6 Symptoms Of Breast Cancer Women should stop overlooking

6 Symptoms Of Breast Cancer Women Should Stop Overlooking

Thousands of women are diagnosed with breast cancer each year. For women, only lung cancer has a higher death rate than breast cancer. While this type of cancer can be deadly, there are warning signs that can help you catch it early.

It isn’t exactly known why breast cancer develops, but there are some factors that seem to increase your chances of developing breast cancer. Your age (and gender) increase your risk; While men can be diagnosed with chest cancer, it is one hundred times mores common in women. The highest rate of invasive breast cancer are found in women 55 and older.

There also seems to be a higher risk if your close blood relatives had or have breast cancer. Also, the risk of breast cancer increases with higher amounts of alcohol use and obesity after menopause.

Knowing the risks and the symptoms of breast cancer can significantly increase your chances of catching the illness early. Luckily, there are some things you can look for. While finding a lump in your breast is a common symptom, there are others signs to look for.

If you notice any of these symptoms, contact your doctor immediately:

1. Breast Sizes

If the size of one chest enlarges significantly in a short amount of time, this could be a warning sign of breast cancer. Breasts are normally different sizes, but noticing a drastic increase in size or an abnormal change in shape could be something to be concerned about.

2. Swelling

Even if there is no lump present, swelling on your breast (even in a small area) is not a good sign. Swelling can also accompany fever-like symptoms; if this is the case, your breasts will feel warm, may become inflamed, become red or purple and will swell. Immediately inform your doctor if you experience these symptoms.

3. Abnormal Ni.pples

Other than breast milk, any other discharge is not normal. Decreased nipple sensitivity is also something to be aware of. Additionally, if your ni.pple retracts (pulls inward,) or is discolored, be sure to call your doctor.

4. Redness or itchiness

Having a bumpy “orange peel” texture on your breast or nipple area could very well be a symptom of breast cancer. If you experience severe itching on your breast and dermatologist visits (and creams) don’t soothe your symptoms, call your doctor.

5. Noticing a lump

There are benign lumps that form in the breast that may not be cancerous. However, if you notice a mass (that you haven’t noticed before, or that feels harder than the surrounding lumps) schedule a chest examination. Be sure to notice any sort of abnormal mass near your armpit; though it is not in your breast, it could still be breast cancer.

6. Breast Pain

This can be caused by a variety of other things that aren’t cancer. Fluctuating hormones, some fertility treatments, stress and wearing a bra that doesn’t fit right can all cause breast pain. If your pain isn’t caused by this list or accompanies other symptoms, contact your doctor.

Some women feel pain in their back or chest instead of their breast. If this pain does not go away with physical therapy or stretching, inform your doctor.

Not all of these symptoms are symptoms of breast cancer. If you get other treatments (like a cream or antibiotic) for these symptoms, but you do not notice a difference within a few days, be sure to call your doctor and be assertive about tests for breast cancer.

Mammograms have significantly increased the detection rate for breast cancer. Regularly schedule these appointments if you are above the age of 40, or if you have a family history of breast cancer. However, there are things a mammogram cannot detect. Having dense breasts make cancer harder to detect even with a mammogram and helps the cancer cells spread more rapidly. Talk to your doctor for additional tests if you fit this description.

Be diligent with your own breast examinations and be aware of what chest cancer symptoms look and feel like. If you are at all concerned, make an appointment with your doctor.

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How to Deal with a Breakup and Avoid Making Things Worse

Breakups are nothing new in the relationship world, and i believe you know how a breakup can turn someone into a state that explains that a lot of things are happening in the persons mind.

Emotional lost and confusing moments always characterise most of the breakups today, and you find out that the person is so hurt, lost of feelings is on the high and people do questionable things when ever they are experiencing a breakup.

Depending on how the breakup happened, it can cause you to be either emotionally weak and miserable, or it gets you angry and makes you act in stupid ways that will make you feel more hatred for the other.

There are many things that if you allow them to get over you and carry out those things, that they will keep backfiring at you and you will live with regrets in your life for even a more prolonged time that you never thought of.

The reason why a breakup can harm you more than doing good to you is because of the fact  that it takes a long period of time before it heals. It can even last for a long period of time more than some physical injuries people do sustain. But sometimes, we are the main reason why we take too long before healing from a heart break.

When you allow yourself to keep thinking and behaving in a manner that will make you think that you are helping yourself to forget about your ex, then you are not doing yourself any good but you are making your situation get from bad to worst.

When you use a natural means to approach a breakup and get it over you, then you might not be doing yourself any good as you lack in a proper and a better emotional cleanness.

Here are a list of what you should avoid and things you should do after a breakup so that you can give yourself time to heal and recover quickly.

#1. Forget your mistakes.

When you keep thinking about your mistakes from your just ended relationship and you keep disturbing yourself and rethinking about those mistakes, it makes you to keep regretting your mistakes.

And when this happens, then nothing is going to heal, and you will only keep regretting and brooding over all those things that caused your breakup.

2. Don't condemn yourself.

You already know that you have been hurt and your heart is suffering from the fact that it was hurt by another person. When you keep blaming yourself for your mistakes and the things that brought about the breakup, then you will only be adding more sorrows to the one you are having now.

The best treatment you can give to your wounded self is to be compassionate about yourself and just consolidate yourself and allow everything to pass away.

3. Don't try to text or call your ex after the breaking.

Stalking is very bad and it will cause you to keep remembering everything, i mean everything about you and your ex.
When you keep bordering your ex with phone calls and texts, it means that you are not over the relationship.

And when you do that, its possible that your ex don't just want you back anymore in their life, and when you cant stop reaching out to your ex when they are no more into you, that will just hurt you the more and keep causing you to regret your actions since before you broke up.

4. Don't over do anything after the breakup.

This can be in form of drinking too much, partying, hooking up or eating your self out.
You might think that doing all these things will make you feel better and forget about what is happening to you.

It will surely work, but will not last for up to 5 hours, and once you are back to your senses, you discover everything turns worst than it was before and you will keep being in bondage of your ex relationship thoughts.

So you must avoid this habit when you are heart broken after a breakup, you should just calm yourself down and give yourself the best consolation you can.

5. Never jump into a new relationship immediately after a breakup.

Sometimes, in a desperate bid to find solutions to our wounded soul and sorrowful heart, we go into a new relationship immediately after a breakup with our ex.

It will not work out the way you think because it happened that you just went on a rebound because you want to get over the just ended relationship and you were still feeling hurt.

So you will want your new partner to meet up to your immediate needs and you will find out that whenever your new partner makes a mistake, you immediately compare them to your ex and then, everything just seem not to be at its best as you expected.

6. Going on a break for sometime.

This is just a nice and good idea that can help you to recover from a breakup within a short time and move on with your life.

There are things that you enjoy doing when you were still with your ex, and there were places you normally like going to, so the best way to get healed from your past relationship wounds is to take a break from doing those things and going to those places.

Also, you must not rush into any new relationship after a breakup, but the best thing to do is to start enjoying your single life and freedom by meeting with new friends and new people, and talk to every woman or man that comes your way and do it with a clean and happy mood.

By so doing, you can be able to start regaining all your lost emotions and feelings that makes you the confident and happy man you used to be before.

