Signs that Tells he Likes You Just for Your Looks

As women, we understand that you girls like it a lot when men admire your beauty and looks which as a result, makes you feel more comfortable with who you are and draw tons of suitors to yourself everyday.

But then, we also know that you always hear a lot from we guys 24/7, and it seems you enjoy listening to us but keep pushing us away because you find it hard knowing the real man among us and at the end, you also end up picking up the wrong man.

Its true to say that the real man for you is different and you will see it in him, but how do you even know if you have meet him?
You are beautiful, adorable and just loveable by many men, and you always meet one or more men everyday as you go out of your comfort zones for your daily life.

Many men will come to you because of your beauty but you know they will not show you that reason, they will use other things and means to deceive you and get your attraction.
I myself have tried it with many girls and it worked, and not that i really loved them for any other reason, its just because of the looks and that is all.

Let me just show you some of those things guys will tell you and when they talk or say things in such form, that means they are just there because of your beauty and looks and the benefits they know they are going to get from you. Also the below list will show you some actions and ways they will act that indicates they are just into you because of the beauty or looks.

1. He moves so fast.
Did you observe that from many of those guys that come up to meet you everyday? They just come and start showing whole interest in you, showering you with gifts and compliments and asking you out just within 1 week of meeting with you.

That will show you that he is just there because of your beauty and not any special thing about you. And as he is just desperate to get you start a relationship with him and that is why he is just so fast and needy.

So once you find out that a guy will not stop coming to see you always, keep talking sweet things to you and buying you gifts whenever he arrives, its just because of your beauty.

2. He fakes everything about himself.
When a man truly love and like you straight from his heart, he will not fake anything about himself or try to be something else because of you, he is honest with himself and his actions.

See this conversation below as an example.

Mary: ''I love to watch romantic movies while alone at home''

Stephen: ''Wow! That's awesome, me too i love watching those kinds of romantic movies if am at home''.

But truly, Stephen is a guy hate romantic movies and only love watching Game of Thrones and other war and heroic movies.
Because he meet Mary who loves watching romantic movies, he fakes it that he too does.

That's just to tell you the extent to which guys fake it all just to impress a beautiful woman.
Men will use different strategies just to make you think they qualify to be in your life but truly, then don't care if they qualify, they just want to get you and that's what they want.
(Also Read: The 6 most most annoying habits men hate in their girlfriends )

3. They have nothing serious to talk to you about.
When someone likes you regardless of your looks, you should be able to hear him talk to you about what is of interest to you and what he thinks you will love to talk to him about, and when that does not happen with any man who comes to you, then he is just there because he thinks you are beautiful and worth trying out.

But what do you get from those guys coming to you? Only compliments, talking about your beauty, talking about what his friends are saying about you, talking about marrying you, talking about wanting to see your house, or asking to see your pictures?

All those things will tell you that he is just like one of those guys who come to you because of your beauty and when you give them space to get to know you, they keep talking about that same thing and nothing different at all.

4. He asks you 100 questions that makes you feel interviewed.
We know that you hate it when we cant make you feel like you are already into us but only keep making you feel like we need to know everything before passing in.

He just keep asking you:
Where do you live?
Where did you school?
Who is that guy on your facebook account?
Do you have boyfriends in the past?
How is your work?
Do you like watching movies?

It can even be annoying, thus, its another sign that will tell you that those guys are just there because of the beauty and looks. When he is truly interested in you, he should be able to talk about other important things rather than asking you one question after the other and make you feel like you are about to get a job.

5. He agrees with whatever you say or do.
When a man truly like you without considering your looks and beauty, then he should be able to correct you, question some of your actions and stick to his own opinion when he knows your own opinions are wrong.

But when it is the opposite, you find out that he is afraid to make you loose interest in him and he is afraid that if you do so, you will hate him for that and so, he agrees with you in everything and supports you whether good or bad.
I have seen a lot of guys doing that and at the end, they still end up not getting the girl, so whenever you find out that the guy do not correct you despite you are wrong, then he is just into you because of your beauty and looks.

All these are some of those signs you will see in many men today who are claiming to love and like you irrespective of your looks. And once you fail to take note of these signs and observe how they come in from different prospects.
(Also Read: How to know When You are Prepared to Start a Relationship )

Some men will start it the other way and you might notice, but when things starts going far and you observe that he have initiated 2 or 3 of these signs listed above, then chances are that he is just like those other guys out there.

Note that some men can do all of those things listed above, but they will not come off too desperate or wanting to get you using that method, they might slow it down and keep doing all those things in a slow motion, so if you are not careful, you might fall for the wrong man.

