Monday, 9 November 2015

New Research Reveals That Women Are Either Bisexual Or Lesbian But Never Straight!

According to new research, women who say they are straight are in fact aroused by videos of both n*ked men and n*ked women, whereas lesbians are much more attracted to the female form.
The study, led by Dr Gerulf Rieger from the Department of Psychology at the University of Essex, involved 345 women. They were shown videos and had their responses recorded, including whether their pupils dilated in response to sexual stimuli.
The results found that straight women were strongly sexually aroused by videos of both attractive men and attractive women, even though they said they were only interested in men.
This was in contrast to lesbians, who showed much stronger sexual responses to women than to men.
The researchers said lesbians were the most like men in their responses because it is usually men who show distinct sexual responses to their favourite sex.
Dr Rieger said: “Even though the majority of women identify as straight, our research clearly demonstrates that when it comes to what turns them on, they are either bisexual or gay, but never straight.”
Dr Rieger also said his study showed that lesbians who may dress in a more masculine way may not have more masculine behaviors.

6 Symptoms Of Breast Cancer Women should stop overlooking

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6 Symptoms Of Breast Cancer Women Should Stop Overlooking
Thousands of women are diagnosed with breast cancer each year. For women, only lung cancer has a higher death rate than breast cancer. While this type of cancer can be deadly, there are warning signs that can help you catch it early.
It isn’t exactly known why breast cancer develops, but there are some factors that seem to increase your chances of developing breast cancer. Your age (and gender) increase your risk; While men can be diagnosed with chest cancer, it is one hundred times mores common in women. The highest rate of invasive breast cancer are found in women 55 and older.
There also seems to be a higher risk if your close blood relatives had or have breast cancer. Also, the risk of breast cancer increases with higher amounts of alcohol use and obesity after menopause.
Knowing the risks and the symptoms of breast cancer can significantly increase your chances of catching the illness early. Luckily, there are some things you can look for. While finding a lump in your breast is a common symptom, there are others signs to look for.
If you notice any of these symptoms, contact your doctor immediately:
1. Breast Sizes
If the size of one chest enlarges significantly in a short amount of time, this could be a warning sign of breast cancer. Breasts are normally different sizes, but noticing a drastic increase in size or an abnormal change in shape could be something to be concerned about.
2. Swelling
Even if there is no lump present, swelling on your breast (even in a small area) is not a good sign. Swelling can also accompany fever-like symptoms; if this is the case, your breasts will feel warm, may become inflamed, become red or purple and will swell. Immediately inform your doctor if you experience these symptoms.

3. Abnormal Ni.pples
Other than breast milk, any other discharge is not normal. Decreased nipple sensitivity is also something to be aware of. Additionally, if your ni.pple retracts (pulls inward,) or is discolored, be sure to call your doctor.
4. Redness or itchiness
Having a bumpy “orange peel” texture on your breast or nipple area could very well be a symptom of breast cancer. If you experience severe itching on your breast and dermatologist visits (and creams) don’t soothe your symptoms, call your doctor.
5. Noticing a lump
There are benign lumps that form in the breast that may not be cancerous. However, if you notice a mass (that you haven’t noticed before, or that feels harder than the surrounding lumps) schedule a chest examination. Be sure to notice any sort of abnormal mass near your armpit; though it is not in your breast, it could still be breast cancer.

6. Breast Pain
This can be caused by a variety of other things that aren’t cancer. Fluctuating hormones, some fertility treatments, stress and wearing a bra that doesn’t fit right can all cause breast pain. If your pain isn’t caused by this list or accompanies other symptoms, contact your doctor.
Some women feel pain in their back or chest instead of their breast. If this pain does not go away with physical therapy or stretching, inform your doctor.
Not all of these symptoms are symptoms of breast cancer. If you get other treatments (like a cream or antibiotic) for these symptoms, but you do not notice a difference within a few days, be sure to call your doctor and be assertive about tests for breast cancer.

