In the whole dating process every man engage in, facing rejection by girls after asking them out is just an unavoidable condition that he must face, and it is just a normal thing.
Guys who have recorded a lot of success in getting many dates will always tell you that they asked many girls out, and they got rejected and some other times, they are accepted. It is just a normal thing you must face when ever you get fully engaged in the dating cycle.
But because of this fear of rejection and embarrassment, many guys shun great opportunities to date a good number of nice women and get what they have always desired.
You are among those guys and men right? Well i know that's why you are here, so read on.
When you are afraid of getting rejected by a girl you want to approach, that is the worst moment when you will experience so much emotional flaws that will even make you to just give up before trying your luck. And it have been hard for many guys to deal with this situation because at this stage, you get confused in what to think about, you get your emotions and feelings heightened and your breath becomes faster.
But what about the actual rejection? This is not actually as bad as the fear of rejection, because the girl can reject you in a soft manner that will even get you happy in a particular way and create more chance for you to shoot back at her.
Well whatever case it is, you just need to learn how to get over it all and cope with that moment when she rejects you or when you are afraid of getting rejected.
So before you go out to ask that girl out, here is what you should have in your mind.
#Learn about the real meaning of rejection and its concept.
When you ask her out and she just walks away or just says something not annoying to you, that's no rejection and when that happens , then you have more chances of winning her to yourself.
#Stop getting disturbed.
This will make you to gain more confidence in asking her out without any fear of rejection.
This rejection happens to everyone, but it does not happen every time. So don't just disturb yourself and when you are rejected, just learn how to move on and everything will gradually fade away.
#Stop doing things that attracts rejection.
Do you know some of those things that makes a woman reject you without thinking twice?
They are as follows:
Starring at her while passing bye, using your friends to draw her attention and letting her notice you, telling her that she looks sweet and hot, trying to compare her to other women, talking dirty to her, etc.
#Get a back up plan and social options.
You are still single right? So why not get more than just one crush? Because when you do that, you have another one to fall back on and continue doing your thing like nothing really happened previously.
All these things are known to attract rejection from a woman, so make sure you don't engage or do any of them.
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Now, lets talk about the part of getting rejected. Normally after being rejected by a girl, here is what will happen to you as a man.
#1. You get angry:
Yes this happens a lot, when you just approach her, say your mind and you got bounced out immediately, and just then, you feel angry, and you don't feel anything for her, you feel like spiting on her face or giving her the insult of her life, etc.
#2. You refuse to give up.
When she denies you and rejects you, then you just think that its not a game over and you will never stop until you get her to love you, and you keep on chasing after her.
Many guys are guilty of this act and believe me, it have not always turned out to be good.
#3. You give reasons to be accepted.
Some guys are so stupid and go to this extent after a girl rejects them.
I mean why on earth should you be explaining to a girl reasons why she should love and accept you?
If she should have any reason to accept you, she would have known and seen it as you are coming to meet her.
#4. You feel sorry for yourself.
This is another state where a rejection hurts so much, and that's where your sorrow begins, seeing her walk away and rejecting you, you feel like crying and shouting your nerves out.
You start regretting why you formally asked her out and why you did not wait for sometime.
Well those are just some of the painful moments a a man will cause himself to experience after being rejected by a girl. Rejection is just inevitable and you can never tell the way it would go and where it will lead.
Don't do any of those things most guys do after getting rejected because it will never make you to move on with your life, it will only leave you at that junction of rejection and in an emotional trauma. So as a man, here is what you should do after getting rejected by a girl.
#1. Rejection is something that is common with girls.
When she turns down your proposal to her, first you should know that she did not reject you because of your character or nature, its just that she does not want to date you, and that's just her state of mind to the rejection.
Many guys have faced rejection before you and they know how they felt, but guess what? They were not rejected because they were found unattractive or nor where they just disliked. Its just a way women act and you don't have an option to that.
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#2. Stop worrying about her.
Okay she rejected you right? Yes she did, so do you just sit there and keep thinking about her and how her rejection hurt your feelings?
Come on, you are a man, and you don't have to do that, so here is what to do.
Just cool your nerves and stay silent, gradually avoid her and do things that will make her feel jealous of you or get irritated.
#3. Find time to be with other people.
After she rejected you, the next best thing that can make you to move on is to just stay away from her, then meet and interact with others and just live a positive life. Meet with new girls and ask them out and make yourself enjoy the company of others.
#Get around and engage in sports activities.
Another thing that can bring back your confidence is to start exercising your body.
You can play football, tennis, racing, weight lifting, etc.
All these activities will boast your moral and make you gain more confidence in yourself.
So just get up now, start doing something and get a better life for yourself, you just deserve better than just rejection.
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