Many guys have this problem of moving too fast with a women when it comes to the issue of the girl letting the guy to have her phone number. When to ask for her number and how to get it quickly have been the focus of many guys when ever they meet a new girl.
The problem with moving too fast is associated with the thoughts of many guys as to limited chances of meeting with that certain girl again and so, missing your chances of getting her phone number. Getting her to drop her phone number to your phone book is not a success or achievement as you may think. So because you got her number by all means should not make you think that you can start a relationship with her.
Whenever you are interacting with a woman, you should first of all check on the urgency of the current situation and therefore, you learn the risks you must take while trying to get her phone number, email address or even ask her out for a date.
When ever it comes to women, everything becomes risky and that is why you need to learn about different time frame conditions while talking with a woman which in turn, helps you know the right time to make any move you wish, this will also make you not to miss important opportunities.
You might have had a very wonderful moment with a woman in your life but because of this single mistake of moving too fast to get her number, you were able to scare her away and make her loose attraction.
#Why you fail in getting a girls phone number.
As you have known, it starts just the normal way, you ran into a girl, you start a conversation, everything starts very sound and smooth but then, it happened that either you or the girl have a schedule ahead which have to be attended to and now, the conversation have arrived at a break point.
The conversation now starts to wind up and you immediately get nervous about the aspect of getting her phone number as you think about it inside you. Now you know you have a chance to ask for her phone number but then, you just have few minutes to do that and you don't want to risk your chance away to getting rejected, turned down and embarrassed.
When you don't know how to get a girl's phone number, the first step you take after getting over your fear of rejection is "Can i have your phone number?"
Immediately you do that, a girl will act the normal way, think to her self and reason on why you need her phone number, from there she can decide to play hard to get and will give you a response like "I don't think or really know yet, but can you give me yours instead?"
Now what came into your mind? boom!! You know you have failed and she just saved you that awkward moment of feeling embarrassed and rejected, but then, both of you went away with excitement and good moods but from the inside, you are struggling with your new defeated quest.
#Why she did not give you her phone number.
When she turned down your request for her phone number, what comes into your mind is that feeling of you, thinking that she actually likes you and she is even in to you.
It do happen a lot and as a man, you first of all think that there was attraction between the both of you.
Not knowing how to and also, making it seem like like a big deal and a hard attempt is the reason why many guys fail to get a girl's phone number in a very smooth way.
But then, i assume you already know women, and the totally different kind of way they sound on phone.
Usually, women have different reasons for giving and not giving out their phone numbers. Some girls like the attraction they get from many men calling them, while many just like to turn down any request made for their phone number. But depending on how you do it and the situation surrounding your interaction, you can get a girls phone number in not more than 5 minutes.
Here a four reasons why a woman decides not to give you her phone number:
(1) She experienced a kind of fear, intimidation or pressure when she was having interactions with you and so, she could not let you have her number because you gave her a wrong impression about yourself.
(2) You were nice, just like other guys and the way you approached her and acted is not different from her day to day experience with other guys and that is to say, you are not remarkable and just the same with those other guys who stalk her around and at the end, desperately wanting for her digits.
(3) Oh you don't know? Come on, she has a boyfriend and so she don't need any more man to start preaching the gospel of love and sweet words to her, that's a big moral rejection for her.
(4) When she does not trust you, then she will never like to give you her phone number.
(5) She has adapted to the habit of turning down guys and playing hard to get until the smartest one convinces her to give it out to him.
(6) She does not feel any attraction for you, no sensual and romantic scene occurred when you were both together.
Now when a woman have any of the above options attached to her when she is together with you, then there are possibilities that both of you will not get along well.
(Also Read: Signs That Tells A Girl Likes You And Is Ready To Date You )
#How do you now get her phone number?
Having a girl give you her phone number does not involve any big trick or games, it is easy to get her phone number when she has any of the following traits inside her when ever you are together.
(1) When she trusts you that you can always get her happy just the way you started.
(2) She feels something extraordinary for you, and her experience with you was romantic and there was that sensual attraction she felt for you.
(3) When she has no boyfriend, or have no dating or friendship morals and laws you are trying to invade.
(4) You were so different and remarkable, just different from the other guys.
Now you have to know that without you delivering your game in a nice and different way, a girl will not get interested in you and when that interest is not there, then she can not let you have her phone number.
So for you to achieve your aim, you have to explore other aspects and means of having a conversation that will turn her on and get her interested in you.
You might succeed in getting a girls number without making her interested in you but then, she will never sound good and nice on phone because nothing interesting and mutual existed between the both of you.
So to get her interested in you and get her to be attracted, read these tips on " 5 Best Ways To Get A Girl Interested In You ".
After you have achieved the aims in that article, you can just come back and relax your mind and then, just use that same polite manner to get her write her phone number down for you.
#Tips: It will be good and best if you move around with a little classy pen and just a little nice paper and when you just bump into a girl and conversation is almost ending. Now here is what you would do.
1st step: After you are done talking and after exchanging pleasantries and both of you have turned and almost going separate ways. Now turn back to her and draw her back her attention like "Hey!! ". She will turn back and notice you, then ask her "Do you engage in any social network? Like facebook, bbm or skype?".. you should not include whatsapp chat because that's where her number goes. Now she would tell you if she does any of them.
Now just hand her your classy pen and a little paper, then ask her to write her pin or username down, she would not turn you down on that, now while she is doing that, ask her to also write down her phone number particularly the one she uses for whatsapp chat if she does, and when you immediately ask her to include her number, support your mood with a line like "don't think i have airtime to always call, but don't worry, i will only call 20 times in a day".
Believe me that when you do that, she would smile as she obeys your command, now you have done it and you have achieved your aim.
Just go ahead and give it a try, and when you have practiced all these, you will be a boss and a master of the game when ever it involves getting a girls phone number.
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