Mammograms have significantly increased the detection rate for breast cancer. Regularly schedule these appointments if you are above the age of 40, or if you have a family history of breast cancer. However, there are things a mammogram cannot detect. Having dense breasts make cancer harder to detect even with a mammogram and helps the cancer cells spread more rapidly. Talk to your doctor for additional tests if you fit this description.
Be diligent with your own breast examinations and be aware of what chest cancer symptoms look and feel like. If you are at all concerned, make an appointment with your doctor.

Thursday, 5 November 2015

See the reasons Why Women's Breasts are Getting Bigger these days

Many people think that women develope bigger breaast size when they engage in sexual activities, but from recent studies, women are now freed from speculations and thoughts of such act.

Below are the said reasons from recent studies on why women develope bigger breaast size even before the age of puberty and after childbirth.
 
Breast, a soft (rounded) protruding organ on the upper front of a woman’s body, is no doubt an important part of the female anatomy, not only for producing milk needed to feed a new born baby, although that can be enormous, its high-end advantage during sexual activities and the role it plays in the attractiveness of a woman cannot be overemphasised.

Notably, men have theirs, but it is not (always) as sizeable as those of women, and many men lust after these organs, often making some to skip their breaths, lose concentration or even change focus on sighting them, and for most of them, the bigger, the better.

Call it an instant attention grabber for men and you may not be far from the truth. It excites them and remains a huge delight for them but it also delights its owners; women, making them feel good and sometimes enhancing their comparative advantage. And suffice it to say that it aptly qualifies as one of the most cherished (by women) and most loved (by men) parts of the female body. Such is its importance to both sexes.

Even though big breasts could be a blessing or burden for women, as big breasts have been found to have the likelihood of affecting posture and causing chronic back pain, regardless, more women seem to crave for it now than ever before.

However, it is not uncommon these days to see that women, including young girls, are becoming increasingly endowed in that region. In fact, in those days, girls used to wear vest until they approached 18 but now, bras have taken the centre stage, not just for decoration but because there is indeed something to cover, which underscores the fact that girls and women are getting bigger in that region.

Many have attributed women’s bust increase to the fact that many more women are going under the knife for breast enlargement, which has made it difficult to know which one is natural or artificial, but far from that, lifestyle and diet have been found to play a major role in bust size.

This is independent of heredity and the fact that women experience some natural variation in their breast size usually during their period (menstruation) and pregnancy period (pre and post).

An emeritus surgeon, Prof. Michael Baum, who is also an expert in breast cancer, explained that one good reason why more women are getting increased bust size is increased fat consumption, but a nutritionist, Jane Clarke told Daily Mail that people are eating more of wrong food and that all the calories people consume end up on the hips and breasts coupled with the fact that more women are now taking too much of alcohol which is highly calorific.

Another nutritionist, Dr. Marilyn Glenville, also opined that beyond fat, increase in the breast tissue levels has also been responsible for the increase in breast size. “So, we have to look at what stimulates breast tissue growth, and that is oestrogen, the female sex hormone. Oestrogen is what changes our body shape during puberty,” she added.

Glenville explained that there is a strong link between increased oestrogen levels and bigger breasts, adding that there are some breast-enhancing supplements that have made their way into some of the food people consume, making such food items have oestrogenic properties, which have impacted on their breast size. She argued further that a large chunk of the milk consumed by humans come from pregnant cows, thus the milk would be flooded with oestrogen.

She said, “It makes sense to look at the ways in which our exposure to all types of oestrogen, the hormone our own bodies produce and oestrogenic chemicals we come into contact with, has changed over the years.

“Girls today reach puberty earlier than ever before, and are going on to have fewer ¬children and breastfeeding for less time. As a result, we have far more periods than our ancestors would have had and we are exposed to more monthly surges of oestrogen, which stimulates ovulation and is also responsible for the increasing breast sizes.”


Meanwhile, a previous study, led by Dr. Karin Michels, from Harvard Medical School, had explained that young girls of nowadays are reaching puberty at an earlier age because of consumption of sugary drinks. Thus, when these girls reach puberty, they begin to show the signs, evident in their breasts and butts.