A breakup will be hard on you only if you have never experienced it before or that you were deeply committed to your partner before things went sore.

To bring it all to close, being happy with who you are is the best idea to carry yourself on and after that, you should allow people in and out of your life because not all relationships are meant to last for a long period of time.

So once you start dating a multiple times, you can be able to learn that not everyone that comes into your life is meant to stay in it.

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How to Engage in First Dates that Won't Cost You Lot of Money

When it comes to dating and the course of wowing a girl just to make here like you and find you interesting, there has been a lot to this process and nothing is easy at this point in a man's life.

This topic is meant to draw your attention to the fact that pressure on you in order to wow a girl on the first date will make you think that you have to spend a lot and spill out your money on the first date before you can get everything to be fun and interesting.

The way you think on first dates is what will determine if the date will be great and fun, but it does not just go the spending way. You might spend on the date the entire day and end up getting nothing really interesting out of it and then, that becomes a total waste.

And also, most people who do dating have forgotten the whole concept about dating and they seem not to understand dating.
A friend of mine once told me that he will make sure that he spends much for a girl on a date and then, he expects her to repay him handsomely at the bedroom.

You should not take a date to be a moment of extra spending that ends with a call for the bedroom. There is difference between sex and dates and these two should not just be mixed up and taken as one.

So to avoid all these craps that do happen when a call for a date is made, you must know that you don't have to spend your money too much before you can achieve the best results after the date.

So in other to engage in a first date without spending much money, here are a list of what you should do to get the best result which you have always expected.

(1) Visit the food markets close to your community.

This is just a great second option for you to try and see how effective it works. You don't have to spend much there and you can even pick up one or two things from the market and make sure you let her to pick what is of interest to her from the farmers market.

When you take the girl out with you to the nearest farmers market in your community, its a great way to know more about your likes and dislikes when it comes to what to eat. And you will have more idea as to what food she enjoys the most and you can also tell her the ones you enjoy the most.

When you are doing this, both of you can talk about relevant issues about the market and the nature of the farmers and how they go about carrying out their farming activities.

This will show to the girl that you have many more things that are priority in your life and you don't only want to get her attraction, but also create attraction between the both of you and what you enjoy talking about.

(2) Have Dinners at home or somewhere comfortable.

The reason you should choose to have a dinner is because it is less expensive, less noisy and then, it gives you more and much time to talk to each other and get to know each other while having the dinner.

Another reason why having dinners is because it don't always turn out to be awkward and boring. Since its a dinner and you are at the comfort of your home or the house you went to, you have many things to switch and hold on to and as a result, you will not get any awkward and boring situation in the course of the date.

(3) Go for a run or do a sport activity together.

I choose arcades as the best and favourite activity that can be fun between the both of you and is nothing expensive.

By going for arcades, you are able to explore and see each others playful side and also enjoy the both of you competing with each other.

But you can only enjoy this if the girl is a humorous girl and enjoys to play and have fun, but if she is not, you should not start it because at will turn awkward and boring at the end.

(4) Opt to go for a walk and also for people watch.

This can be a best idea that makes a date fun and less expensive, you don't even need to spend anything at all.
You can ask her if she would like to take a walk with you and if she agrees, then you can choose to walk to anywhere you want.

And while doing that, you talk about everything you can think of and just enjoy the moment you spend and the time you send together with her. You should just get to know each other and that is jus what first dates are all about.

Also ask her if she would enjoy watching people out together with you. So both of you can find somewhere comfortable where you can sit down and view people as they go about their life and also, you can sit just to observe and see how the world moves around and how time passes. These are fun and less expensive budgets to carry out.

(5) Go to watch romantic movies together.

You are looking up to create something more attractive and fun between the both of you, so going to watch a romantic movie can be very fun and can cause a feeling of emotion to occur between the both of you at the end.

It is less expensive and once you are able to do that, you might be surprised to see her use more body languages that explains attraction when ever she is with you.

ADDITIONAL TIPS:

Avoid coffee's and drinks on first dates.

These two things does not end well with if you want to start a relationship with the girl you are dating, so its either that you want to take her to the bed and have a one night of hot sexual escapade, then it might be that you just want to be friends and that's all.

When you opt for a coffee, it does not signify or point out anything special between the both of you and perhaps, friendship is what a coffee always signify. And opting for drinks will not yield any better result save the other part of it, sex.
So to end it all, you must remember that the woman you picked does not really matter, and your spending does not matter to her too.

The ultimate purpose and reason for the date is just to get around each other and know each other well. So spending high means nothing and you might end up impressing the wrong people, so the best advice you can take with you is to go low and spend less on your first dates.

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What to Do When You Find an Attractive Girl at a Bar

The bar is a great place to meet with different kinds of women in your life and when you see an attractive lady who you start liking right inside the bar, you should not be afraid of making a move to get her.

Maybe you just went to the bar to grab a glass and meet with new people, then while in your cool at the bar, you just saw a very sweet and attractive girl and you started melting for her. Okay the point here is that you now want to talk to her, and make her notice you.

But you don't just know how to start initiating the whole process and you are stuck in one position, thinking of what to do to get the girl and start something that is likely going to end well.

You might be afraid and think that you cant have a great relationship with a girl you took up from a bar, and that is what most people say, but its not always true because i have seen many great relationships that started just from the bar or any other place similar.

That is not the problem here, what becomes a problem is you not being able to take the right approach at the right time in the bar, and once you are not able to do that, you find out that you will not record any success in your pursuit.

There are things you should do in other not to be like those other guys out there and also there are techniques you must use in other not to be that boring to her. Lets see some of those tips on what next to do after you see an attractive girl at the bar.

1. Use the old friend approach style.

When you want to approach her at the bar, doing it just the way other guys always do will not just work as you expected, and you can only get that "what is the matter" look from her and you will end up confused and short of things to say.

But why not try it a new way and get a different style for yourself?
This kind of approach goes along with boldness in you and then, go and meet her just like as if you have been friends for a long time, you can pretend to her like you have been friends since childhood and once she shows surprise and a little or much interest in you, just bring up a conversation that is going to last for a long time that you can ask her to follow you out of the bar.

This is not stressful at all, it only requires that positive energy in you and also the boldness as you initiate the process else, she might find your approach unimpressive and deceitful.

2. Look nice and clever.

Whenever you want to go to a party or a bar, there is need for you to always dress in good form and have yourself organised in case of moments like this when you find a girl attractive and so you want to approach her.

No woman will want to flirt and come around you if you appear in rags or appear like you are just taking a cool breeze from the tree under your roof. So appearing nice and looking good offers you more chances to get more women to hear you out and follow you around the bar.

You don't have to go an extra mile in dressing before you can appear and look good at the bar, but by just having a different clean and fresh styles on you and making sure every part of your body is well taken care of, you are already fit for any woman's admiration.

3. Avoid Pick Up Lines and be original.

Did you notice something about women and the way they react to pick up lines these days?
It seems to be likely said that they are already familiar with all of them and so, they don't get interested whenever men use it on them and instead of tipping you about it, they just mark you as one of those guys and you totally loose out.

Some of those pick up lines are just bad as crap and do not work at all because most of them do not work with every kind of woman and the initiators just use them without thinking about what a woman's reaction will be.

