immediately you do that, a girl will act the normal way, think to her self and reason on why you need her phone number, from there she can decide to play hard to get and will give you a response like "I don't think or really know yet, but can you give me yours instead?"

Now what came into your mind? boom!! You know you have failed and she just saved you that awkward moment of feeling embarrassed and rejected, but then, both of you went away with excitement and good moods but from the inside, you are struggling with your new defeated quest.

#Why she did not give you her phone number.

When she turned down your request for her phone number, what comes into your mind is that feeling of you, thinking that she actually likes you and she is even in to you.

It do happen a lot and as a man, you first of all think that there was attraction between the both of you.
Not knowing how to and also, making it seem like like a big deal and a hard attempt is the reason why many guys fail to get a girl's phone number in a very smooth way.

But then, i assume you already know women, and the totally different kind of way they sound on phone.
Usually, women have different reasons for giving and not giving out their phone numbers. Some girls like the attraction they get from many men calling them, while many just like to turn down any request made for their phone number. But depending on how you do it and the situation surrounding your interaction, you can get a girls phone number in not more than 5 minutes.

Here a four reasons why a woman decides not to give you her phone number:
(1) She experienced a kind of fear, intimidation or pressure when she was having interactions with you and so, she could not let you have her number because you gave her a wrong impression about yourself.

(2) You were nice, just like other guys and the way you approached her and acted is not different from her day to day experience with other guys and that is to say, you are not remarkable and just the same with those other guys who stalk her around and at the end, desperately wanting for her digits.

(3) Oh you don't know? Come on, she has a boyfriend and so she don't need any more man to start preaching the gospel of love and sweet words to her, that's a big moral rejection for her.

(4) When she does not trust you, then she will never like to give you her phone number.

(5) She has adapted to the habit of turning down guys and playing hard to get until the smartest one convinces her to give it out to him.

(6) She does not feel any attraction for you, no sensual and romantic scene occurred when you were both together.

Now when a woman have any of the above options attached to her when she is together with you, then there are possibilities that both of you will not get along well.
(Also Read: Signs That Tells A Girl Likes You And Is Ready To Date You )

#How do you now get her phone number?

Having a girl give you her phone number does not involve any big trick or games, it is easy to get her phone number when she has any of the following traits inside her when ever you are together.

(1) When she trusts you that you can always get her happy just the way you started.

(2) She feels something extraordinary for you, and her experience with you was romantic and there was that sensual attraction she felt for you.

(3) When she has no boyfriend, or have no dating or friendship morals and laws you are trying to invade.

(4) You were so different and remarkable, just different from the other guys.

Now you have to know that without you delivering your game in a nice and different way, a girl will not get interested in you and when that interest is not there, then she can not let you have her phone number.

So for you to achieve your aim, you have to explore other aspects and means of having a conversation that will turn her on and get her interested in you.
You might succeed in getting a girls number without making her interested in you but then, she will never sound good and nice on phone because nothing interesting and mutual existed between the both of you.

So to get her interested in you and get her to be attracted, read these tips on " 5 Best Ways To Get A Girl Interested In You ".

After you have achieved the aims in that article, you can just come back and relax your mind and then, just use that same polite manner to get her write her phone number down for you.

#Tips: It will be good and best if you move around with a little classy pen and just a little nice paper and when you just bump into a girl and conversation is almost ending. Now here is what you would do.

1st step: After you are done talking and after exchanging pleasantries and both of you have turned and almost going separate ways. Now turn back to her and draw her back her attention like "Hey!! ". She will turn back and notice you, then ask her "Do you engage in any social network? Like facebook, bbm or skype?".. you should not include whatsapp chat because that's where her number goes. Now she would tell you if she does any of them.

Now just hand her your classy pen and a little paper, then ask her to write her pin or username down, she would not turn you down on that, now while she is doing that, ask her to also write down her phone number particularly the one she uses for whatsapp chat if she does, and when you immediately ask her to include her number, support your mood with a line like "don't think i have airtime to always call, but don't worry, i will only call 20 times in a day".