Michels said, “Our study adds to increasing concern about the widespread consumption of sugar-sweetened drinks among children and adolescents. Our study suggests that age of first menstruation (menarche) occurred earlier among girls with the highest consumption of drinks sweetened with added sugar. These findings are important in the context of earlier puberty onset among girls.”

Going by Glenville’s explanation, the fact that more girls reach puberty exposes them to more oestrogen from their young age, which tends to have its own effect on their anatomy, especially their breasts.

One other explanation for the rising size of boobs, according to experts, is the use of contraceptive pills. In a report on softpedia.com, a consultant endocrinologist, Prof. Pierre-Marc Bouloux, was quoted as saying, “There is a tendency for the pill to stimulate breast growth. However, modern versions of the pill contain far less estrogen than their older counterparts.”
Bouloux explained that there are some other products that come as consumable items, like some chewing gum, which have some oestrogenic properties that could enhance breast size, adding that certain chemicals in polluted water and industrial wastes could mimic oestrogen and produce the same boob-boosting factor in the women.

But, in the words of Dr. Joanna Scurr, a breast biomechanics expert and principal lecturer in biomechanics at the University of Portsmouth, breast sizes are increasing because of the higher proportion of fats in them, adding that junk food, tinned food, canned drinks, and plastic bottles could also be responsible, due to the xenoestrogen.

Therefore, the increase in breast sizes in recent times could be placed down to increased fat consumption by women, rising levels of breast tissue, eating junks and fatty meals, drinking sugary drinks and use of contraceptive pills, more so because breast tissue has been found to be extremely sensitive to hormones. These are independent of hereditary, menstruation and pregnancy/breastfeeding.

Commenting on the study, a medical practitioner, Dr. Rotimi Adesanya, explained that apart from increase in fat diets, use of family planning drugs are some of the things responsible for the increasing breast sizes.

He said, “The increase is due to increase in fats because breast is made of fatty tissues. So, if the fat is much in the body, definitely, the one in the breast will be much as well. So, the level of fat a person eats is an indirect proportion of the person’s breasts size. For some, it runs in the family, and for people that tend to be obese or big in size, they also tend to have a large breast.

“Also, use of hormonal drugs, such as contraceptive pills, could increase breast size. Diet is also a very important factor. The fatty diets include sugary drinks, margarines, etc., and too much of oil is not very good, and that is why we advise people to take more of fruits and vegetables.”
 
Written by TUNDE AJAJA

Monday, 2 November 2015

3 quick ways to stop obsessing over your ex

A sad woman needs advice 
How do you get over someone you once loved and shared everything with. Obsessing over your ex is very unhealthy because there's absolutely no future for you with them.
Obsessing over them means not coming to terms that they've really said goodbye and have moved on. You have to find the courage to move on with your life.

Relationship expert Dr. Jeff Gardere in a chat with Marlo Thomas of Huffington Post, lists thee simple ways people can get over their exes after a breakup.

A really sad woman
1. Find something healthy to get obsessed with:  Dr Gardere says find a hobby. Turn your heart and mind towards something more entertaining.
 
2. Don't stop making yourself happy: Always believe in your ability. One failed relationship doesn't define who you are. You can't say you are nothing without them, you were something before they came along.

3. Avoid things, situations that remind you of them: Don't put yourself on the spot. Find other places you never went together, try some new experiences. Don't go to places where you are likely to run into your ex.

8 Surprising THINGS That Makes WOMEN Want To Be LAID So Bad!!


While guys are generally up for se x whenever, wherever (regardless of the situation), women tend to need a bit more inspiration, according to Cindy M. Meston, Ph.D. and David M. Buss, Ph.D., psychology professors at theUniversity of Texas at Austin and coauthors of Why Women Have Se x: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between). For a better understanding of how to get her in the mood, consider the following eight factors that Meston and Buss say affects a woman’s li bido:



1. HER MAN’S APPEARANCE
Men are usually considered to be the most turned on by visual stimuli (think about it: how many strip clubs and adult magazines are actually targeted toward females?), but women are actually quite turned on by a man’s face, body and movement as well, say Meston and Buss. “Sexually, women are attracted to men with masculine features, although not too masculine,” Meston explains. “A little light stubble is usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean and well-kept. Body-wise, women generally find men with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-hip ratio sexually attractive. Motion is important, too, as women find athletic prowess and agility to be sexual turn-ons.” The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the sack, a good first step to take might be getting yourself into the gym.
 

