For you to be able to record success with any woman you come across in your life, you must be able to make that woman feel attracted to you and also, doing it with the right skill and the right way.
As a man, you actually don't have all the time to just spend talking with a woman, and that is why you should never keep expecting that you can grow on a woman for whatever reason.
If you don't know how to make that woman feel attracted to you very quickly, then you are open to risks of other guys who knows how to win her attraction within couple hours of meeting with her.
Now with these following unhealthy conversation mistakes i am going to tell, i hope that you will use them to improve in your over all quest for her ultimate natural attraction to you. Lets go there..
#1.Flowing in an Interview mode.
While talking to a woman, your interaction should never take the form of a job interview and if that happens, that girl can never get interested in you.
Maybe you have experienced it before. Most times, this happens when you have no topic to talk about and have no point in your mind to come up with, then at this stage, it seems both of you are into a shooting game because you just keep on bombarding her with interview-like questions and when she answers, its like backfiring her with questions after the other.
What do you do to sustain your life?
Where do your mum and dad stay?
Are you still schooling?
What level are you now?
Do you like having fun?
How many boyfriends have you dated in time past?
All these questions will make her feel interviewed and that's not what she want, that's not the kind of feeling she want to get from a man like you.
A woman wants to be with a man who would make her feel the vibe between them, have a lot of fun, make her feel sexy and sexually attracted to him and create a more romantic chemistry amidst their conversation.
#2. Trying to do the right thing to impress her.
One among the unhealthy conversation mistakes you might be making is your inability to be your real self when ever you are with a woman you feel something for.
In normal circumstances, when you are around a woman who don't actually feel attracted to, you observe that you are more confident and flowing in your real nature and with your original verbal reasoning ability. But when you are with a woman whom you feel so attracted to, then that is when you start thinking of the right and impressive things you would say to her to make her get attracted to you.
Now doing that can cause a tense inside you and you will become nervous and act wired, of which she will notice and also become uncomfortable for the fact that she is causing you great discomfort, she might even want to leave at once.
Women are naturally attracted to guys who are confident in themselves and who do not hide their original nature and act while trying to get them attracted. So the most important thing you should do when together with a woman you want to attract is to be original, the real version of who you really are.
#3. Trying to be romantic and making her like you when she is not yet interested.
I have seen a lot of guys doing this for some times now. And do you know why it happens with many guys including you? It is because men are always attracted to women physically and judging women by their appearance and looks, a man can want to immediately take a woman to the bed and get intimate with her.
This happens because a lot of women appear to be physically seductive with their body shapes and the characters on their body which stimulates the mans attraction traits.
Now because of all these, we now go on to meet that attractive woman who we now really like but then, she is not interested in us. Okay now back to you.
You now start a conversation with her all your chat up lines shows that you are now in the act of trying to convince her to like you and feel very different about you.
When it comes to a woman being interested in a guy, the fact is that you can never change the mind of a woman and the way she feels. Even with the whole reasoning and logistics, you can only record a 40% attraction which tends to be temporary.
So you just beg her, plead, ask, keep chasing and doing everything at your best just to get her change her mind, well it can never be done. So stop that man.
#4. Thinking that you can use money and swags, and looks to get a woman like you.
This is one of the oldest trend of all time, guys who think they have it all and so, they can use their money, handsomeness and swags to get a woman like them.
This is one of the most frequent error that men always make when trying to get a girl attracted.
For many of the average guys, they think they cant have a girl because they don't have money and attractive looks, they are below the age, or their height ain't enough and as a result, they give up and settle for less. Truly, there are women who look after those qualities in a man.
When you consider today's trend in the dating world, you will discover that a lot of women, the most of them are after a mans personality and not his financial strength or attractiveness. And if you look out and see through the dating style many women adapts to, you will learn that there are many traits that are attached to personality which gets women interested in any guy with such traits.
Now you must learn about those traits if you want to get women to like you, you should also learn how to use those traits to your advantage.
(Also Read: Tips on how to be that special man every woman want )
#5. Not learning about a woman's body language and when she is not just interested.
For you to be able to have the right motive whenever you are with a woman, learning about her body languages is just a short code to let you access the ideologies as to when she is not comfortable with what you are saying, or when she is not interested.
You should learn to use your senses, open your eyes and look well, then get your ears wide open so that you can understand every situation she is in and every move she makes.
When you are able to do that, you can learn when she is happy, excited, feeling bored or enjoying your vibe.
These are just a few from the list we have on those unhealthy conversation mistakes you do make as a man, so you must learn to use them and avoid any further mistake with that next woman you are going to meet.
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