Believe me that when you do that, she would smile as she obeys your command, now you have done it and you have achieved your aim.
Just go ahead and give it a try, and when you have practiced all these, you will be a boss and a master of the game when ever it involves getting a girls phone number.

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Useful tips on how to get out of the friend zone of a woman

Have you ever been in this situation ever since you started your relationship life with women? This situation explains that moment when a girl actually takes you just as her friend, and have no interest or special feeling of been sexually attracted to you, you are not a dating option to her and in other words, she just sees you as a brother and never a potential somebody.

But in recent times, i have learnt a lot about what triggers the friend zoning habits that exist in every feminine creature, thus, concluding on the fact that there are certain traits that men exhibit that triggers and develop the sense of a girl to put any man in her friend zone.

When you have a female friend you have always loved, you see it that it is always difficult for you to escape the friend zone state of her mind, though you have always wanted to be more than a friend to her, you want her to just feel the same way you feel about her, but unfortunately for you, she does not feel anything for you.

There are different levels of a friend zone you can be pushed into, and it all depends on how you triggered the friend zone spirit inside her.
For example: (1)The girl will never hurt your feelings by telling you she is not romantically interested in you and so, she just tells you that she just wants you to be friends only.

(2) When you accept her call for you to just be friends but yet, you could not stop following her around and treating her like your girlfriend. You keep spending more time with her and treating her in a romantic way and having hopes that things might turn around, but oh!! You just kept hurting yourself.

(3) Another level of the friend zone is that situation when you have been good and best friends with a girl for a long time and gradually, at a point in time you now observe that you are now liking her and that you just want to be more than friends, but when you tell her about your feelings, it might not end up well, depending on what she feels about you.

Well you have learnt them all, but how do you now go about escaping this friend zone and diverting into the lovers zone of her heart?
You can do that, you can correct the messes you built in the past. Well i know you are eager to know how, so read on.

#Confidence and courage - using the right words and moves.
I bet you did not think about this, but what if i tell you? That getting out of this situation is never any hard as far as you have courage, you are confident about who you are, and also when you use the right words and body languages.
(Also Read: The best ways to get a girl interested in you )

#Make her to know and feel that you are wanted.
You don't have to keep following her around and acting like she is the only female friend you have got in your entire life, if you really want her to start feeling something for you and erase the friend zone barrier between the both of you, then you must give her space and then, move around here and then with other girls and let her notice it.

So when you do this, it can trigger a competitive feeling that she can also be better than those girls you are moving around with and hence, she would actually know that you are wanted by other girls. So when she starts getting jealous of that, then you are gradually getting out of the friend zone.

#Over Complimenting On Her Nature is a big mistake.
A girl starts to set her self on a high esteem when you shower her with too many compliments that she does not even deserve and as a result, she starts thinking that she is just too good to be with someone like you.

If you really want to make her know that she is beautiful or sexy, and you want to make her feel it and not just hearing it, then do it with action! As they always say, action speaks louder than voice.

#Honesty and Clarity matters a lot.
You don't expect a girl to know about your feelings for her except you make it known to her by clearly telling her.
When you are not been honest with her as to what you really want from her, you keep getting deep and deeper into her friend zone and will even become more satisfied with you as a friend to her.

But when you just tell her the truth and allow her to know your new motive concerning her, then you become satisfied with what you are doing and you find out that you no more worry about getting her to want you for a date.

#Get Close, do more Touching and use body languages.
As i said that action speaks louder than voice, this can be a great way to show her what you feel about her rather than saying it to hear hearing, but you know that over doing this can get her off the edge and get her uneasy with you.

So how do you do this, first you have to conduct yourself in a good way and show confidence in doing this, smoothly doing it with the right expression can make her feel attracted to you and think that you can be more than a friend to her.

Touch her when making a joke, touch her laps or arms when making an example or explaining a thing, hold her when trying to cross a bridge or road together, etc. Just be animated and express your feelings in this way and if she is a type that understands body languages, then she will take a hint and understand what you are doing.

