Signs To Know That Your Relationship Is Over Or Should Be Over

Have you ever heard of this phrase " I miss your smile, but I miss mine more " ?
In this life, there are moments when you have to make the hardest break up decision. This is a moment when you finally give up and admit that your relationship isn't working, it is when you realise that those fantasies you have been wishing for are never going to be fulfilled.
This decision to break up comes not because you have failed, but because it didn't work and its finally time to end it.

So when is a break up something you must do? When do you decide that you love that person but you love yourself more?
Any person that has ever had a breakup will always tell you that "He/she knew long before it ended, that its going to be over. So at this point where you already know that your relationship can't work out any longer, then that is the place where you have to do it. And one of the markers of this point in time when a breakup is necessary is when you have the sensation of " I miss your smile, but I miss mine more ".

Well before you go on a breakup and end that relationship, choose to honour yourself and your intuition. A lot of excuses and settling for less has already been done more than you deserve and you should delay any longer. But if you find it hard looking for reason to breakup or knowing it when that person is no more in love with you, then here are.. signs to know that your relationship is over or should be.

1) You start making excuses for him/her.

2) You feel like what you are getting from him/her is less than what you deserve.

3) You stop wanting to be your best self.

4) You stop putting energy in your appearance ( i.e makeup, shaving e.t.c), and it is not because you feel comfortable, but just because you don't care and feel anymore.

5) You stop wanting to touch him/her.

6. You start giving excuses to why you can't have sex or kiss at that moment he/she wanted.

7. Everything and everyone else starts to be more important to you than spending time with him/her.

Toxic relationships can be completely debilitating. They can bring down your career, force a wedge between your friendships and even destroy you completely, what you deserve, who you are and your ability to take care of yourself will no more be relevant to you.
You may be thinking and convincing yourself that the relationship is not that bad, so why would you want to break up? Well let me ask you: Why do you feel so awful, alone, insecure, scared, worthless, stupid or small?
You have to know that a healthy relationship will never make you feel that way. When you get into an unhealthy relationship, you feel that it isn't serving you, its just hurting you, your ego is non existent, and you just feel you are a different version of yourself when you are with him/her. You feel like you have two personalities. (1) The strong and fun person who your friends and family see, and (2) The half person who your friends and others cuts you down to be .

In all these challenges, you have to be the one to make a decision as a choice to step out and move on.
Though its not an easy one, but if you really want to find true and real love, you have no other choice than to move on.

Now after you have made your choice, you have to take the steps to follow through without severe pain and sorrows of the past. That step is the means of removing yourself from the triggers that always tempt you to go back. After that, you have to Reset, Rebound and find Love in yourself first, then you will also find someone who is more better and more interesting to you.

A break up, a divorce, loosing a job or even feeling seriously down can actually ground you and rough you up a bit, but all these happenings drops you a lesson which will make you stronger and wiser in the next adventure.
Life is about experiencing the both side of it which are the Good and the Bad sides.