2. THE TIME OF DAY
Meston says that women are very individualized in terms of when they most prefer to get it on: “In general, women want to have se x when they feel their best — when they have energy, feel connected to their partners, aren’t distracted by work or stressful daily events, and when they feel sexy — and that may or may not be at night.” In order to figure out when a woman’s most likely to be in the mood, pay attention to the times she seems the most energized and/or chilled out. Try thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d love a post-jog quickie right before her shower!

3. CERTAIN SMELLS
Meston and Buss explain that, for women, sense of smell is far more important than it is to men when it comes to sexual attraction. Simply put: if a woman doesn’t like the way a man smells, it’s often a deal-breaker — whether she consciously realizes it or not. The number one turn-off reported by most women is — not surprisingly — bad breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also plays an interesting biological role in what attracts her to a man, according to Meston: “Olfactory signals provide a woman with a wealth of information about a man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic makeup,” she notes. Pheromones — tiny airborne molecules that humans emit from various glands in their body — can influence a woman’s desire to be sexually intimate with a man. Male pheromones have been shown to provide information on a man’s symmetry, which is an indicator of genetic fitness and ultimately can determine whether a man is genetically compatible with a woman. “For many women — whether they realize it or not — scent can play an important role in determining her willingness to have se x with a man, given her ‘sense’ of whether they can produce genetically healthy, strong children together,” says Buss.


4. HER GUY’S CHOICE OF WORDS
Often, what a man says is more important than what he does when he’s trying to get a woman in the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-fire way of making someone want to get closer… although, if the compliments come across as insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says Meston.

To score extra sincerity points, make references to future activities you’d like to do together, explains Meston, noting that showing signs of commitment can often be sexually alluring to women. Buss also notes that a man with a sense of humor is also a sexual turn-on for the ladies: “If a man can make a woman laugh, it relaxes her and makes her feel that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that a good sense of humor also conveys some key qualities women want in a mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be witty if you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having the mind-reading skills to know what she will find amusing), and social verve or confidence.

  5. THE NEED FOR REVENGE
In their research, Meston and Buss found that many women had “revenge se x” with someone other than their most recent dating partner to get back at a cheating partner or to “even the score,” as some women put it. “Some women hoped their ex would find out about it and feel angry or hurt, and other women said they didn’t care if they found out or not — they felt better just knowing they had gotten revenge,” Meston explains. Why is the need for revenge such a turn-on for women? “Revenge can serve two basic functions,” Buss explains. The first function is one of deterrence: just as bullies stop picking on victims who retaliate, cheating partners sometimes stop their illicit activities when the other person retaliates in kind. The second function of revenge is “reputation management,” says Buss. “Women who are scorned sometimes suffer damage to their social reputation, whether they are cheated on or dumped. Having se x — especially if it is with someone who is relatively high in ‘mate value’ — can sometimes help to restore a woman’s reputation,” he explains.

6. GENETICS
Women prefer men whose MHC genes (or Major HistoCompatibility genes) are dissimilar to their own, because this is the set of genes involved in determining an individual’s immune function. “Having children with men who are dissimilar produces children with healthier immune systems,” Buss explains. “Astonishingly, women seem to be able to pick this up through sense of smell, especially at ovulation, if they are not on hormonal contraceptives.”