Instead of using pick up lines, the best natural way to do it at the bar is just to be yourself and not faking anything. There are many things you can ask a woman that makes her think twice and then come up with something to tell you and from there, you can start up a conversation.

What really matters when trying to get a girl is how real and original you are, so if you use those pick up lines, she will notice that you are only desperate and just a needy guy who wants to get her attention, and so she will cross her mind originally from the scratch.

4. Showing a lot of confidence in yourself.

Confidence has always been the thing, and when you are able to push yourself up and know that you are certainly going to face a lot of challenges when doing all these things, then be sure that you can do it.

You might be thinking that the girl will turn you down and you will feel rejected, but the cases have not always been like that. Once you are able to set your targets and goals, then use the tools you have to aim at them and get it right, then you are done, every other story can well end up in the bed room or a happy new relationship.

5. Pay for her drinks without asking.

This is also a nice way and one of the best ways you can use, not to get her attraction, but her attention to start up a new conversation without putting on much stress.

When you notice her ordering for drinks at the bar, you don't wait for her to ask the waiter how much it costs or wait for her to pay, you can just walk over to the attendant and ask him for her bill, then get it done for her and don't wait for her to come to you for appreciation, just take your leave immediately and go away from her presence.

When you do so, you will find out that she will be ready and even want to have a word of appreciation with you at that moment. The reason why you should leave is because everything might end at just the appreciation and nothing special happens again and as a result, she might take you as a nice guy.

So to avoid that, you have to leave her presence for the rest of the moment at the bar before she can see you again and when you both meet, the chemistry and physics will be high, so its left for you to utilize it to the best of your advantage.

There are many other tips on this subject and with time, we will update you with more of them but for the mean time, you must remember that not every girl at the bar is interested in making new boyfriends or getting to bed for a one night stand.

So you should create time to learn and know what that girl need and what she is looking for so that you can do the right thing and choose what will work for you out there.

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Signs that Tells he Likes You Just for Your Looks

As women, we understand that you girls like it a lot when men admire your beauty and looks which as a result, makes you feel more comfortable with who you are and draw tons of suitors to yourself everyday.

But then, we also know that you always hear a lot from we guys 24/7, and it seems you enjoy listening to us but keep pushing us away because you find it hard knowing the real man among us and at the end, you also end up picking up the wrong man.

Its true to say that the real man for you is different and you will see it in him, but how do you even know if you have meet him?
You are beautiful, adorable and just loveable by many men, and you always meet one or more men everyday as you go out of your comfort zones for your daily life.

Many men will come to you because of your beauty but you know they will not show you that reason, they will use other things and means to deceive you and get your attraction.
I myself have tried it with many girls and it worked, and not that i really loved them for any other reason, its just because of the looks and that is all.

Let me just show you some of those things guys will tell you and when they talk or say things in such form, that means they are just there because of your beauty and looks and the benefits they know they are going to get from you. Also the below list will show you some actions and ways they will act that indicates they are just into you because of the beauty or looks.

1. He moves so fast.
Did you observe that from many of those guys that come up to meet you everyday? They just come and start showing whole interest in you, showering you with gifts and compliments and asking you out just within 1 week of meeting with you.

That will show you that he is just there because of your beauty and not any special thing about you. And as he is just desperate to get you start a relationship with him and that is why he is just so fast and needy.

So once you find out that a guy will not stop coming to see you always, keep talking sweet things to you and buying you gifts whenever he arrives, its just because of your beauty.

2. He fakes everything about himself.
When a man truly love and like you straight from his heart, he will not fake anything about himself or try to be something else because of you, he is honest with himself and his actions.

See this conversation below as an example.

Mary: ''I love to watch romantic movies while alone at home''

Stephen: ''Wow! That's awesome, me too i love watching those kinds of romantic movies if am at home''.

But truly, Stephen is a guy hate romantic movies and only love watching Game of Thrones and other war and heroic movies.
Because he meet Mary who loves watching romantic movies, he fakes it that he too does.

That's just to tell you the extent to which guys fake it all just to impress a beautiful woman.
Men will use different strategies just to make you think they qualify to be in your life but truly, then don't care if they qualify, they just want to get you and that's what they want.
(Also Read: The 6 most most annoying habits men hate in their girlfriends )

3. They have nothing serious to talk to you about.
When someone likes you regardless of your looks, you should be able to hear him talk to you about what is of interest to you and what he thinks you will love to talk to him about, and when that does not happen with any man who comes to you, then he is just there because he thinks you are beautiful and worth trying out.

But what do you get from those guys coming to you? Only compliments, talking about your beauty, talking about what his friends are saying about you, talking about marrying you, talking about wanting to see your house, or asking to see your pictures?

All those things will tell you that he is just like one of those guys who come to you because of your beauty and when you give them space to get to know you, they keep talking about that same thing and nothing different at all.

4. He asks you 100 questions that makes you feel interviewed.
We know that you hate it when we cant make you feel like you are already into us but only keep making you feel like we need to know everything before passing in.

He just keep asking you:
Where do you live?
Where did you school?
Who is that guy on your facebook account?
Do you have boyfriends in the past?
How is your work?
Do you like watching movies?

It can even be annoying, thus, its another sign that will tell you that those guys are just there because of the beauty and looks. When he is truly interested in you, he should be able to talk about other important things rather than asking you one question after the other and make you feel like you are about to get a job.

5. He agrees with whatever you say or do.
When a man truly like you without considering your looks and beauty, then he should be able to correct you, question some of your actions and stick to his own opinion when he knows your own opinions are wrong.

But when it is the opposite, you find out that he is afraid to make you loose interest in him and he is afraid that if you do so, you will hate him for that and so, he agrees with you in everything and supports you whether good or bad.
I have seen a lot of guys doing that and at the end, they still end up not getting the girl, so whenever you find out that the guy do not correct you despite you are wrong, then he is just into you because of your beauty and looks.

All these are some of those signs you will see in many men today who are claiming to love and like you irrespective of your looks. And once you fail to take note of these signs and observe how they come in from different prospects.
(Also Read: How to know When You are Prepared to Start a Relationship )

Some men will start it the other way and you might notice, but when things starts going far and you observe that he have initiated 2 or 3 of these signs listed above, then chances are that he is just like those other guys out there.

Note that some men can do all of those things listed above, but they will not come off too desperate or wanting to get you using that method, they might slow it down and keep doing all those things in a slow motion, so if you are not careful, you might fall for the wrong man.

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How to be Handy When Physically Touching a Woman

The way men get desperate in wanting to get a woman attracted and interested in them will explain the whole concept about this topic.

In a bid to get a woman interested in us, we normally always want to make physical contact by touching so that we can send and tip some signals that can trigger a woman's attraction.

But in this process, a lot of men get too touchy and are not careful about the way they initiate the whole process and as a result, some men come off too touchy and ruin their whole chances as they signal the wrong expressions for their right intentions.
For example, you may only want to make that woman interested and attracted to you so she can see you as a dating potential, but the way you do make physical contact with her body can give her a wrong signal which might indicate that you want to have a sexual experience with her.

So whether you are dealing with your girlfriend or a date partner, you need to know how to play this touching game well and learn about those aspects where you need to be more careful.

