8 Surprising THINGS That Makes WOMEN Want To Be LAID So Bad!!

While guys are generally up for se x whenever, wherever (regardless of the situation), women tend to need a bit more inspiration, according to Cindy M. Meston, Ph.D. and David M. Buss, Ph.D., psychology professors at theUniversity of Texas at Austin and coauthors of Why Women Have Se x: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between). For a better understanding of how to get her in the mood, consider the following eight factors that Meston and Buss say affects a woman’s li bido:



1. HER MAN’S APPEARANCE
Men are usually considered to be the most turned on by visual stimuli (think about it: how many strip clubs and adult magazines are actually targeted toward females?), but women are actually quite turned on by a man’s face, body and movement as well, say Meston and Buss. “Sexually, women are attracted to men with masculine features, although not too masculine,” Meston explains. “A little light stubble is usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean and well-kept. Body-wise, women generally find men with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-hip ratio sexually attractive. Motion is important, too, as women find athletic prowess and agility to be sexual turn-ons.” The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the sack, a good first step to take might be getting yourself into the gym. 

2. THE TIME OF DAY
Meston says that women are very individualized in terms of when they most prefer to get it on: “In general, women want to have se x when they feel their best — when they have energy, feel connected to their partners, aren’t distracted by work or stressful daily events, and when they feel sexy — and that may or may not be at night.” In order to figure out when a woman’s most likely to be in the mood, pay attention to the times she seems the most energized and/or chilled out. Try thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d love a post-jog quickie right before her shower!

3. CERTAIN SMELLS
Meston and Buss explain that, for women, sense of smell is far more important than it is to men when it comes to sexual attraction. Simply put: if a woman doesn’t like the way a man smells, it’s often a deal-breaker — whether she consciously realizes it or not. The number one turn-off reported by most women is — not surprisingly — bad breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also plays an interesting biological role in what attracts her to a man, according to Meston: “Olfactory signals provide a woman with a wealth of information about a man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic makeup,” she notes. Pheromones — tiny airborne molecules that humans emit from various glands in their body — can influence a woman’s desire to be sexually intimate with a man. Male pheromones have been shown to provide information on a man’s symmetry, which is an indicator of genetic fitness and ultimately can determine whether a man is genetically compatible with a woman. “For many women — whether they realize it or not — scent can play an important role in determining her willingness to have se x with a man, given her ‘sense’ of whether they can produce genetically healthy, strong children together,” says Buss.

4. HER GUY’S CHOICE OF WORDS
Often, what a man says is more important than what he does when he’s trying to get a woman in the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-fire way of making someone want to get closer… although, if the compliments come across as insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says Meston.

To score extra sincerity points, make references to future activities you’d like to do together, explains Meston, noting that showing signs of commitment can often be sexually alluring to women. Buss also notes that a man with a sense of humor is also a sexual turn-on for the ladies: “If a man can make a woman laugh, it relaxes her and makes her feel that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that a good sense of humor also conveys some key qualities women want in a mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be witty if you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having the mind-reading skills to know what she will find amusing), and social verve or confidence.

  5. THE NEED FOR REVENGE
In their research, Meston and Buss found that many women had “revenge se x” with someone other than their most recent dating partner to get back at a cheating partner or to “even the score,” as some women put it. “Some women hoped their ex would find out about it and feel angry or hurt, and other women said they didn’t care if they found out or not — they felt better just knowing they had gotten revenge,” Meston explains. Why is the need for revenge such a turn-on for women? “Revenge can serve two basic functions,” Buss explains. The first function is one of deterrence: just as bullies stop picking on victims who retaliate, cheating partners sometimes stop their illicit activities when the other person retaliates in kind. The second function of revenge is “reputation management,” says Buss. “Women who are scorned sometimes suffer damage to their social reputation, whether they are cheated on or dumped. Having se x — especially if it is with someone who is relatively high in ‘mate value’ — can sometimes help to restore a woman’s reputation,” he explains.