Read More

6 Annoying habits men hate in their girlfriend

Have your boyfriend ever showed displeasure and turned away in reaction to some things you do? If yes, then you are probably among the list of annoying girlfriends with habits that men always hate.

Its not like as if your man does not love you when he acts or does something strange some moments in your relationship, but the reason is that there are some girlfriend habits in you that your man probably don't like, and it annoys him when he sees you acting in such annoying forms.

A friend of mine in college once told me that he had a girlfriend, and he loves her so much, and she loves him too but then, there are many things she does that he is not comfortable with and whenever she does them, it annoys him.

More so, i have learnt about many other girlfriend habits that men do hate in their girlfriends and am going to show you some of the common and recent ones hitting most relationships today.
So as a woman, if you find out that some of your habits made a list among those common habits, then just know that your man has not always been happy with that.
(Also Read: How to deal with a girlfriend with bad attitude and character )

(1) The first among the list is Wearing too much makeup on your body parts.
This habit is one of those that annoys me the most.
Its crystal clear that we always like to see our woman attractive and we want everyone to find her attractive but then, who is she attracting by the way?

Your natural beauty and looks are far more better for us than those makeups you are putting on, painting your finger nails with different colors like rainbow, do you expect us to like that? And then, you paint your lips with colors that turns them blue, red or pinky, how on earth do you want us to kiss your natural adorable lips?

I mean just think of it, its not worth it at all, and it makes us more angry when you do all those makeups and everything only to find out that you are going out in that form to a party, or to hang out with your friends, or to a special occasion.
Look, the truth be told, we adore and respect your real and natural beauty more than those makeup looks that turns you almost like a cartoon and besides, no man wants to hear another man tell him that his girlfriend wears too much makeup and doesn't look original and natural.

(2) A bad breathing habit.
I will be the angriest man ever if my girlfriend cant brush up her teeth and take good foods.
I mean is that fair enough for your man to be sitting beside you and while in a conversation, he can only notice you breathing badly with some unpleasant smell savouring from your mouth and then, he can even notice that your teeth are yellowish?

For goodness sake, it pisses us off and we don't just like it, we will be afraid to take you out because people will notice and we will be the ones to bear the shame.
We don't like it when our girlfriends have poor hygiene especially on the oral aspect, it irritates us that we even hate to kiss when you are having that habit in you.

(3) Lack of any sense of humour.
I also hate this aspect about any girlfriend and i have meet some with this habit and seriously, it gets me off the edge.
Though you can be intelligent and knowledgeable but then, humour and the sense of humour is another thing that if you don't have, it turns everything about you boring.

There was a girlfriend i once had and it happened that i was telling her a very funny joke but to my surprise, she responded in a negative way that signifies she did not understand anything about the joke.
I was very displeased and not happy at all that my girlfriend could not understand jokes, even the most straight forward jokes.

I have seen girlfriends who do not laugh or joke to their boyfriends, that is to say, they are straight forward and it irritates and bore us away.
Try to be lively, joke and laugh, just loosen your mind a bit and try to put on some humorous habits, that's when we start knowing what we are doing.
(Also Read: See reasons why men get so angry with their woman in their relationship )

(4) Being comfortable with other men than with him.
Hey we actually get angry and do question this action most times.
You know that you are my girlfriend, and that you totally own everything about me and you are free and allowed to express your mind and feelings to me than any one, then why on earth will you be hanging out with other men, flirting with them in a happy way and even allowing them to feel feely touchy with you to the extent that they might think you are single?

We sometimes fail to understand why and despite the fact we are secured about your feelings for us, you still don't feel always comfortable with us just like the way you do with those other men. We don't just enjoy and like that feeling we get when we see that happening.

(5) Taking too long before you turn up.
Every girlfriend is a victim to this act, even my girlfriend and i hate it so much.
Why will you tell me that you will be done within just 10 minutes but you end up returning to meet me or call my mobile after almost 1 hour? Is that fair enough?

When your man have a tight schedule and you both have to be on together, and you keep delaying the timing and keep him waiting, he will no tolerate that and some day, he will start nagging about that.

(6) Lies and gossip about others and everything.
I hate it when my girlfriend lie to me about something i know is true.
Why will you not just stop lying and start becoming honest in your relationship? It will only help to build up the trust that rests on the relationship.

When you lie about those calls you are receiving 24/7, and you lie about some facts in your past relationship life, lie about the number of men you have dated, lie about the places you went to, etc.