When a woman starts rejecting your touch and does not want to make body contact with you anymore, then that is when you will know that you have been doing it the wrong way and she have found it uncomfortable to her.
When you don't initiate a touch the right way, you will find out that your girlfriend will always find a way to get your hands off her or reject the act instantly.

But the problem is not that the woman in question does not want to be touched, the problem is that you are not doing it the right way and you all get it wrong.
When you are not in a bid for a sexual touch that can trigger her desire for sexual activities, then are are certain heights where you should not cross so as to avoid sending her the wrong signals about your intention.

Being natural and verbally fit is the key.
Sometimes, we guys don't really know how to be confident and let the women see it in us and that is why when we touch a woman, she don't just get to know why or she keep wondering why you are too touchy.

Confidence is the key to becoming successful in touching a lot of women and getting away with your desire right in their heart.
When touching a woman with such confidence, it will make everything feel okay and normal and thus, engaging her in a conversation that you sound very confident in talking about will open your doors to touching her without her noticing you did or ask why you did touch her.

Now think of it this way, a woman will never find it comfortable and interesting when you touch her more than you talk and interact with her, and she will keep noticing it when you touch her and how do it.
But when you just keep busy interacting with her and chatting her up, her attention turns to the conversation you are having and so, when you touch her, she hardly notices that you are touchy and even when you do, she will not care about it because you were able to be natural and verbally fit, doing it like its just a part of you and your normal daily living.

The levels of touching a woman.
When you are touching a woman, there are some levels and heights that are allocated to you depending on the way you are being seen by the woman. When you are able to master all these levels of touch, you can be able to know your boundaries when touching so you don't cross the lines.
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When touching a woman who is not your girlfriend.
you have to understand that you are allowed limited options to touching and there are certain areas you should not cross when you are touching. Okay when you have feelings for her, you can touch her in a deeper way but not crossing your boundaries or overdoing it.

For example, you can initiate a touch when introducing yourself by using a handshake, you can also touch her shoulders or her arms or her lower laps when trying to explain something to her, you can touch her by helping her pull out something from her hair or face, etc.

You can see those ways to touch a woman without getting caught or dirty minded, these are known to be low levels of touches which are only suitable for women who you have not gone far or any miles with, maybe a woman you just meet or a woman you are about to start dating with.

When touching a woman you are dating with.
Its another level where you have to advance your touching performance and take it to the medium level. When initiating this kind of touch, you normally do it to send across a signal to her about something burning down in your heart. That is to say that when you touch her at this level, she should be able to feel it in a way that will make her desire someone like you in her life.

For example, when both of you are close, you can make your arms rest on hers too, while leading her to somewhere or when trying to cross a road, you can hold her hands or hold her from her back, when both of you are together, you can sit in a way that makes your thigh rest on hers, you can lean close to her just to pretend and whisper something into her ears, when something funny happened between the both of you that you all laughed, you can playfully push her from any point on her body, preferably her arms or her stomach area, but hey!! Don't do it forcefully, easy and gentle is the best way to go when dealing with women.

So that's just it, and you must remember that this level of touch goes well with women you are probably on a date with and not women you just newly meet.

The last level of touch you must learn about is the high level touching which involves you and your girlfriend.
This is the most sensitive part of it all that you can always do it wrongly if you are not careful in handling it.

She is your girlfriend, and you can touch her anyway, you can kiss, hug her around your arms, lay on top of her body, grab her from behind, etc.
But then, how you do it is what really matters. You must be able to know the systems of touching her in a way that will not make her uncomfortable or send her a wrong signal about what you are doing.
(Also Read: How to be a powerful confident man when dealing with women )

You must be careful.
One mistake men always repeat and make while touching a woman is placing their hands in one spot and position for a long period of time and that is why most women get the wrong interpretation to their touches.
When touching a woman, make sure that your hands are not in one position on her body, when you touch, move your hands away or adjust the areas your hands are touching, and when your body is close to each other, maybe hugging or leaning beside her, don't make it last for a long time.

When you are touching a woman, there should be decency and cleanness in your touches, even if the person you are touching is said to be a sexual partner. Its not every time that women get dirty or want to get dirty, and that is why you must apply decency when initiating your touch, don't touch her breasts or grab her ass just like that in a bid to show her what you want or who you are, always be a man with standards.

Remember that when touching, you should not go hard on her, grab or grope her, it should be done gently, smoothly and softly. Remember to look into her eyes as you are touching her, not looking in the direction of where you are touching on her body.

This whole act of touching is the best way we can take everything to the next level and to be frank with you guys, women love to be touched, so play nice and safe, apply decency and maturity and once you are able to take all precautions explained above, you can qualify to be called a master in this act of touching with any woman.

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Things you should never say to avoid ruining your first date with a woman

As a man, you will always want to impress the woman you just meet on a new date and in the process of doing those things that makes you think will make her interested in you, you end up doing something that will ruin everything for you.

One thing that men always forget and underestimate while dealing with women is confidentiality and being your real self.
Once you cant be able to maintain your true and real nature when with a woman on a first date, it will be hard and rare getting a call for a second date.

One thing you should throw your focus on is how to make her feel attracted to you and making her enjoy every bit of seconds she spent with you on the first date.
Confidence is one thing character that can even serve as a pass for another date and also a guarantee that your first date will be a success, so once you have this confidence in you, then you are good to start your test and in other words, your dating game.

#Personality.
This is the basis towards achieving success even before you start a date with a woman. Once you have a good name to yourself and everyone is able to recognise you with your great achievements, or the good things you are known for, and what a good person and great individual you are, then you are good to go.

Even without telling the woman about yourself, she might have heard about your minor achievements and also about how a great and good person you are, so even before the date is started, you find out that everything is just promising and its just going to sound to her like a queen is going to meet a king.

So to make success, there are some things that you should not do to avoid ruining your first date with a woman.
(Also Read: The 6 most most annoying habits men hate in their girlfriends )

(1) Asking her who she is calling or texting.
Is it really a time to start getting jealous over something that does not really matter?
When you find out that the woman you are together with is answering a call or texting someone you don't know, you don't have to start asking or questioning her about it.

You are not yet in a relationship with her and so, you don't have to jump into her personal affairs and act like both of you are now lovers.
She can go out with another guy for a date and you don't have any right against her, so its only when you are able to get her to start loving you and that is when you have all those rights against her.

Who she is texting or calling should not be your problem, and you should also avoid taking out your phones while on a date so that when she sees you without your phone, she might as well keep hers back.

(2) Asking her about her work and financial status.
It is actually bad and not nice to just ask a woman about her work or financial related issues while on a date with her, and it makes her feel like you are trying too hard to get over her in no time.

She might have a work that pays her well but will not be comfortable telling you about it since you are just dating. And maybe she have a job that sounds bad in the ear, asking her about it will turn her off and can make her loose interest in you.

So when ever on a date, make sure you don't go anywhere near her job and financial stands because it might happen to turn her off and make her loose interest.

(3) Talking to her about your ex and past relationships.
This can be a good sign that you are not ready to take your date to a high level and possibly switch into a relationship with her.

When you find it hard getting over your ex talks and past relationship talks, then you will find it hard getting a new girlfriend that will treat  you as her boyfriend, you will only end up with a woman who treats you as a mother and sees you as her child.