6. GENETICS
Women prefer men whose MHC genes (or Major HistoCompatibility genes) are dissimilar to their own, because this is the set of genes involved in determining an individual’s immune function. “Having children with men who are dissimilar produces children with healthier immune systems,” Buss explains. “Astonishingly, women seem to be able to pick this up through sense of smell, especially at ovulation, if they are not on hormonal contraceptives.”

7. HER PHYSICAL HEALTH OR WELL-BEING
If you’re looking for a few good reasons why she should have se x with you, there are countless ways in which you can emphasize that “getting busy” would be a wise move for her health. “During orga sm, opiates — the body’s natural painkillers — are released, which can help decrease all sorts of aches and pains for women,” Meston explains. Se x can also help maintain the body’s flexibility and cardiovascular health, decrease anxiety, and enhance overall mood. Additionally, Meston notes, having se x during menstruation decreases a woman’s risk of experiencing endometriosis symptoms. Of course, se x (if it lasts long enough!) can also be a good calorie burner, so you can always suggest it as a fantastic way to burn off the chocolate cheesecake you shared for dessert. 

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Signs that shows your boyfriend is not dedicated to your love and relationship

There are many instances where you find out that a boyfriend is not committed to the relationship he is into, and that makes the relationship always going to different trouble and difficulty that can even lead to a breakup.

As a woman, you will always need your boyfriend to be actively involved in ensuring that your relationship life is circulated with other curricular instances that shows that both of you are ready to keep things moving.
But when your boyfriend shows no interest in what you are doing at all time and always appear like he is been to dignifying about himself, then chances are clear that he is not so interested in the relationship.

So when you find out that you can not understand the direction your boyfriend takes in the relationship, use these 5 tips to know when your boyfriend is not serious with the relationship.

He does not show any moral backup.
In every true and dedicated relationship, you will observe that both lovers are so serious about each other's life and the careers they will want to pursue.

They are always on point to help each other with encouraging and supportive opinions about the daily dreams they are pursuing.
The boy will assist the girl in doing her house cores, or help her with her school work or other thins that are related to her. Other things that shows moral support will be there and will be seen in display.

He hardly finds time to spend with you.
When you discover that your boyfriend likes been with friends at all time than he likes to be with you, then he is not so dedicated to the relationship.

When he likes going out to see his friend, when he pays more attention to playing games at play stations, when he likes visiting the gym, when he likes to always study like he will not stop, when he always like staying at home.
When he does all those things without remembering you and giving you your own time or also giving you a special moment with him, then he is not dedicated and serious about the relationship.

If he is so serious about having you in his life, then he would always want you to be involved in everything he does, and he would create time for you too despite been occupied with other activities.

Always giving excuses.
When your boyfriend always like giving you excuses about failed plans and never tries to see that he amends such habits of failing to deliver in any plans made, then possibilities are that he is no so serious about the relationship.

You see him making excuses for not picking up your calls, not coming to see you, forgetting to bring the items you requested for, etc. It just clearly shows that he is not dedicated to that relationship and not ready to make you happy at all time.

He is always self centered.
He does things on his own interest and never cares about are of interests to you. When he takes actions that also affects you without letting you know, when he likes you to do whatever pleases him and does not care about how you feel, then that shows he is not dedicated and serious about you and the relationship.

A boyfriend who is not self centered will always let his girlfriend know what he is up to and things he wishes to do, asking for her own opinions and doing things in such a way that favours the both of you in the relationship.

He does not observe and make amendments when things go wrong.
Maybe when you are already tired of his attitudes in the relationship and therefore, you decide to take a break and find yourself air somewhere else, it is expected that he should show concern about the sudden change and also try to know why things are taking a new turn.

But when he is not dedicated to the relationship, you will surely see that he fail to observe when you are tired and now giving yourself your own solutions, and you will find out that he continues to do things his own way without minding what is happening.

There are many other signs that shows your boyfriend is not so dedicated to you, but how do you tackle this problem?

The only solution you have got is to talk to him about his behaviours and ask him to take a second thought for change, or continue if he want to lose you to another man.
If he is listening to you, he will change for good, but if he is not just ready to play along, then you must breakup with him and find yourself a better boyfriend because he is not serious with the relationship that exists between the both of you.

