Understanding the mind of a girl and knowing the way she think is one of the great steps towards getting a girl to like you in no time
Without laying the right foundation for that girl to like you, then all your efforts towards getting her to like you will never make any difference. The process is complicated because not all girls are same, every girl have her likes and her dislikes. So without understanding what that girl wants in a guy, you can never get her to like you even after all your impressions and after wooing her. There is one thing which is the most important of all if you want a girl to like you, thats your personality. Without having a great personality, that girl can never like you.
The reason is because its only your personality, its the kind of person you are and who you are that matters when trying to get a girl to like you. So these steps below will help you to improve your personality and become just the best you can be and you will see how irresistable you will be to any girl.
Remember, the only thing that can draw all girls to you is a great personality.
1. Be The Alpha Male
By being the alpha male, we are not saying you should be the leading goat in your group or community. Dont try to be the godfather of your group, but also, you should try not to be taken for granted by your group friends or people around your community. Dont be an attention seeker among your friends but rather, be the one to command your very friends and make them to respect you. Be that type of a guy who people will respect and appreciate your friendship.
2. Respect Yourself.
In this aspect, you have to think from other people's point of view about you, though you might see yourself as a great guy. Do you try to cling and hang out with people anywhere whether they invited you or not? Do your friends leave you out of their plans and make you feel lonely? Do they make plans without seeking for your opinion and forget to invite you to parties? Then just forget about those friends because you don't belong to their group and they really dont respect you. You just have to find some new friends who will respect you because you end up loosing respect for yourself when you are not respected by your friends and no girl would like to be with a guy who have no respect and self esteem for himself.
3. Dont be idle.
Do you sit idle and know nothin good to do? Do you shuffle your feet and play with your hair, use your hand to write on the ground? Or do you just site back and relax your mind? I will advice you not to be idle, because they are a sign of weakness and self-concious behaviour. Many women dont like guys who are idle and fidgets every time. If you are just owkay and comfortable with yourself, sitting calm and composing yourself well is a thing you should do. Being idle and fidgetting can distract a girl's attention and she might not like it.
4. Speak With a Calm Voice.
Some guys will just whin and grumble all times, thats so annoying. Always try and calm your voice while talking. Even when you are unhappy or angry, always speak with a calm and low voice, and also be composed. Dont speak with a highly intonated voice, but learn to speak with a low intonated voice that will please others and then, you will see how the girls will love to talk to you. A girl would not like to talk with a guy who nags at all time.
5. Be A Great Conversationist And Be In Command.
For the first time you meet a girl, talk about what she likes and things that are of interest to her, so just think from her own point of view and talk about those things you think she will like, and also try and watch how she respond to them, if you see that she is not interested, just drop the topic and pick another one. Talking about movies and football might not interest a girl and she would not like to talk about them. So you should remember that not every girl shares same interest like you. Be updated about events and happenings that can interest her so that you can talk about them. Also when you are out on a date, you have to be helpful and in command. If she mistakenly drops her pause on the ground or her fork drops to the ground while having launch or dinner, don't sit there and be wondering what to do, but kindly ask the waiter for another fork or pick up her pause without delay. Make her feel as if she don't have anything to worry about and let her feel safe with you. You need to learn to be in command if you want to be respected and have a great personality.
6. Be A Happy Guy And Not Panicking.
When something goes wrong, a lot of guys lose their nerve and as a result, they behave in a manner that will irritate everyone around them. Don't whine and chew your nails just because your date did not turn up early or keep looking at your watch just because you are late on a date or keep chewing your lips because you have nothing to talk about on a date. Lastly, be happy because girls love happy guys, when you are happy, it shows and the world smiles with you too and it will also attract girls to be with you. You may have numerous problems in your day to day life, but try to smile and be happy at all times. Even if you like thinking about how life have been unfair to you, don't be fustrated at all times. You just have to look at all your problems of this life as little obstacles you must overcome to get a happier life in the future. I assure you that every girl will want to be with you when you are optimistic and enjoy your life. So do not forget that, a good personality is the biggest factor in getting a girl to like you.
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