Saturday 6 June 2015

Reasons why men can never be pleased in a relationship

Nowadays, its known that no matter how you have tried so hard in pleasing your man, it is always hard for you as a woman to satisfy all his wants in the relationship.

Men are known by their dynamic sense of reasoning and reaction to different situations in the relationship, making it hard for you as a woman to satisfy him in the relationship and do things that pleases him.

There are many reactions almost all men have to different relationship gestures and some of those reaction does not favour the growth of the relationship.

Areas where you can never satisfy a man.
There are many situations in a relationship where your man can never be satisfied and will always think you are leading the relationship astray. Lets take a look at those situations and the necessary measures you must take to ensure that you handle the situations the perfect way.

When he cant reach you through phone calls.
It happens in almost every relationship, when your man calls you and you are not picking up is calls, or when your phones are switched off, he starts thinking that you are just cheating and that is why you switched of your phone, or you are not picking up his calls because you are tired of him in the relationship.

With those false assumptions, he would probably meet and confront you with words that clearly shows he is suspecting you of cheating or getting tired in the relationship.
Now if you are that patient type and you calmly confront him, then you will successfully pull him back and bring back the joy of your relationship. But if you also get angry and attack him with wrong words and expression, then you are at risk of bring your relationship to close.

Giving your man 100% of your love and trust.
If you are still in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship, then you must never give any man 100% of your love and trust.
Doing that will actually make him take you for granted and even stop caring about you like he did when he was still trying his luck to win your heart.
He will think that you are overdoing things and always disturbing him with too much love expression.

So as a woman, you must make sure you keep making your man try hard in pleasing you and winning your whole heart, that will make him more concentrated in keeping and loving you, but once you have given him your whole heart, he will surely play around with you because he knows he have already won your whole heart and you are now the one caring so much for the relationship.

Not telling him your problems.
Sometimes, a good woman will never want to tell you all of her problems because she will definitely think she would be causing you lots of discomfort and also, trying to push all your cares upon him.
But when your man observes that none of your problems are made known unto him, he will definitely think and tell you that you don't trust him and that is why you don't want to tell him your problems.

So to handle this situation, you must clearly show and tell him the reasons for your action and make him understand what you are doing.
After that, you should start involving him into some of your problems which will not bore him away, don't bring financial matters into your conversations as that would cause him discomfort. And also, try not to tell him any of your financial problems because he will think you are now interested in his money and not his love.

Many instances happen in relationships where you will want to satisfy your man but he takes it the opposite way.
When you dress so smart and good looking, he just thinks you are not doing it for him,but to attract other men to you. Also when you hurt him mistakenly, he forgets that it occurs in every relationship and then, he takes it to the air that you are careless and don't care about things that makes his heart broken.

There are many other difficulties you will face when you are trying to satisfy your man, but the best way to do handle them is to try never to overdo any thing you are doing for him, with that your man will learn your physics when it comes to the aspect where you always try to satisfy his love for you.

Paul Samuel Uchechukwu

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