But you should also never try to be too sexual in your actions and words, it will make her never to even think of you because she thinks you are just like those other guys who just drool all over her with nasty interests.

#Determination to stay or go away.
Since you don't want to be kept in her friend zone forever, and you have made all possible thing you can do to make her change you into the lovers zone but yet, it seemed she is not changing her mind.

You now know that enough is enough and you just have to either accept that part of friendship and then, totally erase any special feelings you have for her in your mind. By so doing, you are now able to lift that heavy weight on you and now be able to live the kind of a life you have always wanted.

You must know that a girl can cause you great setback in your life, and make you to live in a state of worry and anxiety and as a result, you loose sight to what you actually want in your life.

Well and okay, now you know you are in the friend zone, the best way to get out this friend zone is to be honest, courageous and confident in yourself.

When you do all these things and do it with the right motives, you will never go the wrong way and anytime she sits to think about her relationship life, she can be able to determine the position you occupy in her life.

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Tips on how to be that special man every woman want

Women get more attracted to men who show self confidence and also appear persuasive in their actions, and that is why even the most intelligent, handsome and wealthy guys fail in most quest on attracting a woman and treating her the way she wants.

The thing is this, there are guys who normally have luck with most women they come across, and this is not because they are attractive or wealthy, but its because they always show confidence when ever they are with any woman.

No trick can ever work for you whenever you want to get a lady attracted to you, new moves are not needed to get a lady to be interested in you, and when ever you just feel like asking for an advice on why women don't get interested in you, every advice you receive actually ends to the point of showing confidence.

When you try to be nice to a woman, it still works and is a nice idea which will tell a woman that you are that nice guy, and instead of extending her compliments to another level of interest, you discover that everything ends at the point of you being a nice guy. So when ever you want a lady to be attracted to you, then acting nice is not the way. I will show you more.. just read on.

What Do Women Really Want?
This is one question that mean have always asked in their desperate needs to fulfil the desires of a woman's heart.
So for you to become an expert in dealing with women and also, possessing that particular kind of lifestyle you always fantasize whenever it comes down to women, you must learn to find out what that woman want.

Now the number one (1) thing that every woman needs in a man is to have her needs and desires fulfilled, and because of that, a woman tends to look out for some traits which she wants in a man who she can term "MR. CAPABLE" in fulfilling her desires.

Now do you know what women have always wanted? One among them is:
(1) Security

Now talking about security, every woman wants to feel safe and secured in the hands of any man who is going to be with her, and that is why her security matters a lot to her.

What do a woman need to be secured about?
A woman wants to be sure that she is dating a man who will not cheat, lie, break her heart, have a poor financial life, etc.
So how do you go about showing that habit of being capable to secure that woman? What you have to show to her is:

#Loyalty.
The first step towards giving any woman a sense and feeling of security with you is to be loyal to her.
You don't need to lie about who you are and what you have, you must be your real self, you should never attempt lying to a woman about anything because sooner or later, she must know about the truth in any situation.

When you are loyal to a woman, she generates that feeling inside of her that she can trust you and what you actually claim to be.

Now there are other traits which you can develop that works inline with what some women have always wanted in a man. Like for example: Women want pleasure from a man, and that makes them feel a pure sensual stimulation that triggers every part of their body.  Women also needs a man who will create an adventure that will lead them into emotional actions that will show you they cant be without you.

So for you to satisfy such wants in a woman, you must show imagination when ever you are with her as it makes them feel stimulated which triggers her sensual pleasure, and also you have to show a woman passion so that she can feel exited being with you and would not want to leave you, now that's adventure for any woman.

But then, without looking at what a woman actually need, there are other things you can do to improve yourself just to be a man that every other woman want to date. So what are they?

#Mirror yourself and improve yourself.
Some people tend to just look out for the negative  behaviours in them and then, try improving them.
But becoming that kind of a guy every woman wants have narrowed its qualities beyond negative traits solution. You have to look out and think also about things you can improve on to make your life better and have more confidence in yourself.