Another aspect women enjoy and does most is this gossip part. Gossiping about people and their life, and talking about all sort of things at their back, it is a very bad habit and i will leave if i found out that my girlfriend is someone not different.

We don't really care about all those information, but we will appreciate your truth and honesty in the relationship, that is the only way we can say if the relationship is going to last or not.
(Also Read: Reasons why showing a woman too much interest backfires )

So those are just some of those habits in you that we hate, if you can hastily walk away from them, then your man will be proud of you, but if you cant just stop and you continue in them, then make sure you start to number your days as your relationship might be cut short.

Read More

Signs that shows your boyfriend is not dedicated to your love and relationship

There are many instances where you find out that a boyfriend is not committed to the relationship he is into, and that makes the relationship always going to different trouble and difficulty that can even lead to a breakup.

As a woman, you will always need your boyfriend to be actively involved in ensuring that your relationship life is circulated with other curricular instances that shows that both of you are ready to keep things moving.
But when your boyfriend shows no interest in what you are doing at all time and always appear like he is been to dignifying about himself, then chances are clear that he is not so interested in the relationship.

So when you find out that you can not understand the direction your boyfriend takes in the relationship, use these 5 tips to know when your boyfriend is not serious with the relationship.

He does not show any moral backup.
In every true and dedicated relationship, you will observe that both lovers are so serious about each other's life and the careers they will want to pursue.

They are always on point to help each other with encouraging and supportive opinions about the daily dreams they are pursuing.
The boy will assist the girl in doing her house cores, or help her with her school work or other thins that are related to her. Other things that shows moral support will be there and will be seen in display.

He hardly finds time to spend with you.
When you discover that your boyfriend likes been with friends at all time than he likes to be with you, then he is not so dedicated to the relationship.

When he likes going out to see his friend, when he pays more attention to playing games at play stations, when he likes visiting the gym, when he likes to always study like he will not stop, when he always like staying at home.
When he does all those things without remembering you and giving you your own time or also giving you a special moment with him, then he is not dedicated and serious about the relationship.

If he is so serious about having you in his life, then he would always want you to be involved in everything he does, and he would create time for you too despite been occupied with other activities.

Always giving excuses.
When your boyfriend always like giving you excuses about failed plans and never tries to see that he amends such habits of failing to deliver in any plans made, then possibilities are that he is no so serious about the relationship.

You see him making excuses for not picking up your calls, not coming to see you, forgetting to bring the items you requested for, etc. It just clearly shows that he is not dedicated to that relationship and not ready to make you happy at all time.

He is always self centered.
He does things on his own interest and never cares about are of interests to you. When he takes actions that also affects you without letting you know, when he likes you to do whatever pleases him and does not care about how you feel, then that shows he is not dedicated and serious about you and the relationship.

A boyfriend who is not self centered will always let his girlfriend know what he is up to and things he wishes to do, asking for her own opinions and doing things in such a way that favours the both of you in the relationship.

He does not observe and make amendments when things go wrong.
Maybe when you are already tired of his attitudes in the relationship and therefore, you decide to take a break and find yourself air somewhere else, it is expected that he should show concern about the sudden change and also try to know why things are taking a new turn.

But when he is not dedicated to the relationship, you will surely see that he fail to observe when you are tired and now giving yourself your own solutions, and you will find out that he continues to do things his own way without minding what is happening.

There are many other signs that shows your boyfriend is not so dedicated to you, but how do you tackle this problem?

The only solution you have got is to talk to him about his behaviours and ask him to take a second thought for change, or continue if he want to lose you to another man.
If he is listening to you, he will change for good, but if he is not just ready to play along, then you must breakup with him and find yourself a better boyfriend because he is not serious with the relationship that exists between the both of you.

Read More

What to do when your man likes being with other women every time

This is a common situation faced by many women who go into relationships today without considering every necessary factor that would tell if their man is a potential lover to them or just a player.

Many times, i meet with lots of women who always cry out loud for the fact that their man have been cheating on them.
And each time i hear them complain, i fall short of words to encourage and advice them on the next step they should take when their man don't want to play along with them.

But today in this article, you will learn about all the Relationship tips for women and the necessary things you must do when you actually know that your man does not like to be with a single woman.
So now, here are some insights to help you pass this level in your relationship and also, know about the best ways to handle such boyfriend's attitude.

Sometimes, you might just be dating without knowing the reason why you are dating, and because of that, you fail to understand every incident that makes it necessary for you to call on your lover and let him know how you feel about certain things he do with other women out there.

