How to know if you are dating a boy instead of a man

So for the ladies, am just dropping these hints for you in order to know and see if your guy is a boy or a real man.
Using a boy here does not mean a teenage, so am referring to someone who does not treat you right, respect you and take your feelings very serious and considerate. When your guy is a boy, you see him always acting like the world is revolving around him alone and feels he is in a world of his own.

On the contrary, a real man knows what is best for his lover, the love, care and respect is present and her emotions and feelings are properly contained.
So to enjoy your relationship at its best this year, here are the list of the easiest signs on..

How to know if you are dating a boy instead of a man

1) He Likes Testing You Constantly.
Because he is not even sure that you love him, so he does that to see and know from your reactions if you really love him. This can be dangerous sometimes because you can be emotionally high, so desist from such a guy who always like testing you.

2) He Is Not Reliable.
When your man is not always there when you need him, then the care is not there and you cannot be looking fine as the relationship goes. This kind of attitude clearly shows that you are rolling with a boy and not a man.

3) He is Selfish.
If he does things at his own interest and never cares about you in any way, then it's good you set your aims at the right direction because you aimed at the wrong guy you needed.

4) He Plays With Your Emotions
When he don't actually care how you feel when something is wrong, or when he does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, then he might end up dumping you someday because how you feel is not of interest to him.

5) He Has No Plans For His Future
When you try asking him his plans in the future, he just gives you an I don't know answer and tells you he has no future plans. Also you can clearly see that he is just living his life like someone filling an empty space in his life, so you should be careful not to fall deeply in love with such a man, lol, did I just say a man? No, he is just a boy.

6) He Still Lives With His Parents.
Well sometimes, guys who still live with their parents all the time do not know much about life and how it treats people because they are still under parental care and so, you will hardly find the qualities of a good man in such guys.

7) He Can't Hold Down a Job
He only likes moving around with friends, partying or sporting, he doesn't care about his financial and your financial needs and he even opt to drop a particular job he does when he feel like it is not comfortable to him.

8) He Gets High Too Often
When you make a little mistake that will not take even 30 seconds to resolve, he instead get high and shouts at you and maybe, he later calms down and you will still be the one to apologise, my dear you might look like a jerk to him who always make simple mistakes as he calls them.

9) Making You Jealous Intentionally
Maybe he likes moving around with female friends, if he usually does things that makes you jealous like holding another girls hand, hugging another girl, hanging out with other girls more than he does with you, and also saying things about other girls. Then chances are that he does not really take you as a potential partner. He is not a man, but a boy.

10) He believes Sex Is Medicine
He just believes that without him having sex with you, then, there is no need for your relationship and whenever he have problems, he just demands sex from you, as a solution to his problems. Now that is really bad.
{Also Read: How To Avoid Men Who Only Want Sex From You .}

So if your boyfriend possess any or even many of the traits listed and explained above, congratulations!! You are dating a boy.

But this is not good though, so I will advice you to watch him as he grows up, or better still you can quit the relationship and find yourself a real man.