Many couples who get wedded newly daily are always filled with expectations and desires from their new spouse and partner of life.
For both men and women, these expectations comes in different forms and what you want from your spouse after marriage might be different from what you want from from him or her after the marriage.
Before you talk of giving your new spouse any marital gift, you must first consider their type of person and what they possibly want in their life after the marriage. Lets take a look at a list of the best gifts you can give to your spouse after marriage.
* For the woman: your virginity.
In some men, your virginity as a woman is the best gift you can offer them after marriage. It gives your man that joy and satisfaction that you have never been with any man in your life and you were strong enough to hold on to your virginity until when your marriage comes.
But also, you must know that some men don't really cherish your virginity after the marriage. When some men observe that they are married to a virgin, they have that sad look and feeling inside them. Here is why.
Many men today want to be with a woman who is filled of lots of experience in sexual activities and who can fully satisfy them and give them the whole pleasures of sex.
So also to other men, giving them a lot of satisfaction in bed can be a nice gift, and when you are a virgin, you might not be capable of giving them that satisfaction because you are new to the whole process.
Sharing common interest.
This is also a nice gift to offer your new spouse in your new marriage. Maybe before you got married, both of you had different interests and have nothing similar that you share.
She likes watching hockey games, you only like football games, she likes taking glossaries, you only like snacks, she likes to sleep early, you only sleep when its late at night, she likes to read, you like going out every morning to see friends, you like partying, she likes to stay at home all times, etc.
All those things notes out the fact that you have no common interest. But now after your marriage, changing those habits can be a surprising gift to your spouse, start showing interest in what your spouse likes doing or what your spouse likes to have. When you do that, you observe that both of you will even enjoy doing or having the same thing at a time.
Change the name you call her.
Before you were married, maybe you were fond of calling him or her by her first name or nickname and both of you had no problem with that.
When you now get married, changing the name you call your spouse can be a big gift to him/her which signifies a change of state.
Its important that you consider doing this after you get married because if you continue calling your spouse by their real name, people might consider it to be a sign of disrespect as the society deems it.
Giving up everything for your spouse.
There are many other gifts you can offer your spouse in the your new marriage life and those things consist of your daily activities, your attitudes, bad habits, irrelevant activities and friends are some other things which you can give up as a gift for your new love life.
You can decide to get over anything that can come between the both of you in your new marriage relationship.
Marriage is a great institution which changes the single state which someone finds himself into an engage state in which someone start caring about things that matters to two set of partners said to be couples in love.
So when you get married, and when planning to get married, you should consider these options and list for the best gifts to give to your new spouse after marriage.
0 comments:
Post a Comment