The way you dress matters a lot, you have to always dress clean and smart, and also exercising is a great great way towards achieving self worth and even confidence in yourself.

Also try not to make negative postures a habit inside you, won't murmur always, haunch your shoulders while walking, or even bend one sided while sitting on a chair because when you do all that, it shows lack of confidence in yourself.

#Your Standards Matters.
A sure way towards becoming the dream guy of any woman is by setting your own rules towards handling every situation including the worst girlish situations.

You don't need to think that you can just date any woman that you come across, and if you think everyone is datable, then no girl will see any special value in you as you have recorded many stupid and uninteresting moment with many women.

So now how do you set a dating standard that will make a woman think you are unlike other men?
(1) Think about what type of a girl you want to date and then, what you actually want from her, you have to look for a girl who will make you happy. (2) Take things slow and easy, don't just rush into any kind of a relationship because the woman you think is the right girl for you might be dating another man. (3) Don't settle for less, you should be able to know when you have found the person you want to be with because you will end up hurting any woman who is not meant to be with you and also, you will be hurt.

(4) Never act needy in any way, nor act like you are worried and unsecured about a lady who turned down your request  for a date down. When a woman says she does not want you, then thank her for being honest and move on with your life.

Don't waste your time on any girl, and if you’ve tried to get a second or third date from a girl three times with nothing to show for it, move on. You only have to invest time in people that will invest time in you. You will respect yourself
more and so will other women who are seeing you come closer to them

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8 Unattractive behaviours that turns a woman off

Women are particularly different every where you meet them as you live on your daily life. Sometimes you get to know and meet those who are very cool and easy going in whatever way you would push them to, while some are really hard and get turned off easily following some characters you portray towards them.

So here in this article, i am going to tell you some of those traits most women, i would say 90% consider as a great turn off and mastermind for disregarding any man they come across.

In most of the articles i do put down for you guys, i have in many instance emphasized on the need for a good and great personality which you must have attached to your name, because that's one of the attribute women consider whenever trying to pick up a guy for a date. But that's not all as we look into an important subject today which will eliminate some trashy habits present inside you when ever you come around a woman.

Yea, i know you have come across many women who be like, "i don't like guys who smokes, smells bad, appear shabby, ", bla bla bla. Well with these tips below on the top 8 things that turns a woman off, you can now get prepared and get ready for what next is to come whenever you meet a woman.

#1. Distractions From Your Mobile Phone And Other Women.
So when next you are with that woman, and you keep staring at other girls around and those passing by, what do you expect that one you are sitting with to do? She would probably get angry and leave or just make an excuse just to go her way and get a better man to hang around with.

When you are out on a date with a woman, its not a good time for you to start checking out on your phone, facebook, instagram or twitter. While she is busy eating and you don't engage her with any conversation but rather, you made your phone your best friend at that moment, i tell you that girl will never want a date or time to spend with you again. So whenever you are out on a date with a woman, just stay concentrated on her and let everything be about her. She would love to hang out with you again.

#2. Getting too nervous and unsecured.
If you are not confident about yourself as a guy, how would she know that she have meet that type of guy she have always wanted to meet?

Sometimes one problem men create for themselves is the inability to be confident that they are capable of dating that particular lady, and they just think that she is just above their class and so, they just feel unsecured and nervous that they are not meant to be together.

So that will just turn any woman off because as she comes closer to you, she will notice your insecurity and nervous/scared feeling, and oh no!! No woman wants to be with a man scared or nervous about her.

#4. Always Shabby And Not Well Dressed And Smells Bad.
This is also an important issue you have to deal with if you are fond of not getting well dressed and organised, and in most cases, not even taking a shower.

No woman will want to meet a guy who looks like he has been suffering from HIV for the past one year, i mean, why would you wear a dress that does not fit and makes you look like you are putting on your father's cloth?

Come one, before you go out to meet that woman, get some dress that fits and can be complemented on, put on a nice perfume and body spray, nice belts, fine shoes and if the need be, the latest fashion trend should be your aim as you are not trying to get a cheap girl like you.

