As women, we understand that you girls like it a lot when men admire your beauty and looks which as a result, makes you feel more comfortable with who you are and draw tons of suitors to yourself everyday.
But then, we also know that you always hear a lot from we guys 24/7, and it seems you enjoy listening to us but keep pushing us away because you find it hard knowing the real man among us and at the end, you also end up picking up the wrong man.
Its true to say that the real man for you is different and you will see it in him, but how do you even know if you have meet him?
You are beautiful, adorable and just loveable by many men, and you always meet one or more men everyday as you go out of your comfort zones for your daily life.
Many men will come to you because of your beauty but you know they will not show you that reason, they will use other things and means to deceive you and get your attraction.
I myself have tried it with many girls and it worked, and not that i really loved them for any other reason, its just because of the looks and that is all.
Let me just show you some of those things guys will tell you and when they talk or say things in such form, that means they are just there because of your beauty and looks and the benefits they know they are going to get from you. Also the below list will show you some actions and ways they will act that indicates they are just into you because of the beauty or looks.
1. He moves so fast.
Did you observe that from many of those guys that come up to meet you everyday? They just come and start showing whole interest in you, showering you with gifts and compliments and asking you out just within 1 week of meeting with you.
That will show you that he is just there because of your beauty and not any special thing about you. And as he is just desperate to get you start a relationship with him and that is why he is just so fast and needy.
So once you find out that a guy will not stop coming to see you always, keep talking sweet things to you and buying you gifts whenever he arrives, its just because of your beauty.
2. He fakes everything about himself.
When a man truly love and like you straight from his heart, he will not fake anything about himself or try to be something else because of you, he is honest with himself and his actions.
See this conversation below as an example.
Mary: ''I love to watch romantic movies while alone at home''
Stephen: ''Wow! That's awesome, me too i love watching those kinds of romantic movies if am at home''.
But truly, Stephen is a guy hate romantic movies and only love watching Game of Thrones and other war and heroic movies.
Because he meet Mary who loves watching romantic movies, he fakes it that he too does.
That's just to tell you the extent to which guys fake it all just to impress a beautiful woman.
Men will use different strategies just to make you think they qualify to be in your life but truly, then don't care if they qualify, they just want to get you and that's what they want.
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3. They have nothing serious to talk to you about.
When someone likes you regardless of your looks, you should be able to hear him talk to you about what is of interest to you and what he thinks you will love to talk to him about, and when that does not happen with any man who comes to you, then he is just there because he thinks you are beautiful and worth trying out.
But what do you get from those guys coming to you? Only compliments, talking about your beauty, talking about what his friends are saying about you, talking about marrying you, talking about wanting to see your house, or asking to see your pictures?
All those things will tell you that he is just like one of those guys who come to you because of your beauty and when you give them space to get to know you, they keep talking about that same thing and nothing different at all.
4. He asks you 100 questions that makes you feel interviewed.
We know that you hate it when we cant make you feel like you are already into us but only keep making you feel like we need to know everything before passing in.
He just keep asking you:
Where do you live?
Where did you school?
Who is that guy on your facebook account?
Do you have boyfriends in the past?
How is your work?
Do you like watching movies?
It can even be annoying, thus, its another sign that will tell you that those guys are just there because of the beauty and looks. When he is truly interested in you, he should be able to talk about other important things rather than asking you one question after the other and make you feel like you are about to get a job.
5. He agrees with whatever you say or do.
When a man truly like you without considering your looks and beauty, then he should be able to correct you, question some of your actions and stick to his own opinion when he knows your own opinions are wrong.
But when it is the opposite, you find out that he is afraid to make you loose interest in him and he is afraid that if you do so, you will hate him for that and so, he agrees with you in everything and supports you whether good or bad.
I have seen a lot of guys doing that and at the end, they still end up not getting the girl, so whenever you find out that the guy do not correct you despite you are wrong, then he is just into you because of your beauty and looks.
All these are some of those signs you will see in many men today who are claiming to love and like you irrespective of your looks. And once you fail to take note of these signs and observe how they come in from different prospects.
(Also Read: How to know When You are Prepared to Start a Relationship )
Some men will start it the other way and you might notice, but when things starts going far and you observe that he have initiated 2 or 3 of these signs listed above, then chances are that he is just like those other guys out there.
Note that some men can do all of those things listed above, but they will not come off too desperate or wanting to get you using that method, they might slow it down and keep doing all those things in a slow motion, so if you are not careful, you might fall for the wrong man.
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