Read how to maintain a long distance relationship without breaking your trust

Long distance relationships have been seen making waves in recent times due to the instability of people and the nature of their works. Its now seen clearly that most people now moves from one location to another because of work and other factors and as result, long distance relationships have been promoted in the recent times.

But many people who engage in such kinds of relationship seems to find it hard coping with the many disadvantages as it seems to them but not really disadvantages. Like in terms of seeing each other everyday, holding and cuddling each other and sharing of their emotions being together.

Some also find it hard keeping to their vows as they might not be able to see their partners every time of the week or the month. Some only see their partners twice in a month or even 3 times in a year, so you can see how challenging and difficult it is keeping up to the task. For some people, they find it comfortable at the beginning but they often run out of patience at the latter days of the relationship.

That's not supposed to be, I assume that before you go into LDR's, you must have known about what sacrifice you are going to make and what conditions to face and the tasks also ahead of you. So this kind of relationships are not always easy as it seems, the only thing of note for you in such relationships is the happy moments you share when you were together, and the trust both of you share, knowing that your partner does not hold any thing back from you, neither does your partner cheats on you.

In long distance relationships, its all about the philosophy, and not the distance, its the feeling of that love and the single sense of belonging, and also that magical feeling of trust, that's what mostly characterize a LDR going in good condition, but when these items are not present, then the relationship is at stake and a little shake can blow off the relationship into non-existence.

So here are some little tips that will help you maintain your stands and ground your long distance relationship into a type of relationship that you can term to be short and full of excitement.

Improve And Increase The Level Of Communication Between Both Of You.
This is the first step towards achieving a goal like this in long distance relationships. Without proper communication, you can break down and your partner can break down too. It does not really mean calling him or calling her every single hour of the day, no, that's not what it means to maintain proper communication.

When you know you have only a single chance to call your partner in the whole day, then you must pick that time up, and contact her, and you must make sure your call is not short and precise, let your partner know that yes you are interested in him/her and he or she is worth spending time for, get the call going for a long time, and discuss about the most important things, discuss and share your problems, get some jokes for both of you to laugh and feel happy, it always count. When you do such a thing, your partner will add more trust in you and believe that you care about his or her feelings.

Today, the world have spread into different dimensions through social networking, and today, you can find a lot of mediums through which you can communicate with your partner almost every time without stress. You can use social networks where you can even video chat and see each other speaking from each end. It must be fun if you can venture into such social arena's like facebook, twitter, whatsapp, skype, google hangout, etc.

But this is not always fun, it might get boring at some points and that is why you need to try other avenues for this purpose.

So improving your communication level sets you free from fears and complications, you will always be rest assured that your partner still loves you and is still willing to play along the relationship line.

Grow The Trust Between You And Your Partner.
This is the first step towards maintaining and having a long lasting long distance relationship. This is an important factor which will tell how long both of you can stay in that relationship.
So how far have you gone in trusting your partner? When you know he or she is miles away from you, when you don't have knowledge as to what he/she is doing at the closet, or in the open, when you don't even have any body to watch their actions and tell you about their moves and what they are doing, when all these things are unknown to you, how far have you gone to trust him/her?

Now it depends on you, and what you do towards ensuring that they are a trustworthy partner. You can know if your partner can be trustworthy when both of you are communicating to each other. The way your partner responds to you and what she tells you she feel about the relationship. Also when your partner is always interested in speaking with you and always eager to see you any time any where without restrictions, then trust can be seen present.

Grow your interests and do things that will let you grow personally
Now you have to get something doing, something that will ease you of the stress of thinking about your partner every time. You must also do things in her own interest and achieve goals that will better the tomorrow in your relationship.

Maybe advancing your career life, finding a better job or involving in activities that will give you good and sound memories about your partner without having that boredom feeling of them not being able to be together with you at that point in time.

While doing this, you must not forget to plan with your partner about the days and moments you will be seeing each other. Its vital towards ensuring that your partner keeps a check on the day that both of you will be seeing each other.

Live a happy life, enjoy with family and friends and ensure you don't feel bored most times because it gives you that sad thought about your partner and leaves you in a bad mood and shape.

Arguments are not good at all in LDR's , and you must do everything possible to avoid it, what are you arguing for by the way? So it's not always a good time to argue while in a long distance relationship.

Avoid being jealous.
This is one of the biggest challenge faced by people who engage in long distance relationships. So to avoid this, you must try to create a honest and trustworthy bond between you and your partner, not giving ears to rumors you hear about your partner because when you allow a third party into the relationship, then you will be left will suspicions everyday because there must always be a report which you don't actually know if it is true or false.

Always exercise patience.
Don't get easily upset or angry when you can't hear from your partner or when things go the way that does not favour you. Accept all the excuses and reasons for failure in any plan that did not turn out to go well. Your patience is what will keep the relationship going and if both of you have that love for each other, then I don't think any one will draw back from the other. So what will be the product to all these? A happy ending of course.