#5. You Are That Boring And Dumb Guy.
Hey, hope you dig this? When you are just with that woman and everything seems not interesting to her, and her faces would be like sharp objects wanting to pierce into your eyes or want to make you say by.

Every woman wants to be with a guy who will talk about things that are of interest to her and not things that make her want to say hey "i don't like hearing you say that! Just stop." .

So when you are with that woman and you see her just turning her eyes from left to right, or staring somewhere else, just get the hint that your conversation ain't too good and interesting to her, so just get a nice topic to talk about and take away that boredom in your conversation.

Now about that dumb that, its when you just speak your mind to a girl on a date without thinking about it. When you find out the topic is not interesting to her, don't say things like "oh, i know you are getting bored, am i right?", or when you see her yawn or maybe not feeling too okay, then you just go ahead to ask her if she is hungry or what?.

Don't stay and keep asking like she paid you for that, just do the needful and stop acting like a village champion who just arrived Las Vegas.

#6. Too Rude And Have No Manners.
Every woman wants to be with a man with good knowledge on how to treat a woman in a polite way, knows how to make her comfortable being around him and also how to be polite and not rude to the people around him.

Now if all the above attributes are absent in you, then maybe you just need to go back to your parents to get some teachings about manners and how important it is towards the people you meet in your daily life.

Don't shout anyhow at dinner, in a cab or elsewhere, stay calm as she is around you, and that's just the way to go.

7. Too Pompous And Talks More About
Yourself.
Many guys are fond of doing this, just because they think they have it all or they always get others praising them based on their life achievements.

So are you that type of a guy? Who talks to a girl about your cars, gadgets, your live, what you have achieved? Your father's wealth, your good deeds and misdeeds? Then you need to put those things off so that it does not make that woman to get turned off.

If you do such a thing, every woman will think you are proud and arrogant, so you must learn to differentiate between arrogance and confidence.

8. Just That Cheap Guy Who Thinks Every Woman Wants To Get Laid.
Cheap is not the way to go, so don't appear cheap on any woman or buy her cheap things, take her to cheap places or just appear so cheap.

Now if you are also that type of a guy who just talks to any girl you meet about explicit activities and desires, then she will think you only want to get sexual on her and probably, that's what you are thinking she needs.

Now unless if you have meet that perfect runs girl, then all these traits will put you in a bad situation when next to her because she will probably not want to meet you again.

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5 Best ways to get a girl interested in you

As i continue to live on my daily life, i have always wanted to meet with new and interesting women, those with difference in their own ways and with a unique womanly attitude.

Now as a guy, i have always wanted to achieve that aim of making a girl interested in me, and i have come across many advises on how i will get it done, well few worked and with my own tips all joined together, i was able to make any lady i come across interested in me.
Now i know this is the same reason why you are here, you want to learn how to get a girl interested in you in no time, now stay with us.

In this article, you will learn new ways you can use in getting any girl interested in you and even proceed to dating her. Make sure you use these tips accurately and i assure you that everything will work out perfectly.

So now, here are the  5 Best ways to get a girl interested in you.

#1. Be a different and a potential guy.
The first step towards achieving success in your chase for any woman is the step of uniqueness and difference from the other guys.
Don't be that guy who just sees a woman and then, start to act like the common guys who always loose out to any girl and get dumped in the friend zone.

When you first approach a woman, don't use the well known chat up lines and conversation starters used by those other men out there, this will indicate to her that you are just like one of those guys out there who she have no interest in.

So to get her interested in you, you should take a different manner of approach rather than the normal thing other guys do, don't ever make her think and know that you have been looking up to talk to her or meet her. Make it look real and let her know you just ran into her and decided to start a talk with her.

So after you must have known how to show her your uniqueness, you are now set to proceed to the other steps. But as you continue with these tips, make sure you carry that uniqueness along. Now move to the next step.

#2. Have fun and make her laugh.
Remember that you are not trying to make her to love you, but be interested in you and by the time she does, your door to dating chances is now open. So when you meet her newly, try not to be that odd type who just start a conversation that ends in a jiffy, that will make her think you have nothing much to show for and hence, she find you uninteresting.