7. HER PHYSICAL HEALTH OR WELL-BEING
If you’re looking for a few good reasons why she should have se x with you, there are countless ways in which you can emphasize that “getting busy” would be a wise move for her health. “During orga sm, opiates — the body’s natural painkillers — are released, which can help decrease all sorts of aches and pains for women,” Meston explains. Se x can also help maintain the body’s flexibility and cardiovascular health, decrease anxiety, and enhance overall mood. Additionally, Meston notes, having se x during menstruation decreases a woman’s risk of experiencing endometriosis symptoms. Of course, se x (if it lasts long enough!) can also be a good calorie burner, so you can always suggest it as a fantastic way to burn off the chocolate cheesecake you shared for dessert.
 

Making L0ve To Her While She Is Menstruating: The facts!

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If you thought that se-x during menstruation is off-limits, think again. Many of us are hesitant to try it, because we’re culturally conditioned to think it’s unclean.
From a purely medical standpoint, however, se-x during menstruation is completely normal. It even has a lot of benefits for both partners.
Here are some top facts…

1. S-ex during menstruation isn’t harmful

There’s a pervasive myth out there that menstrual blood is dirty and full of impurities that might harm the penis. This is nonsense!
Menstrual blood is a mixture of healthy blood and the discarded tissues that line the uterus each month in preparation for pregnancy. Coming in contact with this blood will not harm the penis in any way. In fact, menstruation blood serves as a great (and harmless) lubricant.

There is also a common misconception that the penis can hurt the uterus during s-ex while she’s having her period.
Although it’s true that a tiny opening corps up in the uterus to pass menstrual blood during her period, this hole is impossibly small for the penis to enter. S-ex during menstruation causes absolutely no harm to a woman’s uterus.

Menstruation may increase a woman’s s-ex drive

Many women feel a higher s-ex drive during their menstrual cycle. There is a lot of conflicting and confusing information about why this happens. But one reason, according to Sara Gottfried, M.D., author of The Hormone Cure, is that a woman’s estrogen is at an all-time low at the beginning of her period. As her estrogen levels rise over the following week, her testosterone levels rise as well, helping her be turned on more easily.

Another factor may be the increased blood flow and lubrication in the genital region, a heaviness that could translate into arousal. The possibility of getting pregnant is also lower during this time, which might make women feel more sexually liberal. Also, some women may become aroused by the thought of doing something sexually forbidden or unconventional.

You can still get pregnant.

The chances of becoming pregnant during menstruation are extremely small, but it can still happen. Though generally it is a very safe time to have unprotected s-ex if you’re trying to avoid pregnancy, a man’s sperm has the ability to survive inside the woman’s body for a few days and there is a small chance that an early ovulation could cause pregnancy. If you want to avoid getting pregnant, it is best to use contraceptives.

S-ex during menstruation can relieve cramps. Having an orgasm during the period may give you pain relief from cramps by releasing pain-reducing endorphins into the bloodstream. Also, according to some scientists, s-ex during this time provides further relief by using up chemicals, which are responsible for menstrual cramps.

S-ex during menstruation could also knock a few days off your period. This is because the extra contractions your uterus experiences during orgasm help get rid of menstrual blood faster, ending your cycle sooner than usual. But, you can expect a heavy flow during the initial days.

It’s more often women, not men, opposed to the idea.

According to a recent survey conducted on MensHealth.com, it’s women, rather than men, who choose to shut down sexual activities during menstruation. More than 75 percent of the men who were surveyed said they had no issues about having s-ex during their partner’s period, though 54 percent said they would only do it with a wife or serious girlfriend.

Do you know some more interesting facts about s-ex during the period?

Have you ever done it?

Saturday, 17 October 2015

Ladies, If Your Guy Has These 22 Habits, Marry Him Right Now


Ladies,lemme just tell you the truth...A good man is not easy to find this days but if you are lucky to have a man that has these 22 characters you are about to read below,pleasehold tight and never let him go!


1. He knows your breakfast order by heart.
Whether it's a toasted whole wheat sesame bagel with scrambled eggs and cheese and freshly squeezed orange juice or just black coffee. He'll run out to pick it up or take you with him and recite your order by heart. He pays attention to the details of what you like.