Also this act do irritate many women on a date and it gives them a sign that you still have your old partner in your mind and since you enjoy talking about her, chances are that she left you and you still want to get back if she will allow you.

She will not be ready to accept you into her life with such kind of a habit of not getting over your past relationships, so find a way to get this done with and stop talking to women you are dating about matters like that.
(Also Read: How to handle your relationship while still in college )

(4) Comparing her with other women.
A woman will not take it likely with you when you keep comparing her to other women you have dated maybe you probably take compliments like "You are the best among other girls i have dated" to back up your comparison which sounds bad.

Its better if you can come up with such instances in a more pleasant way, you can tell her that you are happy to meet a wonderful person like her, but not putting it the other way round that sounds like you are a practical womanizer.

Also its good to tell her that she looks like your mom, your sister or something like that, but many women find it not appealing.
Trying to be different from other women is one thing they like doing, and once you compare them with other women, you are indirectly telling them that they can never be better than those women you have compared them to.

(5) Giving attention to your phone than her.
This one also turns a girl off while on a date together with a man, and if you are not careful of this, she can just get angry and leave at once, unless if you have enough skills to handle this.

You should be able to know that she needs your attention every now and then while on a date and so, you need to be attentive to here and be a good observer, carefully studying the environment where both of you are in and trying to learn more about her bodily languages so you don't act like a freak or a weirdo.
(Also Read: How to deal with a girlfriend with bad attitude and character )

These whole concepts about first dates with women is something very fun and interesting if you master how to be a confident guy and just be your real self, then you desist from any of those things listed above and when you do, i bet you will not be struggling with handling first dates anymore.

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Steps to attracting a girl to become more than just friends

Have you ever had a female friend whom you have been friends with and you actually like her? But you don't know how to get out and be more than just friends with her?

This is one problem many guys face with the girls they bump into, but there is a reason behind this.
Normally, women have been known for their different definitions when it comes to friendship and romantic relationship.

When a woman has any feelings in her mind for you, and she always have one special reason in her mind as to why she wants to be with you, then she is ready to be intimate with you and have a romantic relationship with you?
But when she just sees you as someone who she always talk with just to laugh, get advice and then, just turn around, that's when friendship is said to be the bond between the both of you.

Women are complex creatures, and when a woman has no feeling for you inside her, then it is difficult for you to curl in some sense of feeling inside her and make her to start loving you. However, there is something you can always do and practice and once you are able to do them, you will successfully get any woman to start thinking of you and even change your state in her mind. Lets see some of those things you can do.

#Plan a day or two days walk or trip with her.
This can be quite overwhelming right? It might seem to you that this one here cant work, but doing this will create a new room and opportunity to share ideas and observations that can bring about the evolvement of a romantic relationship.

Okay, the first step here is to ask her to come over for a walk to somewhere with you, or a trip to somewhere with you. She is your friend, a very good and particularly best and close one to you, so i don't see any reason why she will refuse to come with you.

(Also Read: How to deal with asking a girl out and avoid fear of rejection )

Once this is set, then you can select the best and romantic places to go around with her, and let her also select some of her favourite places. In the course of this event, do not get things boring, you must be the man, make it fun and interesting, romantic and worth talking about, do things that she would observe while you are doing them and also, get her to do things that will give you points to talk about after the walk or trip.

Normally when its evening, and almost getting dark, both of you are already planning to be back home and so, the call is made. But do you just let all the fun from the trip just slip away without talking to each other about it? That's why you must...

#Arrange a dinner night together with her.
Oh she will not refuse it, she needs refreshment, and you too, so what will you offer her more than a more romantic dinner night together?

Okay you successfully got the dinner talks in and she agreed to that and both of you are at dinner together, refreshing and getting stronger. Do you just talk about other things while at dinner or you keep quite and make everything boring? I guess no, you wouldn't risk your chance with that.

So while the dinner is going on, you should talk about the walk or trip you had together, tell her many things you observed and loved about her during the trip, and also get her to tell you about her own observations about the trip. If everything went on very well, then you are gradually getting some things into her.

You should talk more about the romantic aspect of the trip, and that is where the magic works, because everything about women is emotional and once a romantic conversation comes in between the both of you, then it sends some emotional thoughts about you into her.

After that, you can ask her if you can have such kind of walk or trip some other time to other new places she have always wished to go to, when you do that and she responds in a welcoming and romantic way, then you are gradually winning, and she might not notice what you are doing.
She will notice that you are trying to get intimate when you are not bold.

#Boldness in your actions.
One of the important keys towards achieving such aims is having boldness in you.
Like for example, when you are saying something romantic to her and then, your voice broke down, and you acted nervous, and just like you missed your lines, she will notice it and inside her, she would start thinking that you have some feelings for her and everything you were doing was just because you are now into her.

That would probably risk your chances of letting your thoughts flow through her and get more attracted. Though tipping her about your feelings for her is good, and letting her know about your new love for her is good too, but that will not be the best and ideal way to let her know about it.

For her to know about your love for her and not risking the chances of getting her to love you, you are to be bold in speech, be smart in words, and wise in thinking, don't linger or keep waiting for an answer or action response once you have tipped her.

These are just some of the things that you need in other to move along the game line, but then, there are some things some guys and even you, yes even i, we all do it and it is wrong and actually gets every girl loose feelings and attraction for us.

When a girl is so close to you and you start to think of changing the friendship into a relationship, then that's where you start to hit it wrong and get the inscription "I DON'T JUST GET IT" written on your forehead.

When you start buying a girlfriend of yours so many gifts and showering her with compliments, knowing that she is just a friend so close but without any mutual feelings for you, then YOU DON'T JUST GET IT.
And that's the normal way many guys do act and then, risk their chances of getting a girlfriend to love them and get attracted for love.

A girl sees you as a lost person who don't just get it when she got close to you, and you started buying her gifts and compliments.

When you are already dating a woman, yes she would enjoy and cherish every bit of compliments and gifts you shower her, but when you just meet a girl not even up to 3 weeks, and you start buying her gifts and starts to be nice, then you have already wasted your chance of getting her.
(Also Read: How to be a powerful confident man while dealing with women )

A woman have already seen many men wanting to win her heart and attraction and this happens every day in her life, as a result, she have known that cheap and easy path many men come through just to get her, and once you come along and take that same path and root, then you should expect nothing less than a rejection.

So for you to get her, you must learn to be patient and avoid the easy paths to lure her into your heart, you must study her very well and then, try other roads and paths that will lead you to that same thing you want from her.

More help and tips on this aspect will be updated and we will feed you more. For the mean time, any more thought and contribution from you as our reader is highly welcomed.

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How to avoid being short of words while talking to a girl

Many guys have been caught in this situation, and i guess you are one of them and now, you are here to look for help.
Have you ever thought of many conversations to make with a girl and what you will talk about if you are together? But then as you meet her and you sit together, your head turns like a formated computer system with nothing inside it, and your head goes empty.

Then you just find out that your conversation gets boring and a moment of silence follows. This is usually a situation that turns most women off and makes them find you unattractive.

The reason why this happens most time is because of the fact that you always want to appear right and do the right things just to impress that girl you like. And that is where the problem sets in but, you also started the conversation the wrong way and you were not prepared.

Now how do i overcome this situation of becoming short of words while talking to a girl i am interested in?

#Getting her attention first.