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Reasons why men can never be pleased in a relationship

Nowadays, its known that no matter how you have tried so hard in pleasing your man, it is always hard for you as a woman to satisfy all his wants in the relationship.

Men are known by their dynamic sense of reasoning and reaction to different situations in the relationship, making it hard for you as a woman to satisfy him in the relationship and do things that pleases him.

There are many reactions almost all men have to different relationship gestures and some of those reaction does not favour the growth of the relationship.

Areas where you can never satisfy a man.
There are many situations in a relationship where your man can never be satisfied and will always think you are leading the relationship astray. Lets take a look at those situations and the necessary measures you must take to ensure that you handle the situations the perfect way.

When he cant reach you through phone calls.
It happens in almost every relationship, when your man calls you and you are not picking up is calls, or when your phones are switched off, he starts thinking that you are just cheating and that is why you switched of your phone, or you are not picking up his calls because you are tired of him in the relationship.

With those false assumptions, he would probably meet and confront you with words that clearly shows he is suspecting you of cheating or getting tired in the relationship.
Now if you are that patient type and you calmly confront him, then you will successfully pull him back and bring back the joy of your relationship. But if you also get angry and attack him with wrong words and expression, then you are at risk of bring your relationship to close.

Giving your man 100% of your love and trust.
If you are still in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship, then you must never give any man 100% of your love and trust.
Doing that will actually make him take you for granted and even stop caring about you like he did when he was still trying his luck to win your heart.
He will think that you are overdoing things and always disturbing him with too much love expression.

So as a woman, you must make sure you keep making your man try hard in pleasing you and winning your whole heart, that will make him more concentrated in keeping and loving you, but once you have given him your whole heart, he will surely play around with you because he knows he have already won your whole heart and you are now the one caring so much for the relationship.

Not telling him your problems.
Sometimes, a good woman will never want to tell you all of her problems because she will definitely think she would be causing you lots of discomfort and also, trying to push all your cares upon him.
But when your man observes that none of your problems are made known unto him, he will definitely think and tell you that you don't trust him and that is why you don't want to tell him your problems.

So to handle this situation, you must clearly show and tell him the reasons for your action and make him understand what you are doing.
After that, you should start involving him into some of your problems which will not bore him away, don't bring financial matters into your conversations as that would cause him discomfort. And also, try not to tell him any of your financial problems because he will think you are now interested in his money and not his love.

Many instances happen in relationships where you will want to satisfy your man but he takes it the opposite way.
When you dress so smart and good looking, he just thinks you are not doing it for him,but to attract other men to you. Also when you hurt him mistakenly, he forgets that it occurs in every relationship and then, he takes it to the air that you are careless and don't care about things that makes his heart broken.

There are many other difficulties you will face when you are trying to satisfy your man, but the best way to do handle them is to try never to overdo any thing you are doing for him, with that your man will learn your physics when it comes to the aspect where you always try to satisfy his love for you.

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What to do when your man likes being with other women every time

This is a common situation faced by many women who go into relationships today without considering every necessary factor that would tell if their man is a potential lover to them or just a player.

Many times, i meet with lots of women who always cry out loud for the fact that their man have been cheating on them.
And each time i hear them complain, i fall short of words to encourage and advice them on the next step they should take when their man don't want to play along with them.

But today in this article, you will learn about all the Relationship tips for women and the necessary things you must do when you actually know that your man does not like to be with a single woman.
So now, here are some insights to help you pass this level in your relationship and also, know about the best ways to handle such boyfriend's attitude.

Sometimes, you might just be dating without knowing the reason why you are dating, and because of that, you fail to understand every incident that makes it necessary for you to call on your lover and let him know how you feel about certain things he do with other women out there.

Define what you want from a man in your relationship.
Before you dash into a relationship, this is one of the things that you must make a priority to check on before you start going deep in the relationship.
What kind of a man would you want to be involved with? And what are the characters he must possess before he becomes qualified to be my lover.
If you don't check on the personality of that person, you might end up involving in a relationship with a man who is said to be a womanizer.

