Sunday 7 June 2015

Signs that shows your boyfriend is not dedicated to your love and relationship

There are many instances where you find out that a boyfriend is not committed to the relationship he is into, and that makes the relationship always going to different trouble and difficulty that can even lead to a breakup.
As a woman, you will always need your boyfriend to be actively involved in ensuring that your relationship life is circulated with other curricular instances that shows that both of you are ready to keep things moving.
But when your boyfriend shows no interest in what you are doing at all time and always appear like he is been to dignifying about himself, then chances are clear that he is not so interested in the relationship.
So when you find out that you can not understand the direction your boyfriend takes in the relationship, use these 5 tips to know when your boyfriend is not serious with the relationship.
He does not show any moral backup.
In every true and dedicated relationship, you will observe that both lovers are so serious about each other's life and the careers they will want to pursue.
They are always on point to help each other with encouraging and supportive opinions about the daily dreams they are pursuing.
The boy will assist the girl in doing her house cores, or help her with her school work or other thins that are related to her. Other things that shows moral support will be there and will be seen in display.
He hardly finds time to spend with you.
When you discover that your boyfriend likes been with friends at all time than he likes to be with you, then he is not so dedicated to the relationship.
When he likes going out to see his friend, when he pays more attention to playing games at play stations, when he likes visiting the gym, when he likes to always study like he will not stop, when he always like staying at home.
When he does all those things without remembering you and giving you your own time or also giving you a special moment with him, then he is not dedicated and serious about the relationship.
If he is so serious about having you in his life, then he would always want you to be involved in everything he does, and he would create time for you too despite been occupied with other activities.
Always giving excuses.
When your boyfriend always like giving you excuses about failed plans and never tries to see that he amends such habits of failing to deliver in any plans made, then possibilities are that he is no so serious about the relationship.
You see him making excuses for not picking up your calls, not coming to see you, forgetting to bring the items you requested for, etc. It just clearly shows that he is not dedicated to that relationship and not ready to make you happy at all time.
He is always self centered.
He does things on his own interest and never cares about are of interests to you. When he takes actions that also affects you without letting you know, when he likes you to do whatever pleases him and does not care about how you feel, then that shows he is not dedicated and serious about you and the relationship.
A boyfriend who is not self centered will always let his girlfriend know what he is up to and things he wishes to do, asking for her own opinions and doing things in such a way that favours the both of you in the relationship.
He does not observe and make amendments when things go wrong.
Maybe when you are already tired of his attitudes in the relationship and therefore, you decide to take a break and find yourself air somewhere else, it is expected that he should show concern about the sudden change and also try to know why things are taking a new turn.
But when he is not dedicated to the relationship, you will surely see that he fail to observe when you are tired and now giving yourself your own solutions, and you will find out that he continues to do things his own way without minding what is happening.
There are many other signs that shows your boyfriend is not so dedicated to you, but how do you tackle this problem?
The only solution you have got is to talk to him about his behaviours and ask him to take a second thought for change, or continue if he want to lose you to another man.
If he is listening to you, he will change for good, but if he is not just ready to play along, then you must breakup with him and find yourself a better boyfriend because he is not serious with the relationship that exists between the both of you.

Paul Samuel Uchechukwu

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