2. He checks in on his way home.
With a quick text, "Leaving the bar in 10 minutes. See you soon…" he lets you know that he hasn't forgotten you, and that he's ready to be with his favorite person again. He's not sending this text because he thinks you're paranoid, needy or insecure. He sends it out of mutual respect. He knows that giving you a head's up prevents you from worrying about his safety or his level of sobriety. And it reminds you that he realizes the best part of his night has yet to begin.
It's also keeping you in the loop so you can cue up the movie you've been waiting to watch together.


3. He takes care of you.
He'll grab you an Advil and a glass of water if you have a headache. He'll hit the pharmacy for some tissues and cough meds and pick up chicken noodle soup when you have a bad head cold. He'll force you to take zinc lozenges and nudge you to see a doctor when you claim to be too busy to make an appointment.

4. He calls during the day just to check in.
He may have a funny story to share or he might simply want to see how work is going. He'll often try to convince you to shut down early so you can spend time together.


5. He's great with kids.
In fact, you're pretty sure he could run a sports camp of some type. Kids flock to him and are eager to spend time with him. He's a great role model. His upbeat personality and enthusiasm are infectious. There are huge grins on children's little faces when he's around.


6. He makes time for you.
No matter how busy things get for him, he'll never forget to set aside consistent alone time with you. You're a priority to him, so he's not afraid to turn down plans with "the guys" in favor of some QT with his lady.

7. He's responsive to each and every one of your calls and texts.
He'll never go missing for multiple days in a row. He's
reliable. He won't stand you up when you have plans. He doesn't ask for rain checks because excuses are not part of his DNA. He's not one to be consistently late because he cares enough to be on time.


8. He doesn't keep in touch with ex-girlfriends.
He knows that once a relationship is over, there is no good that can come from staying in close contact, particularly once he's in a new relationship. There are no strange phone numbers popping up on his cell phone. Not that you know this because you don't even feel the need to cybersnoop.


9. He randomly buys you scratch lotto cards.
He loves handing you a coin and watching you uncover the numbers on the card. You'll plan together what you'd do with the money if you should win. He's a dreamer. And you love dreaming with him.


10. On certain occasions, you receive heartfelt gifts
accompanied by thoughtful greeting cards.
You're into birthdays and anniversaries, so he is happy to celebrate them with you. If he knows you're into writing, he'll get you a beautiful journal.
He inserts his humor into presents, too. For instance, if he sings you your favorite song, he'll change the words to lyrics so they're about that annoying co-worker you've been telling him about.


11. He'll be a homebody when you'd rather be at home with his hot body.
Instead of getting dressed up and spending a lot of money on a big night out, he's ecstatic to stay in and curl up on the couch with you to watch a movie and order takeout. His back-to-back partying nights are behind him and he's perfectly okay with it.

12. He still screams like a 7-year-old boy when his favorite football team scores a touchdown.
He will be loyal to his team no matter how many times they lose, how many quarterbacks they go through in one season, or how far down the rankings they fall. This loyalty will be passed down to his relationships with family, friends, and even his future spouse. Once devoted, he's in it for life.


13. He's still regularly in touch with several of his childhood friends.
Each considers your guy his best friend. He makes the time to call them back to find out what's going on with them and will find a way to connect with them despite living in different cities and time zones.


14. He over-tips the wait staff at restaurants on a regular basis and is exceptionally polite to service industry workers in general.
You know that if he cares enough to treat total strangers with respect that he'd do that times ten for you, and everyone else he loves.


15. He's mature.
He is not one to get swept up in the crowd's momentum without making his own decisions. If several of his friends are doing whiskey shots until 4 AM, he's the one making sure the tab is paid and that everyone gets home safely.

16. He's incredibly handsome without trying.
He's low maintenance and dresses for comfort. The more you've gotten to know him, the better looking he's become. He couldn't care less what brand your jeans are or how high your heels are. He finds you beautiful in everything.


17. He says at least one thing every day that makes you crack up.
It's not always intentional—sometimes, it's just his outlook on things. Though he definitely gets your sense of humor and loves to make you laugh.