This is just a good conversation tip many guys don't know.
When you are able to start the interaction with a very attractive and interesting topic she likes, then you can be able to talk for long and generate new topic ideas without the fear of breaking down to silence.

But how do you learn about topics that are of great interest to her?
You have to watch her from close range and know what she likes talking about. You can get close to her friends just to get an idea of what she talks about the most.

When you have been able to know what she enjoys talking about, she will be surprised about how you knew about it and she will be interested and passionate to engage in the conversation with you.

#Concentrate on her and stop thinking inside your mind.

When you focus more on thinking about what to say and how to say it will make you self conscious and you forget about what you are doing and what she is saying.

You should never try to be right and perfect because no one is perfect in speaking with a woman. What matters the most is becoming your real self and not trying to fake your moves just to make her think you are a nice guy.

So when next you want to start a chat with a girl, the best treatment you can give yourself on this issue is just to focus and concentrate on her and what surrounds you. Make sure you slow your mind from thinking, take an inner stretch of your mind by breathing slow and relaxing your mind and that's where you should get ready to now talk, after that you can proceed to do the next thing.
(Also Read: 5 Unhealthy conversation mistakes you make with women )

#Be an attentive and a good listener.

When you are able to grab each and every word a girl says in a conversation, then you will never run out of things to say when with a girl.
This will make you to be the best you can be while in a conversation with a girl.
But hey, been attentive does not mean nodding your head in affirmation to what she says or something like that. 

To be a good listener, you must concentrate on the person speaking and what she is saying, and when you are able to do that, you can use whatever is said to create new ideas and keep the conversation going.

You can use body languages to show that you are listening to what she is saying and when you also pay attention to what she says, you will actually get new ideas on things to say.

#Talk about yourself first and she will do the same.

One mistake guys do make when trying to talk to a new girl is asking them questions and just questions.
If you want a girl to see you as a potential guy who has values to his name, then the best way you can do it is to talk to her about yourself.

Say interesting things about your life which will be of interest to her.
You can talk about your social life and why you like meeting new friends, the places you like to travel to, your best meals, your ex girlfriends and experience, your friends, etc.

When you talk about those things, she will discover that you have more values to offer than those other guys who just concentrate on trying to win her heart with flattering and sweet words.

So when you do this and she normally will respond in a nice way, you should now ask her few selected questions about her life, she will like to return the favour and talk to you about herself.
But make sure that you don't go off the point of what you are trying to do and start to make it feel like you are bragging.

When you are able to get this going with a girl, your conversation will never go into silence and you will always have new things to talk about.

#Don't ask questions that yields a "Yes/No" answer.

This is just another mistake that most guys do in a conversation and you know that, when this happens, usually after she say a yes or no to what you asked her, then you will not be fast to think of what next to say and as a result, silence emerges and she starts to feel uncomfortable been with you.

The reason why this happens is because you always ask questions that does not require any further explanation and normally, should end with a yes or no answer.

For example, you asked her something like "You love coming to this place right?" Or "Do you go to that church always?"

Normally those questions needs straight answers and then, its gone, no one talks about it again.
But what if you make it go this way, "It seems you like it here - why do you enjoy being here?" Or "You like going to that church - why do you like it there?"

You see now? The second part is more appealing and opened up therefore, she gets an intuition to say something about what is being asked and from there, you get more things to talk about.

#One thing leads to the other.

In a conversation where you are listening and also, talking about things you can equate to what happened to you in real life, you can be able to tap out important notes from the conversation and create more topics.

For example, both of you are talking about school, then she said something about a hash lecturer who is unfair to them, then you remembered about a wicked uncle you have got back then in school, you can just take control and talk about it.

It will be interesting to her and she will remember another thing that happened to her back then in school, and she will not refuse to talk to you about it.
Now when you are able to do this, you will never run out of words to say when with any girl.

When you carefully follow these tips, i can assure you that you will get rid of silence when with a girl and also stay clear of being short of words while talking to a girl.

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Things a woman say that means something different

Women have probably been known for not going straight  to the point while having a discussion with anyone who they come across and today, we are going to talk about some of those things a woman say but actually takes a different meaning.

You can never understand the mind of a woman and the way she thinks and that is why you sometimes misunderstand and translate what she says wrongly. That is why most relationships gets boring now and then because when you expect your woman to clearly state her state of mind to a current situation, she does not say it straight but says it in such a way that it makes you get the wrong understanding to what she said.

Well without wasting much time doing introductions, i believe you know why you are here and so, if you fall among the category of those guys who can not understand and read a woman's thought as she beats around the bush, let me now show you some of those things your woman will tell you which you don't clearly understand and interpret.

#1. When your woman tells you "You don't need to buy me anything okay!"

When your woman tells you something like that, what comes to your mind first?
You are naturally going to think that she has everything she needs and you don't need to disturb yourself buying her anything.

But actually that's not what she means. When a woman says that to you, she just meant that you already know what she likes, and she don't have to tell you what she needs, she also expects you to ask her friends or sisters if you don't know what she needs, she just mean that if you really care, then you will figure out the right thing she wants.

#2. When your woman exclaims "What?''.

When you hear your woman say that to you, i know what comes to your mind, yes, i said something that seems unclear to hear and so, she wants me to repeat it so she can hear again.

Though sometimes, it is so and that interpretation works in situations like that, but in the other words and vocabulary of the woman's heart, she heard what i said but she is literally giving me a second option to reverse what i said previously and change it. That's how things work with women.

#3. When she tells you to "Go ahead and do whatever you want"

Yes as a man who does not understand the language of a woman, you just think that she is now giving you the power and might to do make decisions by yourself or do that thing that is right to you.

But in the language of a woman, that is not what she is telling you. She is only telling you that you should not do whatever you want without asking her, asking her will make her feel that you really care for her, but if you go ahead and do what you want, she will repay you or revenge it another time.

#4. When a woman asks you "Are you going to wear that?"

Don't think that she is asking you to confirm that you want to wear that cloth or shoes so she can complement on them, that's not the signal here.

What she is trying to tell you is that you should not even dare to wear that shoe or cloth because it does not fit, and if you are already putting them on, you better go and take them off and change. You just don't look sharp on that attire, period!!

#5. When she asks "Am i fat?" or "Am i slim?".

Don't think she is trying to know from you if she is fat or slim because that is the first thing that comes to your mind as a man when a woman tells you that.

But that is not what she means, she is only trying to hear from you if you find her attractive, sexy or not. And when she asks you that, she want to hear you say that you find her very hot and attractive and that you don't even know you are going to find someone so hot like her.

#6. When she says "You don't care for me".

Some men will even get angry when they hear their woman say something like this to them which gets the woman off her thoughts and tells them sorry, and that's another thing, she is not really sorry, you just turned her off.

When a woman says that to you, she does not really mean that you don't care or love her, she just think that you have not been showing much care and love, so what do you do about that? She wants you to improve on that and show more care.

#7. When she says "Its nothing, just forget it, am fine and okay".

This is another point you should never mess with. You will just think that she just told you that she have forgotten about what happened or what you did to her.

But in her mind, thought and meanings, she is only asking you to fix what happened and resolve the situation if not, she is going to take things her own way.

Also she might say any of those things if she want to make you forget any situation or anything that you insist on talking about.