Define what you want from a man in your relationship.
Before you dash into a relationship, this is one of the things that you must make a priority to check on before you start going deep in the relationship.
What kind of a man would you want to be involved with? And what are the characters he must possess before he becomes qualified to be my lover.
If you don't check on the personality of that person, you might end up involving in a relationship with a man who is said to be a womanizer.

You might just see a man, looking so fresh and kush, with the brightest smile ever, and then you think to your self and you be like "wow!! This is just the kind of a man i want to be with".
Now at this point, the looks of that man have made you to be deceived into thinking you have gotten the perfect man.

When looking for a man who would not cheat or enjoy the company of other girls than with you, then the looks should not be a factor for involving in a relationship with such kind of a man. The thing you should watch out for is the character and the behaviour of that individual whom you want to involve with.

But the problem here is that, you have failed to define what you want from that man, and now he is cheating or just enjoys being together with other women.
So the only solution tip you have here is to call him to your attention and let him know how you feel about his actions and how they get you sad all the time, then you must not forget to advice him about the things he should do if he is willing to continue with you and get the relationship going.

Are you willing and ready to continue with a man who likes other girls too?
Now this can mean two things at the same point. It can mean that your man does not like dating only one girl, or that your man loves only you, but likes associating with other women too.

This situation can be a very had one for we the ladies because of many things we feel inside us. When our man is busy out there with other ladies, while we stay at home craving for their attention to us, it gives us lot of unrest because of the feeling of insecurity inside us.
So as women, this does not comfort us and we always feel lots of pain when this situation is prevalent in our relationship.

But if reversed is the case, and it happened that your man does not have only one girl, then the choice of the relationship is in your hands.
Will you now agree to continue in the relationship when you already know that you are not the only one he loves? Or you are going to just end it right there?

Play along if you want to return the favour.
Okay now, its crystal clear that your man is double dating, so should you just watch him while he cheats or you should return the favour?

Sometimes this is a nice option and a solution towards dealing with the grief and sadness that you feel inside you whenever he refuses to pay attention to you or have time for you either.
If you think its not yet time to let go of the relationship, then just bump up and start something too, start hanging out with many of your male friends and then, pick just one out of them as an alternative  and start rolling with him.

Once you have successfully kicked off the game of favours, every pain, grief and sorrow you always felt with gradually go and you will find reasons to also be happy.

Let your man him be.
Now after you have completed the step above, you should not be like one seeking for attention from someone who is not clearly interested in you.

So to achieve this aim, stop calling or texting him frequently, don't even do it at all, just give it a break and allow your new alternative man to enjoy the time been.
Once you do that, you can be able to determine if he still wants to be with you or if he was just done with your companionship.
If after you stop texting or calling him, he did not care to call and check on why you have been out of reach for d long time, then it means that he is done with you and has already moved on. But if he shows care and love after you took a break from reaching out to him, then chances are that he still cares and want to be with you.

But don't just relax at this point because this is the point where you have every opportunity to know what he actually feel for you and what he wants from you.
So you should now throw questions at him about the happenings between the both of you and then, read out your terms for the relationship and know if he is ready to comply with you and drop his old ways.

Relationships based on benefits from sexual intimacy.
This is also another pin point which many women fail to learn and understand in their relationship cycles.
There are many men who would just want to come into your life for the purpose of $ex and after that, it ends there.

Once those men succeed in having $ex with you, you see them starting to show certain strange behaviours which explains one fact that you are no more relevant in their lives.

When you already know that a man have already taken advantage of your body and after that, he starts showing certain strange behaviours, then the best option you have is to find a different man who will love you unconditionally.

These are just a few relationship tips for women tips which we know will be of help to you while facing such type of a relationship setback. We will be back to update you with more. Stay with us.

Read More

How to know if you are dating a boy instead of a man

So for the ladies, am just dropping these hints for you in order to know and see if your guy is a boy or a real man.
Using a boy here does not mean a teenage, so am referring to someone who does not treat you right, respect you and take your feelings very serious and considerate. When your guy is a boy, you see him always acting like the world is revolving around him alone and feels he is in a world of his own.

On the contrary, a real man knows what is best for his lover, the love, care and respect is present and her emotions and feelings are properly contained.
So to enjoy your relationship at its best this year, here are the list of the easiest signs on..

How to know if you are dating a boy instead of a man

1) He Likes Testing You Constantly.
Because he is not even sure that you love him, so he does that to see and know from your reactions if you really love him. This can be dangerous sometimes because you can be emotionally high, so desist from such a guy who always like testing you.

2) He Is Not Reliable.
When your man is not always there when you need him, then the care is not there and you cannot be looking fine as the relationship goes. This kind of attitude clearly shows that you are rolling with a boy and not a man.