18. He knows how to handle you when you're in a bad mood.
Whether it's letting you rant for ten minutes straight while you go on about the incredibly selfish friend you have or to force you to go for a walk. He knows better than to start pressing b*ttons when you're in this state and he'll always take your side, even if you're wrong.


19. He's secure enough to love your strengths.
He supports and encourages your independence, which is what he loves about you. He respects your need to keep up your own friendships but is happy to join you when invited.


20. He smells really good.
When you hug him, you just want to keep on hugging him, just to breathe in his amazing scent that encapsulates the unique impression he makes. You hope that whatever you're wearing will absorb just a little bit of his magic and hold on tight to it, releasing traces of it sporadically throughout your day.


21. He's your biggest fan.
When someone asks him about you, he lights up and
proudly describes someone that you're excited to be. He celebrates your successes because he's someone who knows you inside and out and can appreciate both your struggles and achievements.

My Sweet And Lovely House Boy (Part 2)

This is the continuation of My Sweet And Lovely Houseboy Part 1, If you missed Part One, CLICK HERE TO READ IT.
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I woke up yawning and stretching, my body, I opened my eyes, I did my prayers, took unto my slippers and went to the bathroom, took my toothbrush and Tunde had already made breakfast I went to the dinning and eat in the same table with Tunde, he was sitting directly opposite me , I was still strained by the heart break my boyfriend had caused the previous day I didn't even answer him when he said good morning, I felt fatigue and a huge loss of appetite that made me eat little. But Tunde was eating like a hungry lion..
Tunde: you enjoy the food right?
Me: No!
Tunde: its really nice, I think you're not feeling too well, the chicken is really great.
Me: Na you sabi ***remembering the incident last night that someone had covered me with a blanket***
Me: Who covered me a blanket last night?
Tunde: I did. I saw you felt cold and folded your body so tight, so I thought I might help by covering you the blanket.
Me: hmmm..
***I felt cared for, when he said that, but isn't he crossing his boundary?***
Me: don't try that next time, okay? You know my father will not take it lightly if he were to find out you really did that. Let it not repeat itself, is that clear?
Tunde: Crystal clear sir, I mean madam
Me: ahaha, you're a real funny boy, but you need to understand that I don't like being played with okay?
Tunde: Okay.
***i stood up and took the toothpicks, as I got chicken meat hooked all over my teeth***.
I was a bit bored that day, my father had called earlier and asked how I was faring, after so much phone conversation he decided to hang up. I was bored and went to Tunde's room to call him and ask if he could play chess which I'm sure he can, I walked down the stairs after failed attempts of him being available, I walked through and I entered his room without knocking, surprisingly i saw him Naked!!! I quickly shut the door... And stood outside his door
Me: oh, I'm sorry, I'm really sorry about this okay
Tunde: there's nothing to worry about, its my fault really, I left the door opened
***He quickly wore his boxer and opened the door***
Me: okay, i just came to find out if you can play chess with me?
Tunde: why not... ***he dressed up quickly***
We went to the parlour, played chess and laughed with, I thought to myself, "I think I'm falling in love with this guy", he played better than me, as he played he kept on staring at me till I don't know how I kissed him....
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Wednesday, 14 October 2015

My Sweet And Lovely House Boy (Part 1)

It was a pleasant morning, and its just been a week since my twentieth birthday, I heard a voice from upstairs, Shade! Shade!, ah, it was my dad, (he is going to London for a business trip, and I'm on holidays, my mom travelled to Dubai last week and won't be coming home for a long time, and now my dad is also leaving... ) Yes daddy, I answered.

Dad: Shade, as I told you earlier, I'll be travelling to London to spend some days there, I know you'll be left alone and you'll miss me and your mom, its for the best, we need to upgrade our company and increase the demanding rate by our customers.

Me: (I don't even understand what he's saying) okay dad ***with a smile on my face***

Dad: okay, before I forget, Tunde our new house boy will be looking after the house, Tunde! Tunde! He shouted.