#8. When she says "I am sorry".

You will think it as a normal word which she said straight from her heart and so, you take it like that.

But it is not so, she is just saying that so that she can get herself out of a hot awkward situation and get over it with you. Though sometimes, it is genuine and some women mean it when they say such things.

#9. When she says "I will be back in 4 minutes" or "I will be done in 2 minutes time" or "wait, i will call you back in 3 minutes".

As a man, you will normally think that she will be ready to get back to you after the time she gave as a waiting time and you expect it to be so. It have happened to me a lot until i learned not to believe that.

When a woman says any of that to you man, you just have to just relax your mind, get one or two things doing and get busy before she gets back, comes to meet you or call you back, because anytime she say that, she is just trying to make you feel comfortable with her leaving.

#10. When she says "I love you".

Hmm, and finally, when she say this to you, what do you expect? That she is also not straight?

Well don't misinterpret this language when it comes from a woman because it comes from her heart because she loves you, that is why she is bold to say that to you. Relax your mind and sit back, then think of all the above listing and know how to handle them all when it comes from a woman you consider so potential to you.

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5 Unhealthy conversation mistakes you always make with women

For you to be able to record success with any woman you come across in your life, you must be able to make that woman feel attracted to you and also, doing it with the right skill and the right way.

As a man, you actually don't have all the time to just spend talking with a woman, and that is why you should never keep expecting that you can grow on a woman for whatever reason.
If you don't know how to make that woman feel attracted to you very quickly, then you are open to risks of other guys who knows how to win her attraction within couple hours of meeting with her.

Now with these following unhealthy conversation mistakes i am going to tell, i hope that you will use them to improve in your over all quest for her ultimate natural attraction to you. Lets go there..

#1.Flowing in an Interview mode.

While talking to a woman, your interaction should never take the form of a job interview and if that happens, that girl can never get interested in you.

Maybe you have experienced it before. Most times, this happens when you have no topic to talk about and have no point in your mind to come up with, then at this stage, it seems both of you are into a shooting game because you just keep on bombarding her with interview-like questions and when she answers, its like backfiring her with questions after the other.

What do you do to sustain your life?
Where do your mum and dad stay?
Are you still schooling?
What level are you now?
Do you like having fun?
How many boyfriends have you dated in time past?

All these questions will make her feel interviewed and that's not what she want, that's not the kind of feeling she want to get from a man like you.
A woman wants to be with a man who would make her feel the vibe between them, have a lot of fun, make her feel sexy and sexually attracted to him and create a more romantic chemistry amidst their conversation.

#2. Trying to do the right thing to impress her.

One among the unhealthy conversation mistakes you might be making is your inability to be your real self when ever you are with a woman you feel something for.

In normal circumstances, when you are around a woman who don't actually feel attracted to, you observe that you are more confident and flowing in your real nature and with your original verbal reasoning ability. But when you are with a woman whom you feel so attracted to, then that is when you start thinking of the right and impressive things you would say to her to make her get attracted to you.

Now doing that can cause a tense inside you and you will become nervous and act wired, of which she will notice and also become uncomfortable for the fact that she is causing you great discomfort, she might even want to leave at once.

Women are naturally attracted to guys who are confident in themselves and who do not hide their original nature and act while trying to get them attracted. So the most important thing you should do when together with a woman you want to attract is to be original, the real version of who you really are.

#3. Trying to be romantic and making her like you when she is not yet interested.

I have seen a lot of guys doing this for some times now. And do you know why it happens with many guys including you? It is because men are always attracted to women physically and judging women by their appearance and looks, a man can want to immediately take a woman to the bed and get intimate with her.

This happens because a lot of women appear to be physically seductive with their body shapes and the characters on their body which stimulates the mans attraction traits.

Now because of all these, we now go on to meet that attractive woman who we now really like but then, she is not interested in us. Okay now back to you.
You now start a conversation with her all your chat up lines shows that you are now in the act of trying to convince her to like you and feel very different about you.

When it comes to a woman being interested in a guy, the fact is that you can never change the mind of a woman and the way she feels. Even with the whole reasoning and logistics, you can only record a 40% attraction which tends to be temporary.

So you just beg her, plead, ask, keep chasing and doing everything at your best just to get her change her mind, well it can never be done. So stop that man.

#4. Thinking that you can use money and swags, and looks to get a woman like you.

This is one of the oldest trend of all time, guys who think they have it all and so, they can use their money, handsomeness and swags to get a woman like them.

This is one of the most frequent error that men always make when trying to get a girl attracted.
For many of the average guys, they think they cant have a girl because they don't have money and attractive looks, they are below the age, or their height ain't enough and as a result, they give up and settle for less. Truly, there are women who look after those qualities in a man.

When you consider today's trend in the dating world, you will discover that a lot of women, the most of them are after a mans personality and not his financial strength or attractiveness. And if you look out and see through the dating style many women adapts to, you will learn that there are many traits that are attached to personality which gets women interested in any guy with such traits.

Now you must learn about those traits if you want to get women to like you, you should also learn how to use those traits to your advantage.
(Also Read: Tips on how to be that special man every woman want )

#5. Not learning about a woman's body language and when she is not just interested.

For you to be able to have the right motive whenever you are with a woman, learning about her body languages is just a short code to let you access the ideologies as to when she is not comfortable with what you are saying, or when she is not interested.

You should learn to use your senses, open your eyes and look well, then get your ears wide open so that you can understand every situation she is in and every move she makes.

When you are able to do that, you can learn when she is happy, excited, feeling bored or enjoying your vibe.

These are just a few from the list we have on those unhealthy conversation mistakes you do make as a man, so you must learn to use them and avoid any further mistake with that next woman you are going to meet.

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Useful tips on how to get out of the friend zone of a woman

Have you ever been in this situation ever since you started your relationship life with women? This situation explains that moment when a girl actually takes you just as her friend, and have no interest or special feeling of been sexually attracted to you, you are not a dating option to her and in other words, she just sees you as a brother and never a potential somebody.

But in recent times, i have learnt a lot about what triggers the friend zoning habits that exist in every feminine creature, thus, concluding on the fact that there are certain traits that men exhibit that triggers and develop the sense of a girl to put any man in her friend zone.

When you have a female friend you have always loved, you see it that it is always difficult for you to escape the friend zone state of her mind, though you have always wanted to be more than a friend to her, you want her to just feel the same way you feel about her, but unfortunately for you, she does not feel anything for you.

There are different levels of a friend zone you can be pushed into, and it all depends on how you triggered the friend zone spirit inside her.
For example: (1)The girl will never hurt your feelings by telling you she is not romantically interested in you and so, she just tells you that she just wants you to be friends only.

(2) When you accept her call for you to just be friends but yet, you could not stop following her around and treating her like your girlfriend. You keep spending more time with her and treating her in a romantic way and having hopes that things might turn around, but oh!! You just kept hurting yourself.

(3) Another level of the friend zone is that situation when you have been good and best friends with a girl for a long time and gradually, at a point in time you now observe that you are now liking her and that you just want to be more than friends, but when you tell her about your feelings, it might not end up well, depending on what she feels about you.

Well you have learnt them all, but how do you now go about escaping this friend zone and diverting into the lovers zone of her heart?
You can do that, you can correct the messes you built in the past. Well i know you are eager to know how, so read on.