So you should make your time together with her fun and get her tuned to dance to your conversation style. Don't allow boredom to set in so as to avoid unexpected moment of silence in which you feel she is not so interested and then you are left to fathom and think of what next to say.

After doing the above step, you should proceed to the next step.

#3. Make use of time constraint to request a date.
When the conversation seem to be of interest to her and she is loving it. Don't allow the flow to keep on moving because you might run out of topics and ideas and when that happens, it might be hard for you to make new requests from her, or start up the fun again.

So when you observe her interest in speaking with you and she is almost caught up, bring the conversation into a break by introducing your new schedule or event you must not miss. Now you can use that idea to request for another time with her.

For example, you can go like.. "OMG! I just remembered that i have to go and see some friends 15 minutes from now, we have an important issue to discuss about, where would you like us to go and buy a coffee together ".

By so doing, she would not resist or turn down your request, and if at all you are not that type that goes to the bar or she doesn't, then you can introduce a new option. Asking for her phone number is just another hint she can comply with, don't allow and wait for her to call out her digits, kindly offer her you mobile device to type it in, and after that, just be cool and act like nothing serious is happening inside your mind. then just set up a time with her when you can both meet and boom! You are already in.

#4. Keep her wanting to know you more.
Another secret to get her interested in you is to let her know little about you and then, keep her wanting to know you more.

When you tell a girl all about you, she would think you are too simple and have no secrets or scandals in life, which many girls don't like. So just tell her little and even when she thinks she knows everything about you, make her feel and understand that you have a broad personality and haven't learned everything about you.

This will surely keep her wanting to know more about you, tell her few lines of an important subject about you which she would clearly want to know more about and then, keep her wanting till when both of you are getting more closer and of value to each other.

#5. Give her personal time and space.
Now after much have been going on between the both of you and it seems she is into an addiction of meeting and talking to you.

Its time to just disappear and get out of sight. Doing this will make her think more about you and get worried why you have not been showing up or calling her.

Remember that you must not do this for a very long time, else you risk everything and get her to forget about you, so you should do this for a period not up to 6 days.

#Additional Note: For you to record success in this chase, using the day advantage will help you achieve such aim without any competition or any other guy interrupting you.

And moreover, she would not think that she is your target as you would appear to be busy too and up to something when you just ran into her.

These tips worked perfectly for me and i was almost dating 5 women at a time, lol. So all you need to do is just to try these tips out, and if you have more idea to this topic, you can play a nice role by commenting with your own tips so as to add to our own ideas.

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5 Tips on how to make a guy you like love you

Its already known that many girls have always found it hard getting that guy they like to come closer to them and love them, and as a result, they live in anxiety and worry because they can not attract that special person they want to be with.

Tips on how to make a guy you like love you

It is obviously true to say that women possess every weapon and strategy that can be used in drawing a man closer to them and to love them with great zeal and passion.
Whether a guy has a girlfriend or not, a woman can use just a simple tactics to draw him close enough and get him to fall for her.

However, most women find it hard employing their womanly skills bestowed upon them towards getting any guy to fall for them, and as a result, many of them are still single, and searching for a man who can date them.
I heard that some women blame their ugly nature for not been able to get a guy like and love them, lol. That's not true, we are going to lead you through towards getting that guy to like and love you.

Now to you ladies, here are sure tips on how to get a guy like and love you.

#1 Create time to be with him always.
This is one of the best ways which you can use as a lady to get a guy to love you.
You don't expect that guy to feel something for you when you don't make yourself available and around him always.
So to get that guy to start thinking about you and have the thoughts of you on his mind, you have to make yourself available around him to create a more friendly atmosphere with him.

But you must ensure that you don't over do it, coming to meet him always might intrude and go into his personal space and as a result, he might get uncomfortable seeing you around because you hardly give him time attend to his personal needs. So while doing this, you should know those moments when he is free and ready to meet or welcome anyone who comes to see him.

