Women are particularly different every where you meet them as you live on your daily life. Sometimes you get to know and meet those who are very cool and easy going in whatever way you would push them to, while some are really hard and get turned off easily following some characters you portray towards them.
So here in this article, i am going to tell you some of those traits most women, i would say 90% consider as a great turn off and mastermind for disregarding any man they come across.
In most of the articles i do put down for you guys, i have in many instance emphasized on the need for a good and great personality which you must have attached to your name, because that's one of the attribute women consider whenever trying to pick up a guy for a date. But that's not all as we look into an important subject today which will eliminate some trashy habits present inside you when ever you come around a woman.
Yea, i know you have come across many women who be like, "i don't like guys who smokes, smells bad, appear shabby, ", bla bla bla. Well with these tips below on the top 8 things that turns a woman off, you can now get prepared and get ready for what next is to come whenever you meet a woman.
#1. Distractions From Your Mobile Phone And Other Women.
So when next you are with that woman, and you keep staring at other girls around and those passing by, what do you expect that one you are sitting with to do? She would probably get angry and leave or just make an excuse just to go her way and get a better man to hang around with.
When you are out on a date with a woman, its not a good time for you to start checking out on your phone, facebook, instagram or twitter. While she is busy eating and you don't engage her with any conversation but rather, you made your phone your best friend at that moment, i tell you that girl will never want a date or time to spend with you again. So whenever you are out on a date with a woman, just stay concentrated on her and let everything be about her. She would love to hang out with you again.
#2. Getting too nervous and unsecured.
If you are not confident about yourself as a guy, how would she know that she have meet that type of guy she have always wanted to meet?
Sometimes one problem men create for themselves is the inability to be confident that they are capable of dating that particular lady, and they just think that she is just above their class and so, they just feel unsecured and nervous that they are not meant to be together.
So that will just turn any woman off because as she comes closer to you, she will notice your insecurity and nervous/scared feeling, and oh no!! No woman wants to be with a man scared or nervous about her.
#4. Always Shabby And Not Well Dressed And Smells Bad.
This is also an important issue you have to deal with if you are fond of not getting well dressed and organised, and in most cases, not even taking a shower.
No woman will want to meet a guy who looks like he has been suffering from HIV for the past one year, i mean, why would you wear a dress that does not fit and makes you look like you are putting on your father's cloth?
Come one, before you go out to meet that woman, get some dress that fits and can be complemented on, put on a nice perfume and body spray, nice belts, fine shoes and if the need be, the latest fashion trend should be your aim as you are not trying to get a cheap girl like you.
#5. You Are That Boring And Dumb Guy.
Hey, hope you dig this? When you are just with that woman and everything seems not interesting to her, and her faces would be like sharp objects wanting to pierce into your eyes or want to make you say by.
Every woman wants to be with a guy who will talk about things that are of interest to her and not things that make her want to say hey "i don't like hearing you say that! Just stop." .
So when you are with that woman and you see her just turning her eyes from left to right, or staring somewhere else, just get the hint that your conversation ain't too good and interesting to her, so just get a nice topic to talk about and take away that boredom in your conversation.
Now about that dumb that, its when you just speak your mind to a girl on a date without thinking about it. When you find out the topic is not interesting to her, don't say things like "oh, i know you are getting bored, am i right?", or when you see her yawn or maybe not feeling too okay, then you just go ahead to ask her if she is hungry or what?.
Don't stay and keep asking like she paid you for that, just do the needful and stop acting like a village champion who just arrived Las Vegas.
#6. Too Rude And Have No Manners.
Every woman wants to be with a man with good knowledge on how to treat a woman in a polite way, knows how to make her comfortable being around him and also how to be polite and not rude to the people around him.
Now if all the above attributes are absent in you, then maybe you just need to go back to your parents to get some teachings about manners and how important it is towards the people you meet in your daily life.
Don't shout anyhow at dinner, in a cab or elsewhere, stay calm as she is around you, and that's just the way to go.
7. Too Pompous And Talks More About
Yourself.
Many guys are fond of doing this, just because they think they have it all or they always get others praising them based on their life achievements.
So are you that type of a guy? Who talks to a girl about your cars, gadgets, your live, what you have achieved? Your father's wealth, your good deeds and misdeeds? Then you need to put those things off so that it does not make that woman to get turned off.
If you do such a thing, every woman will think you are proud and arrogant, so you must learn to differentiate between arrogance and confidence.
8. Just That Cheap Guy Who Thinks Every Woman Wants To Get Laid.
Cheap is not the way to go, so don't appear cheap on any woman or buy her cheap things, take her to cheap places or just appear so cheap.
Now if you are also that type of a guy who just talks to any girl you meet about explicit activities and desires, then she will think you only want to get sexual on her and probably, that's what you are thinking she needs.
Now unless if you have meet that perfect runs girl, then all these traits will put you in a bad situation when next to her because she will probably not want to meet you again.
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