------Tunde walked in--------

Tunde: Yes sir, I'm here sir **looking excited**

Dad: You will follow all what she will tell you, you'll also not fail or disobey her orders unless you want to sleep in sale

Tunde: ah yes sir, I'll not fail you sir

Dad: okay Shade, I'll be on my way

Me: okay bye dad.. I love you dad, safe journey **i said smiling as his driver came and drove himoff***

My father had reached the airport when he called me saying he is about to leave, I then prayed on the phone for him and he hanged up telling me to take good care of my Self.

Immediately I called my boyfriend, I asked him to come over to my place that my father had now travelled, I waited for hours and was just staring at my wrist watch when tunde showed up putting on a short boxer and a singlet.

*****Tunde was a student at the university of Lagos, doing computer science, he's fairly tall, slim and muscular with a dark complexion, he speaks good English and from my dad's theory, he needed to raise enough money to pay his school fees and buy a new laptop of about 200,000naira for his project in school. Being a house boy or girl for our family can fetch a huge fortune, and tunde was lucky because my dad knew his parents so well*****

Tunde: Shade, what will you like to eat for the afternoon?

Me: ***Staring at his muscular and s*xy body*** Nothing! Don't disturb me okay?

Tunde: I'm sorry, I can see you're sad by the departure of dad, accept my apology miss shade

Me: Apology accepted, leave now jare....
****even if i schooled abroad, I still knew a little yoruba, and i noticed he smiled when i included “Jare” to my sentence***

I was still very worried as its almost getting late and i haven't seen any sign of my boyfriend, as he told me he'll come visiting and come spend some intimate time with me ***sounds funny but I'm still a virgin at 20*** I waited a couple of hours and bang! My phone ranged...

Boyfriend: hello sweetheart

Me: why honey, I've waited decades for you to come over, what's keeping you boo?

Boyfriend: honey, I got caught up with some important stuffs, and you know my dad came and he needs me to help him arrange some important documents.

Me: aww why now! Your dad is really getting between us.

Boyfriend: Honey g2g now my dad is here already
***Cuts the call***

Ah, I felt really bad and worried, its been a long time since I really talked with him, he was literally mad at me after I refused to have s*x with him, but it seemed he has gotten past all that. I decided to go see him myself, I carried the car key, entered the car and Drove off to his house, I horned, and the gateman yelled, "oga no wan see anybody today o..." I guessed he did not see my car, he just shouted out of ignorant... I yelled back "Musa! Musa! Open the gate"

Musa: oh, madam shade, I no know sey na you

Me: you'd better not known, as I drove and parked my motor vehicle I spotted his car, I asked the gate man;

Me: musa, is my boyfriend around?

Musa: miss shade, me I see am for oga e waka with one fine girl enter inside room. Pha, since morning.

Me: have you seen his dad?

Musa: oga father nodae in town o... Me I no see am for oga father

Me: okay musa thank you very much. ***i removed 1,000Naira note from my purse and handed it to him. ***He smiled and said "Nagode"(Nagode is a hausa word for Thank you"*****

I walked into the house with full confidence knowing my boyfriend can never cheat on me, he always says he loved me and will never cheat on me. ***I opened the door***

Me: Jesus! Wha What Are you do dooing? I....i...TrUsted you...***burst into tears***

Boyfriend: its not what you think, please wait ***he held my hand***

Me: don't touch me! Don't even dare! I hate you disgusting bastard!

Random girl: leave her, let's enjoy what we were doing...

Boyfriend: shut up you harlot!

Me: sobs, **cleaned my tears and carried my bag and drove off**
I reached home, feeling heart broken and depressed... Then Tunde walks in...

Tunde: hey shade, where have you been, you just drove off and seemed you'll never return

Me: I'm not in the mood to make jokes okay? Just get lost

Tunde: okay, I'm sorry if I'm bugging you

Me: mtcheew...

I was really tired, to add again the heartbreak, I couldn't even eat anything the whole day till it was late and i didn't even know when I fell asleep but I was a bit conscious and I remember quite vividly that i didn't sleep with a blanket on, but someone covered me my blanket who could it be if not Tunde?

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