#2 Talk about yourself when together with him.
Another buster for getting him to like you is to always talk about personal self and get him to say things about you when ever you are together.
Talk to him about the things you like, the places you like going, the dress code that appeals much to you, the things you hate, your goals in life, how you wish you could have a boyfriend, etc.

When you do that, he will become more interested in you and even wish to know more and also talk to you about himself.
The potentiality in you will gradually be known to him when you are doing that. But you must try to be real and not faking everything.

#3 Hang out to favourite places with him.
Tell him about places you like going and hanging out, not only to your favourite places, but also to occasions, birthday parties of friends, etc. Then ask him to be with you or come with you to those places, make sure you select the best and interesting ones that will be of great delight to him.

Now when you are out with him, you must make sure never to allow other things to take you away from him or leave him to wait for you. You should stay around him and make him entertained.

When at birthday parties or occasions, stick to him and don't let the fun there to leave him all alone, if you ask him to come dance with you and he did not, because of shyness, don't leave him and dance alone, other guys around might want to come and dance with you, so just sit with him and make him feel entertained by your presence alone.

#4 Take a break, be unaccessible for some time.
Now after much of the hangouts, and staying together, talking, partying and much fun going between the both of you, stay out of sight and reach. Don't pick up your calls, stop coming to see him, stop going to your favourite hangouts, just stay out of any occurrence that catch both of you together.

Doing this will make him think about you more and be worried about your whereabout, so make sure you do this for sometime and then come back to him and start answering his calls, you will be surprised to know how we was so disturbed and always thinking about you since your disappearance.

But you must not do this for too long, taking much time to get back to him might risk everything you have done as he can just decide to get you off and let everything you have done together whisk away. Staying out of his reach and sight for 5 days is okay.

#5 Use your body language every now and then.
The use of body language to communicate and relate in conversions is another point to turn him on and feel attracted to you.
This will also make him have a feeling of affection towards you as he finds you getting closer to him more and more.

To achieve this aim, you can use your eyelashes to sigh at him, showing interest to what he is telling you, or what he is about to tell you. Also, you can lean on his body when you are feeling tired or when you just want to do that,hold his hands when both of you are taking a walk or about to cross the road. Any opportunity that makes it possible for you to make body contacts without suspicion, then do it and you are at already at the point to getting him to like you.

Try to make more body contact with him and do things that will make your body of interest to him, also you can wear dresses that will put your body on its best shape. Arousing him and making him want to come close to your body is a sure way to get him to love you.

#Treat him in a special way.
One of the ways you can use to get him like you and love you is to treat him in a manner that shows your strong interest in his life.
Be concerned about his friends, family, and work, interests and dislikes.

When both of you are out among your friends, pay attention to him, and hear him out while talking, ask him to come along with you while with your friends, always get him involved in the things you do, this is a sure way to making him feel he have got that type of a woman he have always wanted.

#6 Be smart, descent and good looking.
Don't start doing this just because you want to attract that guy you love, do it because you are confident in your looks and your accessory. Be at your finest feature from your hair, down to your teeth and your dress, look clean and smart, be well behaved and stay out of troubles.

When you do all these things without faking it and trying too hard, he will feel more attracted to you because of your attributes and nice appearance. No guy will want to be with a girl who does not pay more attention to her looks and appearance.

#7 Copy what he does.
Do something that brings out some similarity between the both of you, observe what he likes and start liking them, do some of the things you know he likes doing.

You can also try doing what he does when the both of you are together. For example: when he takes a glass of water to sip, also do the same, when he behave in an awkward but funny way, repeat what he did and by doing that, you will create an amazing and funny moments that he will always remember you with.

#8 Laugh/Smile at him.
This last one here do not need any explanation. You already know that smiling at a guy gives him that impression that you are interested in him. And when he does any thing or say anything funny, the best treatment you can give him is a laugh box.

So once you have done all these, that guy will know that you are interested in him, and he will return you the favour by doing the same, and from there, you just got him.

These tips here are sure and will work out perfectly if you know how to implement and when to execute them.

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