Am not against the fact that a guy should do anything possible to impress a lady who is either your friend or your girlfriend.
Impressing a lady is quite good and it is a goal every guy wishes to achieve, but the truth is that most times, these actions come back to haunt us and at the end, everything turns out to be a regret. So as you press on to your goals of impressing a lady, here are 6 red flags to avoid in order to avoid regrets.
Here are the list of the things a guy should not do to impress a lady.
1. Lying
Now lying here does not mean telling her little lies that will not be a to you in the future, am talking about bragging and showing off to a lady about what you are not.
You know your dad is not working in a big company, or he is not that rich as you wanted, but you went ahead to lie to a lady that your father owns a big company, or your father is Dangote's brother. You also know that you don't work in a place that earns you big money but you went ahead to lie to her that you work in shell company, etc.
These types of lies will only make her desires and expectations from you high and it will be a problem to you because you will always try to live up to her expectations. Don't be surprised the day she will find out that you lied to her about your personality and then, the rest will be a story.
2. Taking Too Much Alcohol.
Most guys are guilty of this act and they sometimes do it when trying to woo a lady or when taking her to bed.
This is totally wrong in many ways because it will damage your health and also, you will temporarily loose your mentality at that moment if you took too much of it.
Also this act will not guarantee you of wooing her or performing in bed successfully. It will show the lady that you lack confidence and self esteem. So please be yourself and also avoid this act while trying to impress a girl.
3. Spending Unnecessarily.
You don't have to be buying anything for her anyhow. And also you don't have to be buying stuffs anyhow in order to look rich and fly. I don't see the reason why you should spend anyhow just to impress a lady because she will only fall for your money and spend them too, and by the time that you realize that your spending is unnecessary, it might be already late and then, regrets set in.
4. Backbiting Your Fellow Man
Maybe you found out that there is another man coming after that girl you are trying to impress or even your girlfriend, it is a wrong idea to say something bad about him in any way because he or she is trying to cause you discomfort. Tale bearing and fighting with another man because of one single lady is not good and not worth it.
If that girl discover that both of you are having a heated fight or argument, or she finds out that you are just a tale bearer because of another guy, you might loose the game to another man, so be careful.
5. Hiding Your Personality.
. There is no need to be a bad guy who you know you are not. If you are not a confident guy, don't force yourself into acting like someone who is confident and inside you, you know you are that shy type.
There are girls out there who still value the good guys, so be that good guy and don't turn bad because you want to impress a lady. People who know you will even know that you are just acting up and that will not be too good.
6. Giving Up Your Values And Belief.
If you are a committed Christian or Muslim who is devoted to your religious activities and ways of living, then do not try to drop your religious values just because you want to impress a lady.
You know that your religion is against physical intimacy before marriage, but just because she asked you for s*x, you now gave up your religious norms and went the wrong way.
When everything seems to go wrong, your faith in your religion is what will keep you going and when you have already given up that faith, then you have lost everything and you will be left with no option than to start your life all over again.
7. Abandon Your Friends.
Do not abandon your loved ones and friends when you are into a lady. Don't act like they don't matter to you anymore because that girl now gives you everything and makes you happy.
when everything seems going down and problems start setting in, its your friends who are going to be there to lift you up and give you hope for better things ahead. But when you abandon and forget about them just because of a lady, and at the end, she left and you now remember your friends and try to run back to them, you will only be a laughing stock to them and they will not accept you back with helpful hands.
So, no matter what you do while trying to impress a girl, avoid all the red flags listed above and you will be good to continue in your quest.
These tips here are just few among the list of the things you should not do to impress a girl, so keep visiting our website and get updated with new tips on the above subject matter.
Impressing a lady is quite good and it is a goal every guy wishes to achieve, but the truth is that most times, these actions come back to haunt us and at the end, everything turns out to be a regret. So as you press on to your goals of impressing a lady, here are 6 red flags to avoid in order to avoid regrets.
Here are the list of the things a guy should not do to impress a lady.
1. Lying
Now lying here does not mean telling her little lies that will not be a to you in the future, am talking about bragging and showing off to a lady about what you are not.
You know your dad is not working in a big company, or he is not that rich as you wanted, but you went ahead to lie to a lady that your father owns a big company, or your father is Dangote's brother. You also know that you don't work in a place that earns you big money but you went ahead to lie to her that you work in shell company, etc.
These types of lies will only make her desires and expectations from you high and it will be a problem to you because you will always try to live up to her expectations. Don't be surprised the day she will find out that you lied to her about your personality and then, the rest will be a story.
2. Taking Too Much Alcohol.
Most guys are guilty of this act and they sometimes do it when trying to woo a lady or when taking her to bed.
This is totally wrong in many ways because it will damage your health and also, you will temporarily loose your mentality at that moment if you took too much of it.
Also this act will not guarantee you of wooing her or performing in bed successfully. It will show the lady that you lack confidence and self esteem. So please be yourself and also avoid this act while trying to impress a girl.
3. Spending Unnecessarily.
You don't have to be buying anything for her anyhow. And also you don't have to be buying stuffs anyhow in order to look rich and fly. I don't see the reason why you should spend anyhow just to impress a lady because she will only fall for your money and spend them too, and by the time that you realize that your spending is unnecessary, it might be already late and then, regrets set in.
4. Backbiting Your Fellow Man
Maybe you found out that there is another man coming after that girl you are trying to impress or even your girlfriend, it is a wrong idea to say something bad about him in any way because he or she is trying to cause you discomfort. Tale bearing and fighting with another man because of one single lady is not good and not worth it.
If that girl discover that both of you are having a heated fight or argument, or she finds out that you are just a tale bearer because of another guy, you might loose the game to another man, so be careful.
5. Hiding Your Personality.
. There is no need to be a bad guy who you know you are not. If you are not a confident guy, don't force yourself into acting like someone who is confident and inside you, you know you are that shy type.
There are girls out there who still value the good guys, so be that good guy and don't turn bad because you want to impress a lady. People who know you will even know that you are just acting up and that will not be too good.
6. Giving Up Your Values And Belief.
If you are a committed Christian or Muslim who is devoted to your religious activities and ways of living, then do not try to drop your religious values just because you want to impress a lady.
You know that your religion is against physical intimacy before marriage, but just because she asked you for s*x, you now gave up your religious norms and went the wrong way.
When everything seems to go wrong, your faith in your religion is what will keep you going and when you have already given up that faith, then you have lost everything and you will be left with no option than to start your life all over again.
7. Abandon Your Friends.
Do not abandon your loved ones and friends when you are into a lady. Don't act like they don't matter to you anymore because that girl now gives you everything and makes you happy.
when everything seems going down and problems start setting in, its your friends who are going to be there to lift you up and give you hope for better things ahead. But when you abandon and forget about them just because of a lady, and at the end, she left and you now remember your friends and try to run back to them, you will only be a laughing stock to them and they will not accept you back with helpful hands.
So, no matter what you do while trying to impress a girl, avoid all the red flags listed above and you will be good to continue in your quest.
These tips here are just few among the list of the things you should not do to impress a girl, so keep visiting our website and get updated with new tips on the above subject matter.
0 comments:
Post a Comment