3) He is Selfish.
If he does things at his own interest and never cares about you in any way, then it's good you set your aims at the right direction because you aimed at the wrong guy you needed.

4) He Plays With Your Emotions
When he don't actually care how you feel when something is wrong, or when he does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, then he might end up dumping you someday because how you feel is not of interest to him.

5) He Has No Plans For His Future
When you try asking him his plans in the future, he just gives you an I don't know answer and tells you he has no future plans. Also you can clearly see that he is just living his life like someone filling an empty space in his life, so you should be careful not to fall deeply in love with such a man, lol, did I just say a man? No, he is just a boy.

6) He Still Lives With His Parents.
Well sometimes, guys who still live with their parents all the time do not know much about life and how it treats people because they are still under parental care and so, you will hardly find the qualities of a good man in such guys.

7) He Can't Hold Down a Job
He only likes moving around with friends, partying or sporting, he doesn't care about his financial and your financial needs and he even opt to drop a particular job he does when he feel like it is not comfortable to him.

8) He Gets High Too Often
When you make a little mistake that will not take even 30 seconds to resolve, he instead get high and shouts at you and maybe, he later calms down and you will still be the one to apologise, my dear you might look like a jerk to him who always make simple mistakes as he calls them.

9) Making You Jealous Intentionally
Maybe he likes moving around with female friends, if he usually does things that makes you jealous like holding another girls hand, hugging another girl, hanging out with other girls more than he does with you, and also saying things about other girls. Then chances are that he does not really take you as a potential partner. He is not a man, but a boy.

10) He believes Sex Is Medicine
He just believes that without him having sex with you, then, there is no need for your relationship and whenever he have problems, he just demands sex from you, as a solution to his problems. Now that is really bad.
{Also Read: How To Avoid Men Who Only Want Sex From You .}

So if your boyfriend possess any or even many of the traits listed and explained above, congratulations!! You are dating a boy.

But this is not good though, so I will advice you to watch him as he grows up, or better still you can quit the relationship and find yourself a real man.

Read More

For The Ladies: Ways To Avoid Men Who Only Want Sex From You.

In todays world, we women are mostly seen and thought of as merely sex objects because of the way we dress and look sometimes. Some of the women are naturally beautiful and also attract men wherever they go, and many times, the wrong kind of men are being attracted.

Now to my ladies, use these tips to spot the signs of those men who just need you for the purpose of sex and also use these tips to stay away from them. 

  1. Do Not Use Sex To Get A Man's Attention:

As a women , if you always talk about sex in all your conversation or in majority of your conversation, or you always try to behave and act like a woman who needs a man to unzip her bra right away, then all the men will just get the wrong impression about you. It will make those men to define you as a sex object and as someone who is in need of it, this will attract the wrong men to you and land you into a bad relationship. Talking about sex is not the key to having a successful relationship. 

  2. Do Not Wear Too Short Dresses: 

Women are more sexy when they are a little more covered up on a date or a night and so men will always want to take advantage of that. If you always wear low cut tops and short skirts, more is left to mens imagination, but when you cover your shoulders, men will not think about pulling down your materials to kiss them down, if you wear a longer dress, he will not even fantasize about running his hands up your leg, he can only wonder about your sexy underwear if your top is a little higher and so, he barely have those little chances to bump up into action and want you for sex. 

  3. Avoid Sex To Keep His Attention. 

 Talking about sex on dates or on first few meetings will give him a sex imagination, so talk about any other thing and every other thing but not about sex. If he is truely a dating potential, he will surely be interested in you for your good and clean conversation and the things you told him about yourself. It will also make him want to make eye contact with you and if he does not, then maybe he is probably somewhere thinking about someone else. 

  4. Take Things Slow And Mix up Your Dates.

Maybe you just meet that guy in a bar or in the cinema, just exchange numbers and or perhaps, just kiss on the first few dates. Dont just jump into his bed on the first few dates, try "The three dating rule" or even try knowing each other much more better before you jump into the bedroom. Also try not to always opt for the dinner date because it could lead to being a late dinner and result in a sex routine. Try opting for couply things like a walk in the park or just a morning coffee because that will never lead one thing to another. And if you discover that he doesn't want to meetup with you, then it might happen that he does not want to be seen in the public with you. Also try not to go back to his house on the first few dates because it might encourage him to have sex with you and it might result to a walk of shame if he decides not to call for another date. 

  So My Ladies, thats all i have for you today,See you all in my next writeup and don't forget to drop your opinions about this great article. Bye.

Read More