You might just see a man, looking so fresh and kush, with the brightest smile ever, and then you think to your self and you be like "wow!! This is just the kind of a man i want to be with".
Now at this point, the looks of that man have made you to be deceived into thinking you have gotten the perfect man.

When looking for a man who would not cheat or enjoy the company of other girls than with you, then the looks should not be a factor for involving in a relationship with such kind of a man. The thing you should watch out for is the character and the behaviour of that individual whom you want to involve with.

But the problem here is that, you have failed to define what you want from that man, and now he is cheating or just enjoys being together with other women.
So the only solution tip you have here is to call him to your attention and let him know how you feel about his actions and how they get you sad all the time, then you must not forget to advice him about the things he should do if he is willing to continue with you and get the relationship going.

Are you willing and ready to continue with a man who likes other girls too?
Now this can mean two things at the same point. It can mean that your man does not like dating only one girl, or that your man loves only you, but likes associating with other women too.

This situation can be a very had one for we the ladies because of many things we feel inside us. When our man is busy out there with other ladies, while we stay at home craving for their attention to us, it gives us lot of unrest because of the feeling of insecurity inside us.
So as women, this does not comfort us and we always feel lots of pain when this situation is prevalent in our relationship.

But if reversed is the case, and it happened that your man does not have only one girl, then the choice of the relationship is in your hands.
Will you now agree to continue in the relationship when you already know that you are not the only one he loves? Or you are going to just end it right there?

Play along if you want to return the favour.
Okay now, its crystal clear that your man is double dating, so should you just watch him while he cheats or you should return the favour?

Sometimes this is a nice option and a solution towards dealing with the grief and sadness that you feel inside you whenever he refuses to pay attention to you or have time for you either.
If you think its not yet time to let go of the relationship, then just bump up and start something too, start hanging out with many of your male friends and then, pick just one out of them as an alternative  and start rolling with him.

Once you have successfully kicked off the game of favours, every pain, grief and sorrow you always felt with gradually go and you will find reasons to also be happy.

Let your man him be.
Now after you have completed the step above, you should not be like one seeking for attention from someone who is not clearly interested in you.

So to achieve this aim, stop calling or texting him frequently, don't even do it at all, just give it a break and allow your new alternative man to enjoy the time been.
Once you do that, you can be able to determine if he still wants to be with you or if he was just done with your companionship.
If after you stop texting or calling him, he did not care to call and check on why you have been out of reach for d long time, then it means that he is done with you and has already moved on. But if he shows care and love after you took a break from reaching out to him, then chances are that he still cares and want to be with you.

But don't just relax at this point because this is the point where you have every opportunity to know what he actually feel for you and what he wants from you.
So you should now throw questions at him about the happenings between the both of you and then, read out your terms for the relationship and know if he is ready to comply with you and drop his old ways.

Relationships based on benefits from sexual intimacy.
This is also another pin point which many women fail to learn and understand in their relationship cycles.
There are many men who would just want to come into your life for the purpose of $ex and after that, it ends there.

Once those men succeed in having $ex with you, you see them starting to show certain strange behaviours which explains one fact that you are no more relevant in their lives.

When you already know that a man have already taken advantage of your body and after that, he starts showing certain strange behaviours, then the best option you have is to find a different man who will love you unconditionally.

These are just a few relationship tips for women tips which we know will be of help to you while facing such type of a relationship setback. We will be back to update you with more. Stay with us.

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What to do when he pays more attention to other things than to you

It can be really annoying when your man does not give you attention and the time you need from him whenever you want.

Many men have been seen adapting to this attitude of paying more attention to other things more than they do with their partner.
It is unusual and not encouraging for the man to be out there doing something irrelevant when his girl is waiting for him to come around and stay with her.

But as a woman, trying to get more time with him by telling him to stop those activities which he always cherish will not favour him and would rather give him a reason to call for a breakup.
Trying to tell him what to do never works, but creates more reason for him to continue doing what he is doing.

