Have you ever had a female friend whom you have been friends with and you actually like her? But you don't know how to get out and be more than just friends with her?
This is one problem many guys face with the girls they bump into, but there is a reason behind this.
Normally, women have been known for their different definitions when it comes to friendship and romantic relationship.
When a woman has any feelings in her mind for you, and she always have one special reason in her mind as to why she wants to be with you, then she is ready to be intimate with you and have a romantic relationship with you?
But when she just sees you as someone who she always talk with just to laugh, get advice and then, just turn around, that's when friendship is said to be the bond between the both of you.
Women are complex creatures, and when a woman has no feeling for you inside her, then it is difficult for you to curl in some sense of feeling inside her and make her to start loving you. However, there is something you can always do and practice and once you are able to do them, you will successfully get any woman to start thinking of you and even change your state in her mind. Lets see some of those things you can do.
#Plan a day or two days walk or trip with her.
This can be quite overwhelming right? It might seem to you that this one here cant work, but doing this will create a new room and opportunity to share ideas and observations that can bring about the evolvement of a romantic relationship.
Okay, the first step here is to ask her to come over for a walk to somewhere with you, or a trip to somewhere with you. She is your friend, a very good and particularly best and close one to you, so i don't see any reason why she will refuse to come with you.
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Once this is set, then you can select the best and romantic places to go around with her, and let her also select some of her favourite places. In the course of this event, do not get things boring, you must be the man, make it fun and interesting, romantic and worth talking about, do things that she would observe while you are doing them and also, get her to do things that will give you points to talk about after the walk or trip.
Normally when its evening, and almost getting dark, both of you are already planning to be back home and so, the call is made. But do you just let all the fun from the trip just slip away without talking to each other about it? That's why you must...
#Arrange a dinner night together with her.
Oh she will not refuse it, she needs refreshment, and you too, so what will you offer her more than a more romantic dinner night together?
Okay you successfully got the dinner talks in and she agreed to that and both of you are at dinner together, refreshing and getting stronger. Do you just talk about other things while at dinner or you keep quite and make everything boring? I guess no, you wouldn't risk your chance with that.
So while the dinner is going on, you should talk about the walk or trip you had together, tell her many things you observed and loved about her during the trip, and also get her to tell you about her own observations about the trip. If everything went on very well, then you are gradually getting some things into her.
You should talk more about the romantic aspect of the trip, and that is where the magic works, because everything about women is emotional and once a romantic conversation comes in between the both of you, then it sends some emotional thoughts about you into her.
After that, you can ask her if you can have such kind of walk or trip some other time to other new places she have always wished to go to, when you do that and she responds in a welcoming and romantic way, then you are gradually winning, and she might not notice what you are doing.
She will notice that you are trying to get intimate when you are not bold.
#Boldness in your actions.
One of the important keys towards achieving such aims is having boldness in you.
Like for example, when you are saying something romantic to her and then, your voice broke down, and you acted nervous, and just like you missed your lines, she will notice it and inside her, she would start thinking that you have some feelings for her and everything you were doing was just because you are now into her.
That would probably risk your chances of letting your thoughts flow through her and get more attracted. Though tipping her about your feelings for her is good, and letting her know about your new love for her is good too, but that will not be the best and ideal way to let her know about it.
For her to know about your love for her and not risking the chances of getting her to love you, you are to be bold in speech, be smart in words, and wise in thinking, don't linger or keep waiting for an answer or action response once you have tipped her.
These are just some of the things that you need in other to move along the game line, but then, there are some things some guys and even you, yes even i, we all do it and it is wrong and actually gets every girl loose feelings and attraction for us.
When a girl is so close to you and you start to think of changing the friendship into a relationship, then that's where you start to hit it wrong and get the inscription "I DON'T JUST GET IT" written on your forehead.
When you start buying a girlfriend of yours so many gifts and showering her with compliments, knowing that she is just a friend so close but without any mutual feelings for you, then YOU DON'T JUST GET IT.
And that's the normal way many guys do act and then, risk their chances of getting a girlfriend to love them and get attracted for love.
A girl sees you as a lost person who don't just get it when she got close to you, and you started buying her gifts and compliments.
When you are already dating a woman, yes she would enjoy and cherish every bit of compliments and gifts you shower her, but when you just meet a girl not even up to 3 weeks, and you start buying her gifts and starts to be nice, then you have already wasted your chance of getting her.
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A woman have already seen many men wanting to win her heart and attraction and this happens every day in her life, as a result, she have known that cheap and easy path many men come through just to get her, and once you come along and take that same path and root, then you should expect nothing less than a rejection.
So for you to get her, you must learn to be patient and avoid the easy paths to lure her into your heart, you must study her very well and then, try other roads and paths that will lead you to that same thing you want from her.
More help and tips on this aspect will be updated and we will feed you more. For the mean time, any more thought and contribution from you as our reader is highly welcomed.
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