#Confidence and courage - using the right words and moves.
I bet you did not think about this, but what if i tell you? That getting out of this situation is never any hard as far as you have courage, you are confident about who you are, and also when you use the right words and body languages.
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#Make her to know and feel that you are wanted.
You don't have to keep following her around and acting like she is the only female friend you have got in your entire life, if you really want her to start feeling something for you and erase the friend zone barrier between the both of you, then you must give her space and then, move around here and then with other girls and let her notice it.

So when you do this, it can trigger a competitive feeling that she can also be better than those girls you are moving around with and hence, she would actually know that you are wanted by other girls. So when she starts getting jealous of that, then you are gradually getting out of the friend zone.

#Over Complimenting On Her Nature is a big mistake.
A girl starts to set her self on a high esteem when you shower her with too many compliments that she does not even deserve and as a result, she starts thinking that she is just too good to be with someone like you.

If you really want to make her know that she is beautiful or sexy, and you want to make her feel it and not just hearing it, then do it with action! As they always say, action speaks louder than voice.

#Honesty and Clarity matters a lot.
You don't expect a girl to know about your feelings for her except you make it known to her by clearly telling her.
When you are not been honest with her as to what you really want from her, you keep getting deep and deeper into her friend zone and will even become more satisfied with you as a friend to her.

But when you just tell her the truth and allow her to know your new motive concerning her, then you become satisfied with what you are doing and you find out that you no more worry about getting her to want you for a date.

#Get Close, do more Touching and use body languages.
As i said that action speaks louder than voice, this can be a great way to show her what you feel about her rather than saying it to hear hearing, but you know that over doing this can get her off the edge and get her uneasy with you.

So how do you do this, first you have to conduct yourself in a good way and show confidence in doing this, smoothly doing it with the right expression can make her feel attracted to you and think that you can be more than a friend to her.

Touch her when making a joke, touch her laps or arms when making an example or explaining a thing, hold her when trying to cross a bridge or road together, etc. Just be animated and express your feelings in this way and if she is a type that understands body languages, then she will take a hint and understand what you are doing.

But you should also never try to be too sexual in your actions and words, it will make her never to even think of you because she thinks you are just like those other guys who just drool all over her with nasty interests.

#Determination to stay or go away.
Since you don't want to be kept in her friend zone forever, and you have made all possible thing you can do to make her change you into the lovers zone but yet, it seemed she is not changing her mind.

You now know that enough is enough and you just have to either accept that part of friendship and then, totally erase any special feelings you have for her in your mind. By so doing, you are now able to lift that heavy weight on you and now be able to live the kind of a life you have always wanted.

You must know that a girl can cause you great setback in your life, and make you to live in a state of worry and anxiety and as a result, you loose sight to what you actually want in your life.

Well and okay, now you know you are in the friend zone, the best way to get out this friend zone is to be honest, courageous and confident in yourself.

When you do all these things and do it with the right motives, you will never go the wrong way and anytime she sits to think about her relationship life, she can be able to determine the position you occupy in her life.

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5 Best ways to get a girl interested in you

As i continue to live on my daily life, i have always wanted to meet with new and interesting women, those with difference in their own ways and with a unique womanly attitude.

Now as a guy, i have always wanted to achieve that aim of making a girl interested in me, and i have come across many advises on how i will get it done, well few worked and with my own tips all joined together, i was able to make any lady i come across interested in me.
Now i know this is the same reason why you are here, you want to learn how to get a girl interested in you in no time, now stay with us.

In this article, you will learn new ways you can use in getting any girl interested in you and even proceed to dating her. Make sure you use these tips accurately and i assure you that everything will work out perfectly.

So now, here are the  5 Best ways to get a girl interested in you.

#1. Be a different and a potential guy.
The first step towards achieving success in your chase for any woman is the step of uniqueness and difference from the other guys.
Don't be that guy who just sees a woman and then, start to act like the common guys who always loose out to any girl and get dumped in the friend zone.

When you first approach a woman, don't use the well known chat up lines and conversation starters used by those other men out there, this will indicate to her that you are just like one of those guys out there who she have no interest in.

So to get her interested in you, you should take a different manner of approach rather than the normal thing other guys do, don't ever make her think and know that you have been looking up to talk to her or meet her. Make it look real and let her know you just ran into her and decided to start a talk with her.

So after you must have known how to show her your uniqueness, you are now set to proceed to the other steps. But as you continue with these tips, make sure you carry that uniqueness along. Now move to the next step.

#2. Have fun and make her laugh.
Remember that you are not trying to make her to love you, but be interested in you and by the time she does, your door to dating chances is now open. So when you meet her newly, try not to be that odd type who just start a conversation that ends in a jiffy, that will make her think you have nothing much to show for and hence, she find you uninteresting.

So you should make your time together with her fun and get her tuned to dance to your conversation style. Don't allow boredom to set in so as to avoid unexpected moment of silence in which you feel she is not so interested and then you are left to fathom and think of what next to say.

After doing the above step, you should proceed to the next step.

#3. Make use of time constraint to request a date.
When the conversation seem to be of interest to her and she is loving it. Don't allow the flow to keep on moving because you might run out of topics and ideas and when that happens, it might be hard for you to make new requests from her, or start up the fun again.

So when you observe her interest in speaking with you and she is almost caught up, bring the conversation into a break by introducing your new schedule or event you must not miss. Now you can use that idea to request for another time with her.

For example, you can go like.. "OMG! I just remembered that i have to go and see some friends 15 minutes from now, we have an important issue to discuss about, where would you like us to go and buy a coffee together ".

By so doing, she would not resist or turn down your request, and if at all you are not that type that goes to the bar or she doesn't, then you can introduce a new option. Asking for her phone number is just another hint she can comply with, don't allow and wait for her to call out her digits, kindly offer her you mobile device to type it in, and after that, just be cool and act like nothing serious is happening inside your mind. then just set up a time with her when you can both meet and boom! You are already in.

#4. Keep her wanting to know you more.
Another secret to get her interested in you is to let her know little about you and then, keep her wanting to know you more.

When you tell a girl all about you, she would think you are too simple and have no secrets or scandals in life, which many girls don't like. So just tell her little and even when she thinks she knows everything about you, make her feel and understand that you have a broad personality and haven't learned everything about you.

This will surely keep her wanting to know more about you, tell her few lines of an important subject about you which she would clearly want to know more about and then, keep her wanting till when both of you are getting more closer and of value to each other.

#5. Give her personal time and space.
Now after much have been going on between the both of you and it seems she is into an addiction of meeting and talking to you.

Its time to just disappear and get out of sight. Doing this will make her think more about you and get worried why you have not been showing up or calling her.

Remember that you must not do this for a very long time, else you risk everything and get her to forget about you, so you should do this for a period not up to 6 days.

#Additional Note: For you to record success in this chase, using the day advantage will help you achieve such aim without any competition or any other guy interrupting you.

And moreover, she would not think that she is your target as you would appear to be busy too and up to something when you just ran into her.

These tips worked perfectly for me and i was almost dating 5 women at a time, lol. So all you need to do is just to try these tips out, and if you have more idea to this topic, you can play a nice role by commenting with your own tips so as to add to our own ideas.

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