There are many things your man enjoys doing which might stop him from creating time for you, it might be playing games on play stations, playing football, football betting, lotto, clubbing, moving around with friends, etc. All these activities can actually rob your man the time both of you have to spend with each other and also, trying to get him stop them will never work because they are part of the things that gives him reasons to live for another and makes him happy.

So, now that he barely gives you time just because of those activities, what are you planning to do? What do you think would be the best solution to the situation and how do you get him balance the between his activities of interest and you without having one taking down the other?
Lets see some things you should never do and those you should do.

Can cheating bring you happiness?
Since your man is not ready to create time to be with you and spend more time together, should you just get on and start chasing after another man?

That's just one of the dumbest and craziest thing you could ever do while in a relationship. Doing so will label you a cheater and your man will never entertain such a habit if he knows about it.

Your man is not cheating, and not creating more time for you does not make him a cheater, its just that he finds more pleasure doing those things. So that does not make him a cheater at all and it should not give you any reason to be a cheater.

It might be that your man failed to understand the relevance and importance of staying together with you and therefore, underestimates the need being together with you most times.

Also it might be that you were the cause of his attitude when both of you are together. What do you do when both of you stay together? What do you do towards ensuring that the moments you spend together are romantic and full of fantasies between both of you? Do you give him the joy and satisfaction of being together with you? Do you have the sense of humour and the ability to be humorous? Do u always make him angry when you are together?

Those are some of the things you must consider while you keep asking why your man does not give you much time as you need from him. When you don't know how to love your man, then you might be the reason why he acts the way he does.

Don't try to change him.
Trying so hard to change his attitude towards you can turn him off because it might be hard for him sacrificing many things that matters most to him.

If your man finds pleasure in doing something more than he finds pleasure been with you, then you should allow him and concentrate more on your life.

Compatibility.
This the most important factor that you consider before you even go into any relationship.
You can never change a man if you are not compatible, when he is more than you in every aspect of life and there is hardly one aspect in your life which makes it possible for you to talk to him and get him listen to you, then you can never get him to stop something.

And so, make sure both of you are compatible if not, it might not work the best for both of you as you will find it hard relating to one another.
Tell your man what you need from him but don't force him to do it, this means separating your need from the means to get it done.

When you do that, you will surely leave him to think and figure out a way to balance your needs with his own needs even without altering the other.

Join him to do what he likes doing.
Most times, this can help because you are now showing interest in what is also of interest to him, that's a nice move.

This will get him to show more concern towards you and create time to talk to you about those things that both of you now enjoy doing, and by so doing, the meeting streak will extend longer and you find yourselves always staying together.

Though this is an alternative and optional means to get what you want from your partner, so if you think you cant engage in it, then you look on to the other solutions here.

Tell him what you want from him.
This means taking the right manner of approach to talk to him about what you want from him.

You can just decide to call him, and tell him how you feel about what he is doing and how it makes you uncomfortable and disturbed. Tell him that you don't need him to stop what he likes doing, but that you are also part of his life and you deserve more of his time too.

So ask him to create more time for you and also let him know that he has all the decisions to make and now decide on what to do.
When you do that, he will see the need to balance you and his activities and given both equal time and if thought well, he will even pay more attention to you.

So those are the little things we have for you on this subject matter, so use the information provided the right way and you will see changes in the way your man relates with you.

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See the reasons why a woman should not ask a man out for date

As a woman, the idea of asking a man out yourself is a step which if taken, can cause you both negative feedbacks, and positive assumptions.

When a woman finds a man whom she likes, it's normally seen that she probably like to approach the man without thinking about any negative effect to what she is doing. Yes it is good and alright to ask a man out, there is nothing bad in doing so, but because of some things being assumed by other people, it attracts many negative effects.

Normally, a woman can ask a man out, and there are many women who also do ask men out, but unfortunately, there are many erroneous definitions given to this act, these erroneous assumptions are being made by many people and also many social circles where they believe that it is actually a wrong idea that a woman should ask a man out on a date. Because of these assumptions, they give negative feedbacks mostly to these women who do ask men out on dates.

