Saturday 6 June 2015

Safeguarding your relationship - Understanding the feelings of a woman

Women are creatures who can never be understood sometimes, they behave in such a way that you can never predict what they are going to do. But as a man, its always your duty towards safeguarding your relationship in any way you can.
As a man who is in control of your relationship, you will discover that you will always need your woman to be around you. Her duty in the relationship is not only to provide food and making fun always. A woman will always encourage good things in your relation and will make you always look hygienic. A woman will always expose you to different forms of happiness in your life.
But then, not all women are gifted with such moral values and violent impulses to give a man the things he desire, many women always give their man though time in their relationship life which is not always good in the love cycle.
This act which women always portray in giving their man hard times is very unpleasant and never acceptable by any man, but through those difficulties and hard times your woman gives you, you can be able to understand your woman's psychological habits and then, give yourself the best treatment to every situation in the relationship.
Why you should not react when your woman is giving your love life hard times.
Sometimes, you can never explain a woman's behaviour in the normal sense it is taken as because when you do that, you will get it the wrong way and can actually land you on the wrong side of the love cycle.
When your woman gives you hard and though times, or always acts in manners that upset your mind all the time, the best way to explain and view the situation is taking it as a "test".
One of a woman's major role in a relationship is to test her partner. And when you can understand why she is testing you, then you will find better ways for handling the problems she gives you and make a better relationship. Its one of her roles also in safeguarding your relationship.
Many times, you will observe a woman's behaviour when she is testing you out of her own insecurities and fear about the relationship. So because she want to ensure that she still have you at her side, you observe her putting up tests that will actually make you feel like she will never trust your love for her.
Your woman can come out boldly to ask you questions that you will arguably accept that they are reasonable. To her, what she is doing is perfectly the right thing for her to do when it comes to safeguarding the relationship.
So once your woman is up and asking you things that sound stupid to your ears and will even want to make you act so angrily, remember and try not to be angry and over react. Be calm first of all and then, reason and think on what she is saying and try to understand her key points in what she is doing. Okay now lets take a look at some things she can ask you.
She might ask you things like "do you really love me?", "Who is that girl i saw you standing with?", "why were you moving around with that lady?", "where were you last night when i was ringing you up and you were not answering my calls".
All those things are done out of her feelings of insecurity and you don't expect her to be happy about what is happening with you.
So once you can be able to understand and identify what those tests are for, you should device any means to ensure that you get those matters dealt with.
Women can be afraid of loosing out a relationship they are enjoying, but once you can give a woman reassurance about your efforts in safeguarding your relationship and understanding her actions, that will be enough to spice up her boldness in the relationship and give you a 100 grade trust in your love life together.

Paul Samuel Uchechukwu

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