Things You Must Know Before Getting Into A Relationship

The process of dating is a long one and generally, some people just go into dating without having a definite purpose for going into the relationship, they seem to forget that there are certain factors that need to be considered before starting the relationship train.

Some others just go into relationships because of peer pressure and desperation, for some people, it is also for the thirst of experiencing and achieving sexual aims and not for the purpose of true love. Many others also go into relationships because they want to experience what love feels like.

When Is The Right Time To Start Dating?

There is no specific time set for individuals to start dating, as far as you have attained the age of 20+, then i assure you that you can start dating, and it does not matter if you are 30+, you can still start the dating process. You must only have in mind the purpose for which you are going into the relationship. You must find the right purpose for which you want to engage in the relationship.

Also before you start the relationship, you must know that it entails different kinds of sacrifice and there are many factors that makes a relationship move well. Without knowing what these factors are, you might find it hard coping with the relationship stands.
So here you go, before turning the dating lights on, here are necessary things you must take not of.
Things You Must Know Before Getting Into A Relationship

Know what you want in a potential partner.
I believe you are not someone looking for an anyhow partner with wrong intentions about the relationship. So to successfully venture into the dating arena, you must know what you want from someone you can say to be a potential partner. In a potential partner, there is love, care, respect and understanding, no hidden secrets and trust is always a compulsory criteria.

So once you have known what you want in that person, you can kick off for the dating game, when you discover that these options are missing in that individual, then he or she might not be a potential partner but just a lover, now you don't need just a lover.

Know What Your Deal breaker's are
In everything you do, there are things that makes you feel uncomfortable and comfortable, there are things you like and things you do not like.

So to make your relationship work well, know those things which makes you loose focus in the relationship, then you must rule them out, and make sure you find a potential partner who will not go for your deal breakers.

Find out what you don't fancy in a potential partner.
This is just the opposite to what you want from a potential partner. These are characters possessed by people which does not favour your dating conditions. For example if that girl or that guy is rude and disrespectful, i don't think that person will be a potential partner to you because she will not respect you and love you just the way you would want to love and respect her.

If that fellow you want to date have bad manners and lacks in speaking with a calm tone, and also have bad manners of approach to situations, then she might not be considered a potential partner to you. So when you have known what it is that you want from a potential partner, it will guide you towards making the right relationship choices.

Date someone who shares same interest with you
Now with this one step, you would be able to date someone who will always make you find comfort in whatever you are doing. Dating someone who shares same interest with you will help the relationship move in good shape without having misunderstandings.

If you are a footballer, and you like watching and playing football both at night and day, but the person you want to take as a partner loves dancing and going to the clubs, you see it will be hard for both of you to get along.

It might be the time for you to go watching a football match at night, and then that's the time your partner wants to visit the club to have fun, now you are at the cinema or in the house watching a football match, and your partner will probably be out there dancing at club, now this does not favour the relationship at all, things will be happening and there will be a lot of setback to the relationship.

So to define a true relationship, there must be similar interests between the two individuals and they must work towards a common goal that is of interest to both of them.

Be a trustworthy and honest individual
Without these two ingredients in a relationship, then it can never work well for you. Every relationship today that does not have a ground on trust and honesty, then that relationship will suffer lots of difficulties in the latter part of such relationships.
When you know you can easily cheat on a person, emotionally and physically, then it will be hard for you to maintain trust with your partner.

Also is honesty, when you are not honest in your daily living, then you can never be honest in the relationship, you must find a reason to lie and pretend to be truthful, and once that act is going on in your relationship, it will not take too long and your partner will discover your lies and dishonesty, that's the starting point to relationship problems.

So this trust and honesty is vital, you must learn to be trustworthy and honest because that's the only criteria on which your relationship can stand.

Know What Makes You Happy And Excited
This will help you find someone who clearly will want to have fun with you and make you feel okay because he or she have already known your points of happiness and excitement.

You will not find a partner who does not always smile and feel like he or she want to have fun, and then expect yourself to be happy with them always, you know it does not work that way. Being excited and happy requires someone who would make you to feel such way.

Now you just have to work on those aspects above in order to get into a working relationship life with lots of benefits without remorse and regrets. And don't forget that age matters a lot when we talk about dating, you should not date an individual who has much age gap between both of you or someone who is far enough to be your uncle or aunty, the relationship can turn out to be one sided. So that's what you must take note of before you start dating.