Many women are seen facing total rejection and turn off by men who believe in this assumptions. But it's not a bad idea if a woman should do that, there are probably reasons to why she is asking a man out as a woman and though her reasons are not known yet, there is no need taking it the other way round just because she is making the first move.

Some People Describes Women Who Ask Men Out As Sluts, Is That True? And Why?

Yes, there are many men out there who consider women who ask men out as sluts, but is barely a truth and a fact. A slut is always known for finding much comfort in sexual activities with other men whom she likes to get into such acts with, that means she would probably be dating more than one man in her lifetime.
Now some people consider women who asks men out as women who want to go into an intimate relationship which involves sexuality, but that's from their own thinking, so it is considered not to be true.

When a woman is seen asking a man out, there must be a certain reason to that, she has already known what she wants from the man, or the unique quality in the man which made her to ask him out. Now that woman must have known the correct manner of approach she would use to get what she want from the man, so you see that it does not make her a slut, if given a chance, you will know her reasons for asking you out as a man.
But when your definition to a slut is "Someone who asks a man out" , then your answer to this question is that " a woman is not a slut for asking a man out" .

When you compare these two things, a woman asking a man out, and a slut, you see that they have no relation at all, a slut is sexually promiscuous, but a woman asking a man out has another thing in her mind. A woman will probably ask a man out due her own personal reasons which you can never understand except she shares those reasons with you.

Now talking about those reasons why a woman should not ask a man out, there are many reasons, and these reasons come in handy due to those false assumptions being made by other people. Here are some of the false assumptions which gives the " Reasons Why A Woman Should Not Ask a Man Out.

1) They Think She Is Desperate.
Yes, a woman who asks a man out can be falsely accused of desperation which others might still believe to be true, you know when a woman is desperate for a particular thing, she can do anything to get it. For example, when a woman wants money, or she wants someone who can spend on her and take care of her needs, she can be desperate to find someone who can do such things for her, and when she finds someone like that, she can't help her desperation and finally, she end up asking that man out. But it's not the same in all cases, not all women who ask men out are desperate or in need of something.

2 She Is Said To Be Easy
An easy woman can do surprising things which you think they are not right, an easy woman does not think hard before doing a particular thing or taking a particular decision. So a woman asking a man out might be seen to be an easy person who does not have the hard to get syndrome her. That's not true in all cases, and the answer to this assumption is "No, she is not an easy person".

3) She Only Wants a Sexual Relationship
Many times, this assumption is made and that's why women who ask men out get others to think that they only wants a sex partner and not a relationship partner. She is not in desire for sex, so this is certainly untrue.

4) She Is Seen As A Slut.
This another aspect of a false assumption, people think that they are just sexually promiscuous and just want to date many men for sexual pleasures. This is untrue.

5) She Is Just A Sugar Mummy
Do you think that's true? People think that a woman asking a man out means that she just want to get into that position of supporting, helping and even paying that man as far as he agree to be with her. That's one false part of those assumptions being made by the people.

So if you find yourself in an environment where they believe any of such assumptions, then its not a good idea to ask any man out, but in other situations where you find it comfortable to do that, you can ask a man out.

But these assumptions are not actually true, the world is already changing, and here comes 2015, where many things have changed, and today, you see a bunch of women asking men out and getting accepted by those men because its good to be loved and admired by a woman, and when you get such admiration from a woman, you don't need to turn her off and reject her, you should just accept her and with time, you will know her real reasons for such approach on you. Its just a courtesy, and when you get that, you should never try to compare it to sluttish activities.

Today's dating culture is changing, and today, you see that it's either the man, or the woman making the move and they get along in no time. So don't reject a woman who makes an approach to you, you should accept her just the way you will want another woman to accept you if you ask her out.

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How To Keep Your Man Happy (Best 5 Tips)

Sometimes, you find out in many relationships that the man is not always happy with his wife/lover. This is because the woman have never cared to find out how to make her man happy .
So as a woman, these tips are so simple and you will be able to execute them anytime and see your man give you the inscription of the best girlfriend/wife ever. So let's go there.

1. Let Him Alone.
Now you should not do this at all times, but take for instance, when he comes home from work or when he is really tired and stressed about something, what a guy needs most is to be quite and left alone himself for sometime. Now when you as his lady recognises this and you give him that personal space, he will notice it and he will be to greatful.

2. Let Him Be In Control.
Every guy like to feel like he is in control of his woman at all time. So you should try letting go of your own opinions to be right(even though you are right). Allow him to pick your outing spots, the restaurant to launch at, or even the movie to watch. Now let him do all those things without interjecting with your "better idea" as this will make him feel like he is just in charge and that you also trust his actions with no doubt.

3. Surprise Him With Something Sexy.
. Maybe putting on lingerie (sexy underwear) is not something you like doing, don't worry, guys do not need that at all times. But try going outside your comfort zone every now and then, surprise him with some sexy underwear or meet him out for a drink in an especially little LBD(little black dress), he will know you are just doing it for him.

4. Lend Him An Ear.
It is sometimes tempting to take control when your man is in a deep mess, but you should try and pause for a second. Don't try to solve his problems or tell him how you would do if you were in his shoes. So let him talk, you should listen, and be supportive as he tries to get things in order.
So jumping in to fix his problems will not be too good. What he needs is some feminine nurturing, so you should listen to him, give him a hug and let him vent.

5. You should show him that you want him
You don't need to be over sexual before your man knows that you want him. Try subtle things like just slipping your hand into his crotch during a drive home, or at a movie, or under the table at dinner. He will be pleased like no other if he knows how sexually attracted you are to him.

So with these helping tips I outlined, I believe you will use it to make an impact and change in your relationships today.

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For The Ladies: Ways To Avoid Men Who Only Want Sex From You.

In todays world, we women are mostly seen and thought of as merely sex objects because of the way we dress and look sometimes. Some of the women are naturally beautiful and also attract men wherever they go, and many times, the wrong kind of men are being attracted.

Now to my ladies, use these tips to spot the signs of those men who just need you for the purpose of sex and also use these tips to stay away from them. 

  1. Do Not Use Sex To Get A Man's Attention:

As a women , if you always talk about sex in all your conversation or in majority of your conversation, or you always try to behave and act like a woman who needs a man to unzip her bra right away, then all the men will just get the wrong impression about you. It will make those men to define you as a sex object and as someone who is in need of it, this will attract the wrong men to you and land you into a bad relationship. Talking about sex is not the key to having a successful relationship. 

  2. Do Not Wear Too Short Dresses: 

Women are more sexy when they are a little more covered up on a date or a night and so men will always want to take advantage of that. If you always wear low cut tops and short skirts, more is left to mens imagination, but when you cover your shoulders, men will not think about pulling down your materials to kiss them down, if you wear a longer dress, he will not even fantasize about running his hands up your leg, he can only wonder about your sexy underwear if your top is a little higher and so, he barely have those little chances to bump up into action and want you for sex. 

  3. Avoid Sex To Keep His Attention. 

 Talking about sex on dates or on first few meetings will give him a sex imagination, so talk about any other thing and every other thing but not about sex. If he is truely a dating potential, he will surely be interested in you for your good and clean conversation and the things you told him about yourself. It will also make him want to make eye contact with you and if he does not, then maybe he is probably somewhere thinking about someone else. 

  4. Take Things Slow And Mix up Your Dates.

Maybe you just meet that guy in a bar or in the cinema, just exchange numbers and or perhaps, just kiss on the first few dates. Dont just jump into his bed on the first few dates, try "The three dating rule" or even try knowing each other much more better before you jump into the bedroom. Also try not to always opt for the dinner date because it could lead to being a late dinner and result in a sex routine. Try opting for couply things like a walk in the park or just a morning coffee because that will never lead one thing to another. And if you discover that he doesn't want to meetup with you, then it might happen that he does not want to be seen in the public with you. Also try not to go back to his house on the first few dates because it might encourage him to have sex with you and it might result to a walk of shame if he decides not to call for another date. 

  So My Ladies, thats all i have for you today,See you all in my next writeup and don't forget to drop your opinions about this great article. Bye.

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